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writes:I like this guy alot but my confidence is really low, I'm a size 18(uk) and im quite tall so its kinda spread out but do guys really want this especially when they're like 18? any thoughts?
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reader, miss fit +, writes (8 May 2007):
of corse they do! i'm sick of all this stereo typical beauty-means-thin bollocks. i mean have you seen victoria beckham recently, pass me the basin i need to vomit.
stick by your big size-18 guns!!
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reader, aunty jane +, writes (8 May 2007):
 its not the size of the person its what you are inside that counts,
look at the likes of dawn french she is a catch for any man
most size 0's are bitches anyway....if your comfortable with the way you look believe me it shows
just tell yourself you are beautifull and if he dont want you for who you are then he,s not worth it
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): wot really matters is YOU!! However many guys like ladies to have curves. I do. so dont let it bother u.
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reader, honesty +, writes (8 May 2007):
theres nothing wrong with being size 18 remember guys want someting they can hold on to be proud of your sz 18 figure
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (8 May 2007):
 hunni! corse they do! Guys dnt actually go for the iron board image , those bobbly bits that you hate are the things that guys see as sexy bits. OK okokok not al guys are the type hu go for a curvy girl but mose can so dnt worry, as long as you can see your true beauty then so will the guys!
take care!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): different strokes for different fokes plenty of men like curvy women not every one wants a pencil for a girlfriend. don't worry about it stay curvy
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reader, cd206 +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Look around when you're next out in town and count the number of girls bigger than you walking round with guys hanging off their every word. I'm no guy but I've learnt that confidence is the key. You can be the most beautiful girl in the world and be ignored if you don't believe you are, whereas girls who are distinctly less than average are never without a boyfriend. If you believe you're beautiful everyone else will too. Don't feel like you have to change your shape for a guy but if losing weight will make you feel more confident try the weight watchers website, helped me drop a dress size.
CD
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reader, Yos  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 If your size is effecting your confidence the best thing you can do is to do some exercise, and cut out any junk food. I certainly wouldn't recommend a 'diet' (they don't work), but some regular exercise will make a difference and you'll feel better about yourself. Combine that with no McDonalds, KFC etc, and also no sugary fizzy drinks (coke etc). That stuff is cr@p anyway, you don't want to be putting it in your body for lots of reasons!
NJmomabear is right too. Younger boys in particular tend to be superficial in these things. We're very influenced by TV and magazines (and peers) that put impossible images in front of us. We all know these images aren't real: they've been retouched unbelievably, but it takes a while to connect this understanding to our feelings and perceptions. As you get older (and meet older guys), you'll find this becomes less and less of an issue.
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reader, NJmomabear  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Younger people are mostly superficial until they learn. Most younger guys don't like bigger girls so its kinda self-serving. You get to weed out the jerks without having to blink. You might want to consider older men who've been there are require more, looking for the total package. As long as you look your best regardless of your size thats a good start.
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