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female
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writes:My boyfriend is racist. He don't think he is just cuz he got black cuzins. He has a problom with some blacks he went out with a black before and he wasn't racist then but now he is. He fights alot and the people he fights with are black people!. He told me that i can go out with anyone i want as long as it ain't a negro but i told him that i'll go out with who ever i want no matter what color they is. I told him that blacks are just the same as white folks they just a different color. I never thaught that he was racist until last night. I hate racest folks cuz they all the time be talkin bad about other folks thats a different color then them!!!! so what should i do about my boyfriend, i mean i'll love him 4-life but i just can't stand racist people!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya ok but i don't want to dump him!
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reader, Just a Girl...  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 first of all huni can i just say, it isnt *a black* he went out with, its a girl hu just happened to be black. If he has a problem with someone simply by the colour of their skin then this boy has some serious reajusting to do. If the person has affeceted him in a different way then fair enuff but based n the colour of sum1 is not a gud enuff reason you knw.
Gud luck n try to talk to him about it.
take care huni
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (8 May 2007):
 talk to your bf ask him why his racist. tell him how you feel. but make you don't hold back
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): tell him how you feel address the issue don't keep quiet about it. ask him why his racist make sure you tell us what happens
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (8 May 2007):
Ummm..... dump him. Get away from him. And tell him that unless he drops the whole race issue, he might as well never talk to you again.
And if it continues on long enough, or if he represents a real danger to other people, you may be forced to report him to the school administrators.
Then again, if he is your age, chances are he'll get over it eventually.
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