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writes:ok im 20 and last when i was out in a club, i met a really nice guy who asked for my number and said he would call me this week to take me out. Problem is ... i was wearing stomach-holding-in pants so i looked really toned. im scared to meet him now because im actually really flabby and overweight help!!
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reader, Auntie Amber :) +, writes (7 May 2007):
 erm....well.....this boy is onli a friend anyways and hes met u 1ce so u really need 2 get to know him first...if he likes u 4 hu u r then he wont mind ur a bit "flabby" as u say! but just go out nd enjoy urself and if he dnt like ya hes not worth bovering about is he???? xx auntie amber xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 May 2007):
 So go out on a date with him minus the holding in pants and see how it goes. Remember that looks attract us to a person but personality is what holds us on and since it's only a first date it's not like he's going to be seeing you naked anyway so go for something flattering but with normal knickers on so it's a gradual transition and don't panic! Just enjoy this really nice initial stage of dating.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 Well why don't you make a project of getting yourself in shape. If this guy goes in the opposite direction because you are heavier than he thought, then the next one certainly won't. Besides you'll feel better about yourself anyway.
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