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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We kissed and I fell in love with him. But he's seeing someone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Me and this boy, we have been mates 4 quite a long time now but the other night we shared a passionate kiss and i think i have fallen in love! But as young people, we have this thing called meeting (snogging) and he is meeting this girl which just ...

I've been fooling around with this guy, but he doesn't want me to tell anyone, should I carry on seeing him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and I've been sorta seeing this guy [we'll call him A] for a month now. He hasn't asked me out yet and we've fooled around but haven't had sex. I'm really starting to like A more and more but is scared that he might just be using me. A is a ...

My boyfriend's gone away and won't get in touch...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is away at the moment but promised to keep in touch I have text a few times I haven't heard from him all weekend This isn't like him I tried to call him earlier and no answer My battery went so i tried to call off a friends phone he ...

How can I get my ex teacher to go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am going to be 20 in nine months. I am in love with a former high school teacher who is going to be 30 in nine months. I had him as a sophomore for political science and economics. That is when I fell in love with him. To keep his company, I ...

I found hair in our bed that is NOT mine, my boyfriend won't explain, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I've been having some problems with my boyfriend lately. we've been together for quite a while now. He's been trying to make up what he did to me, and we've been seeing each other and trying to get our relationship back to normal. Just yesterday we ...

My dad used to hurt me and I can't let anyone get close to me, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - gee...well i've never actually used one of these before. um...hiya, im 17 and i went out with this guy for 2 years who i've recently broken up with. and he was great, y'know? and i'm pretty sure i loved him but the thing is i got terrified of how ...

I'm shy and need tips on flirting with a friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Theres this boy I like and I've known him since I was 7 and now I'm 13 and so is he. When we where younger we use to be pretty much best friends but when we went up to secondry school, I started to fancy him. But now its like we barely know eachothe...

She dumped me and is with someone else but says she still loves me, do I try to move on or try to get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - ok, I am not together with my girl anymore. she has gotten into something with another guy and everything. she broke it off with me. I still love her and i want her back. I could let this go, but she's not letting me. she still wants to talk with me ...

I always call her during holidays, I feel it's a one sided situation. Should I keep waiting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - My friend who I fancy for over a year now has still not contacted me over xmas. I always ring her durin holidays. I Don't Wanna ring her cause I just feel ltm it's a one sided thing. I really wanted to take her out. I'm nuts about her. Any ideas? ...

I told a girl I liked her over the internet and she flipped out, but I think it was someone else I was talking to, how do I find out if she does like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - i was talkin to the girl im maddlly inlove with - and i sed hi online to her and asked her about ice skating, becoz i wanted to teke her out somewhere nice where i could tell her how i feel. Insttead she completely flipped saying how much stress s...

His ex gf is making me feel uneasy! Am I just jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Been with 'my boyf 3 months. We're very happy. However, his ex he split up with him '2 yrs ago is makin me feel uneasy They have a dog 2geva who she see's regularly. So they call and txt regarding that. She vivited im xmas mornin. She sent him ...

How do you 'grind' dance?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Okay.This is my first time doing this sort of thing so here i go. A guy i really like is going to ask me to a dance.(at least, thats what he is telling everyone) The dance is in two weeks. my school does alot of grinding and i just don't know h...

We just broke up. If you don't talk for a few months will he forget you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. Is it better to not talk for a few months, until I am over him? Do feelings just disappear or if its a real connection will they still be there? Or is it better to occasionally talk so he doesn't ...

My BF doesn't like kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a not-too-happy-but loving relationship for 4 years, with a 1 year distance relationship at the beginning. When I have finally moved in with my boyfriend our sex life became cooler after a few weeks. Now (3 years afterwards)he ...

Problems with her ex bf--he keeps contacting her and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I have been in my present relationship for a period of about 2 and half years. All is fine, we live together and in nearly all areas of our relationship we get on well, except one! Before we meet she had split with a guy 3 months previously who, she ...

What do I do? Stay with my current bf or get back with my ex when he comes here, to live?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I moved to Australia 6 months ago and broke up with my fiance of a year and a half to do so, i have now found another boyfriend who i have fallen for. My ex fiancee rang me up today from home and told me he misses me and is going move to Australia ...

Help! My boyfriend of three and half years is moving interstate for work and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - help!!! my boyfriend of three and half years is moving interstate for work and i dont know wat to do. He is my very best friend in the whole world and i just dont know how i will survive without him. I dont know whether or not i should go with him. ...

Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship? Could this make you more open to abusers? At what stage is it safe to let someone know that you were in an abusive relationship? ...

We got back together again but I feel like I made a big mistake. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - i broke up withmy boyfriend of 4 years but we got back together after about 4 weeks now been together a further 3 months, i feel like i made a mistake i really like this guy (who i was seeing whilst we were apart) and i feel like i just need to be ...

I don't want to live with him and his family..now he threatens we will break up! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I m acctually living a dilemma I recently knew someone who asked me for marriage quite rapidly I was a bit confused ,its true that he is a good guy who has many good qualities ,he works ,he is well educated but he comes from a diffrent...

I slowed things down a notch between us, but don't want him dating others. What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Hey I was just wondering I met this guy on myspace and he lives here in my state and it will be easy for us to meet question is I hardly know this guy we've known each other for months but haven't really talked much due to me not having his yahoo sn ...

He dumped me and now I find myself...going past his place everyday to see if he's in...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Ok you lot will think im a complete idiot here but im not. I was kind of seeing this guy he was a few years older than me and to be honest ive never before had a relationship and this guy was so special i was so happy to have a guy like me. anyway c...

Help me..does it sound like he really likes me or is he playing/using me once again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, When I was 18 I really liked this boy a lot and we ended up having sex but then after we did have sex he ignored me and I noticed he flirted with another girl. Then some time after I found out I was pregnant I tried te...

After a four year long distance relationship..he dumped me the 2nd time we actually met up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a relation for four years. It was long distance relationship. He used to call me more than once a day. The second day we met, he said he can't continue on this relationship anymore. and he hated himself. This hurts me a lot. how can ...

I'll do a lot to make her happy but I feel our relationship slipping away..help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - hi, im 20 and my g/f is 19. i have been with her for just over a year now. i really love my g/f so much and i would do anything in this world to make her happy. if shes ill i do my best to bring her things to make her feel better. if shes unhapy ...

My boyfriend is really bossy and overbearing-what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is really bossy and overbearing, he constantly tells me what he thinks is the right way to do things, and if it is not done like this then i am wrong. i am always changing how i do things to make him happy. but he always seems to find ...

Upon meeting up with him--I got shy and awkward. I think it put him off! How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Well, this old classmate and i who never talked back in school recently started talking online. we got quite close, it was quite apparent we liked each other's company, although until now, i was convinced both of us just considered each other just ...

He's shy--So how can I let him know that I want him to ask me out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

30 December 2007 (?) - I have feelings for my friend of over a year and recently he admited he has feelings for me to. It is really important for me that he asks me out because he is shy and it would show me that he cares about me as much as I do him and it would show me ...

Is he stringing me along or trying to breakup with me in a nice way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I dated a guy for four months. While that may not seem like a long time, we had a strong connection, all our friends also said we were perfect for eachother. Out of the blue he broke up with me. To add to us breaking up, we live an hour apart, saw ...

I was hurt - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm in love with my bestfriend.... He knows and show my love for him but suddenly he admitted that he had a gf but he wants me stay the same, the way i treated him... Our previous plan is that i'll get him in our country and i'll find him job here ...

How do you get over an abusive relationship when you're being framed as the crazy person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me. This relationship has lasted over a year. It was at first the greatest thing I had, but became abusive - I seemed to be blind and held onto it because I remembered his kind self at the beginning and hoped he ...

What can I do to get my bf to come here to live?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Hi, im gay, soon to be 17...and am in like my fourth proper serious relationship. Ive been with him since July - and hes definately the best. Just so perfect, 21, sexy, i wont go into cos it might put some people off answerin but yeah he makes me ...

In love with my best friend but he doesn't know what he wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I think that I've fallen in love with my best friend, and I just won't admit it. I told him that I liked him and he likes me back but he also likes some other girl who is slutty. He doesn't know what he wants, he doesn't know if he wants a ...

I'm not sure if I 'love her' and am worried I am rushing into things too fast here. Any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Hi there I'm going out with this girl in my year at school and things so far are going good. We've gotten close really quick but, e.g. i've not even been going out with her a month and we've alredy went further than getting off (snogging) an the f...

How do I tell her I don't want sex, without her thinking there's another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Ok as strange as this might sound i am not really interested in having sex, don't get me wrong i enjoy it very much and my girlfriend has a very high sex drive so we constantly have sex. the problem however is that no matter how safe we are i wo...

I'm 15 and we're going on our first date. I need help with dating tips...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - okay, well im a 15 atm was asked out by this guy, also 15, a couple of days ago, and sayed yes as iv liked him for ages. so now i guess we go out, the problem is i never really had a proper boyfried before, and im not sure how to react around h...

I want to be able to get better at dating relationships, how would I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I've got this problem. It's not a sex/relationships type problem, more a social skills/confidence one. I'm a 21-year-old man from England, have a good social life and enjoy my work, but I have confidence issues. People say my social skills ar...

I am so scared to ask boys out because I feel they will reject me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am scared to ask boys out as i am afraid they will say no. because i am fat and ugly. I don't know what to do. I always have this same dream about going out with this boy i really fancy and we end up kissing in the end. but to make matters worse. ...