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writes:i was talkin to the girl im maddlly inlove with - and i sed hi online to herand asked her about ice skating, becoz i wanted to teke her out somewhere nice where i could tell her how i feel. Insttead she completely flipped saying how much stress she was under so much stress becoz its her last year at skl, and shes reli not interested.i was confused and hurt but then i realised something. One of her best m8s - a guy.he told me he fell inlove with her last year but now he has a girl friend. i dont know this for sure - but i think he likes the girl too and that it was him i was speeking tohow do i find out if it was him or not without upseting her more if it was her?
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (11 January 2008):
You need to speak with her in person to see how things are between you, dont ask her to meet up, instead if theres a place you both go (like school) then go there, find her and get to talking (make it appear casualgirls dont want to be hounded). The purpose of the conversation is to establish whether you are still friends and hopefully you can get back to chatting on the net. Then you can plan your next move
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reader, uh oh +, writes (1 January 2008):
uh oh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is i did apologise, about 7 different time, i left her messages and everything, but she doesnt often reply :S
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (1 January 2008):
you could try apologising to her about it for the puropose of finding out whether or not it was her. If it wasnt her then there is no way of finding out if she likes you other than asking her (or asking her out).
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