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*reamingz
writes:Theres this boy I like and I've known him since I was 7 and now I'm 13 and so is he. When we where younger we use to be pretty much best friends but when we went up to secondry school, I started to fancy him.But now its like we barely know eachother, we never talk (well rarely) its so sad. But I just can't talk to him myself, when ever I try I mumble and go red. Could you help me to try and hint that I like him without giving stuff to him! I'm so shy! like flirting tips maybe? nothing to silly please! hes a shy guy :) I'd be so gratefull thanks x
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Madeleine,If you still go on here...This is my new account okay?Love tasha xxx
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (17 April 2008):
Oh and madz,
Im not that out going!
You know what im like around Paul!
I just go hyper =-\ Its bad
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reader, tytoalba +, writes (1 January 2008):
 if you're afraid to do certain things, you could go to the movies with some friends
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reader, tishatasha +, writes (31 December 2007):
 Get a close friend to ask him out for you or for them to hint you like him!
Thats what I would do...
from Tishatasha.
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reader, Dreamingz +, writes (31 December 2007):
Dreamingz is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks! :) Your really good a giving advice :) I think I'll try writing something that he will only know...just trying to think what :) thanks again.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (31 December 2007):
 Friends make the best partners...My current boyfriend and I actually dated when we were your age...We were best friends all throughout school, lost touch when we left school, got in touch 18 months ago, and have been together ever since!
The only way to stop agonising over whether he likes you or not is to take the plunge and ask him. If you can't do it face to face, write him a note. You don't have to sign it if you don't want to leave any evidence that others might see, just put your initial, or write something only he would know that you wrote it.
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reader, Dreamingz +, writes (31 December 2007):
Dreamingz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh yeah I forgot to add I think I catch him looking at me! but its irrating I'm not in many clases as him, French, Germen, R.E :)
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reader, Dreamingz +, writes (31 December 2007):
Dreamingz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionReally? :) My friend is the only one who knows about it, well and you really, she keeps saying just ask him out! but I'm like NOOO! argh, shes really outgoing! she use to fancy him too but in Primary School! But he said no to her. Its so weird fancying a ex-best friend :S
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reader, starfairy +, writes (31 December 2007):
Yeah that's a big sign! Go for it :o)
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reader, Dreamingz +, writes (31 December 2007):
Dreamingz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ! I'm not sure if he "likes me" urm, he is kinda red faced and nervous around me..is that a sign?
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reader, starfairy +, writes (31 December 2007):
The best way to flirt if you're shy is with the eyes. Get his attention and hold his gaze for a little longer than you normally would.
That'll get him thinking.
But you're going to have to get over this fear of talking to him if you want to get somewhere! You used to be good friends, so what if you lost touch for a while? Invite him over to watch a dvd, "for old times sake", or something else that you both used to enjoy doing. Find your common ground, bring up interests you share, once you have something to talk about, you'll be fine!
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