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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend gets messages from sex sites, but denies being a member, says they are random. Is he lying??

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend gets these instant messages from sex sites, stating "hey I liked your profile, if you want to see my webcam pics you can contact me at...." He says they are just random junk mail that everyone gets. I've got a yahoo account and I ...

The guy I fancy, fancies my friend, but she doesn't fancy him back. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I have really fancied this guy for ages and i thot he liked me too so i asked him out he sed no but still wanted to be friends.We became really good friends and he sed he had somthing he wanted to tell me.He told me he fancied Lauren my best mate ...

Now dating for 4 months, would it be appropriate to touch her breasts and how to do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - well iv been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months nw.. we havent done anything except meet.. i was wonderin as d 1st small move could i ''top'' her.. top means feeling the breasts... ok the problem is i dont no how?? please help.....

Life is getting me down, how do I change things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - This may sound ridiculous but it's quite a big issue for me at the minute. The thing is i'm 17 years old and live at home with my father and sister. This year I have been under immense stress it's just been a really tough time. Now I know I coul...

I don't cope with missing him very well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - i have been with my bf 18 months and im 23 This is my first relationship My boyfriend is great and i love him so much He went away today to spend the christmas holidays with his kids I know it sounds silly but I miss him so much it hurts and i get ...

We're friends, kind of ex's, and I'm very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - i've met this guy about 4 months ago. we hit it off really, really well. we talked on the phone everday. we hung out almost all the time. everything was wonderful and i was happy to have met him. i heard he tells his friends about me all the time. ...

We hardly find topics for conversations. Could you suggest some ideas, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - when i am with by bf i don't have anything to talk to and he doesnt talk but i love him, could you suggest some ideas, please...

I'd decided to ask her out but now I'm losing my nerve

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - Ok, i'm really lost right now. I've decided to ask a girl out tomorrow. The last day before the two week break from school. I decided this during the weekend. Before, we were talking a lot, and I was seeing her in the halls all the time. This week ...

How can I tell if she still loves and wants me after we've broken up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year. Thing between us where pretty good we had a few arguements.She broke up with once because she said "I was not be serious with and she couldn't trust me." we broke for a while but go back ...

I like him alot, how do I tell if he likes me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6185 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - so..... i like this guy (a lot) and we get on really well. but i dont know if he likes me back as more than just a friend. when we're around each other we're constantly laughing and he genuinely seems to enjoy my company, but i don't want to let him ...

I'm 14 and a virgin, and feeling very pressured by my friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - i am 14 and there are not many virgins in my year i am a virgin and i feel presured into having sex all my freinds have either been fingerd or wanked of someone i havent. am i a freak? or are "they too youg too soon" is it me or everyone else? a boy ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend like me going out with him and his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend doesnt like going out with me and his mates together but i dont know why. His mates are fine with me and I talk to his mates at school. He doesnt go to my school anymore because he left after GCSEs and i began at the school 2 years ...

My boyfreind sent a suspicious email, is he cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - My normally well-behaved boyfriend said this in an email to one of his friends: "i apologise...for drunken email that is....haven't been this pasted in long time...maybe one week....also resolve to sleep with random chicks hahah..." Sho...

If we become physically intimate in the day of the conference, would it be a one time wonder or could we continue when we return home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Lately a coworker and I have been wanting to become more intimate. We met at work and have become friends and have done some fun things together. He and I will be going to a work conference. I think that this would be the time to go to bed together. ...

Some advice on a good blow job, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - hey everyone, i'd just like to thank you all for your help in the past, but i have another query.. I posted a letter a few weeks ago askin for advce on giving a bj as ive never done it before. I appreciate your replies, but it has come down to it ...

I've heard my Mom having sex with her boyfriend in our house, yet I'm 18 and not allowed to have sex with my boyfriend. How do I talk her round?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I just turned 18 last month. My bf and I have been dating a while. We are both virgins. We both have expressed a desire to have sex. I have decided that I want the first time to be in my bed. I think my room is good because we both would be co...

He became my best friend and we were about to kiss when his sister walked in. When he called me later I was too busy to respond, what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I’m 18 and a year ago I met this boy (who is also 18) who just appeared to come into my life at first I didn't know him but then gradually we started talking and became friends then he turned out to be my male best friend cause he just ...

Are we officially a couple or not??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - hes 32 me 22 we both kno we both like each another cuz we hav told 1 another but neither 1 of us hav cleared the air weather or not were bf/gf but the last time we chilled he asked me if i would go out wit him sumtime and i said yea well 3 days ago ...

His flirting has gone too far but now he's ignored me for 3 days, what does it all mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I'm 13 years old and I'm a girl. I have two questions.... This guy who is also 13 has been bugging and flirting with me, but one time he took it too far. At the end of the day I was by my locker talking to my friend and he rubs my shoulder and says ...

Will him being a Muslim prevent us to... date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - theres a new guy at my school, really nice and flirty hes got my msn. we flirt constantly online and then calm down a bit in school. now i really wanna go out with him and i think he wants to go out with me.... our problem is he is a muslim...an...

How many times is it appropriate to call your partner? He complains I whether call too often or too rare.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Hey everyone, just wondering... me and my boyfriend see each other about 4 days a week i usually stay over and we just do things together... he says that we see each other too much and that's why sometimes we fight (we don't fight often!) an...

I have just moved in together with my long distance partner, and paradoxically we're still distant. How do I bridge this distance? Does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I met a man and we had a long distance relationship for over five years while we settled our divorces and children's issues. We have just now both relocated to a new state and moved in together. He is adjusting to his new job and I have been setting ...

Since we became serious, he gave up his casual relation but they still maintain contact. Should I forbid him to see/text her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I met my current boyfriend about a year ago. When we met he was having what I think was a casual relationship with another girl. He continued to see her whilst we were getting to know one another but once we got serious he ended it with her. My ...

After my boyfriend helped out my financial problems by allowing us to move in together, I'm starting to feel like I'm losing my independence! Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I was asked to move out of my family home, even though my Mum knew I couldn't afford it. I was fresh out of university and building up my career, but was at the very bottom of the ladder and very badly paid. Plus I have very large debts from ...

I'm a virgin with low self esteem, all my friends are in relationships but me, how do I find a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - im 23 soon to be 24, ive never had a boyfriend,i was kind of seeing this guy and then it finished as i would not sleep with him untill i was sure. im still a virgin, all i can see in myself is im fat and ugly even tho my friends say im not fat or ...

We've been together 9 years and he hasn't said he loves me, how can I be sure he does love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - i am 27 years old....and i have a live in partner now...i really love him and i do anything to make hes happy..but in 9 years we been together...he cannot say to me that he loves me....how can i sure that he loves me even with out saying that he ...

I met him online and think we are very well matched, but he has an unusual situation with an ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I met a guy who is 32, and i am 48 through a respectable online profile a week or so ago, we spoke regularly and for sometimes hours on end finding we hit it off extremely well, i knew he had children from a previous marriage 2 boys and he said he ...

I have strong feelings for this boy, but he decided we can only be friends after hearing deceitful rumours about me. What next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - A guy that i have been seeing for the past 4 weeks, has decided we can only be friends. He made this decision after hearing different rumours about me which are all lies. I have strong feelings for this guy i do not know what to do. How do i move ...

I still love my pregnant ex, but she has a new boyfriend. Do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - My ex girl friend is pregnant and im still in love with her. but she also has a boy friend to. what do i do??...

I'm worried that my friends will humiliate me the next day if she rejects my invitation, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - Ok, the situation is, i'm going to ask out a girl on Thursday, the last day before Christmas break, for two weeks. Ok, so that was my plan. Cause there's not a good chance that she'll say yes, as a matter of fact I haven't the faintest idea what...

When is it adequate to kiss a person for the first time? I want to, but should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - How do you decide if you should to kiss a guy yet? I've kissed people before, I just mean, how do you know if you are ready with a new person. I feel like I want to but I don't know if I should, even though he always asks me....

My new girlfriend has had more sexual partners than me and I worry I'm not good enough

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - Hi,i have just started going out with someone a year older than me, who has had a few more sexual partners than me and i get real worried that i am not good enough. i haven't made her cum yet, but she tells me that she doesn't often and it is hard ...

6 years on I still love my college sweetheart, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - Although I've had many relationships, the one that mattered the most to me was my college sweetheart. We only dated for 8 months, but he was the only person I ever loved. When he broke up with me, I was devistated, I never felt such a crushing ...