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writes:I have been in a relation for four years. It was long distance relationship. He used to call me more than once a day. The second day we met, he said he can't continue on this relationship anymore. and he hated himself. This hurts me a lot. how can someone changes after this period of time when he is too much into a lady??
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (31 December 2007):
 It may not be that he has changed, but realized that maintaining that kind of a relationship is too complicated and traumatic. He hates himself because he has obviously found finishing the relationship extremely difficult, but on balance less difficult that continuing with it. I think you will have to respect his decision and try to move on, and in time you may feel some relief yourself and also find someone more accessible.
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