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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I'm not very confident but think he likes me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3427 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while now and I think he's liked me even before I started to like him (romantically, I've always liked him as a person since I've met him). But the thing is, I don't actually know if he likes me. What should I even do about ...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

Is there any chance we could end up with a deeper relationship? Am I fool thinking I can wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Figure I might just see if any old souls can offer wisdom. Almost a year ago now, I met a girl in an interesting state of mind, who recently broke up with her boyfriend. We work together at a late night restaurant which I rent an apartment above,...

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we ...

I'm not planning on giving up on her.So advice please on how to get closer to her, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

29 May 2015 (M) - Close friends in high school for 3 years I occassionally asked her to movies via whatsapp, she said yes but with friends and that she may had a family trip. I stupidly sent her that i want es a one on one date. She replied: ooh, i thought it would...

I have a crush on her, but is she just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hello, So I am a lady who dates ladies. I have this amazingly gorgeous co-worker who isn't on my team but in my department and sits around the hallway from me. I honestly have no idea if she's straight/gay/bi, in a relationship, etc. She doesn't...

Is she rejecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3455 days ago

29 May 2015 (M) - Very close friends in high school. We went on our first date, went pretty well. Pretty standart one After that, she didn't change the way she acts towards me in school. Asked for a second date. She couldn't. Asked for the following week. S...

Help! I want him to be my boyfriend, but I don't know how to guide him in my direction.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - Its this boy I like at my aunties church. He is so freak in cute, we use to be friends and talk all the time, but sense we haven't seen each other in a while its hard. Because we have both grown up and he has gotten cuter and now its hard to even ...

Not sure how she feels. But should I try to do some extra nice things for this customer, who I really like, for when she gets back from trip to Japan?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) We started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

Is there any way of trying to get her attention without it seeming really creepy lol?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - Hello I know this is going to sound kinda creepy but I thought I'd ask anyway. There is this girl, that I barely know, but I have her on Facebook. I really want to go out with her, she seems exactly like my type but I think its odd to just mess...

I didn't like him, now I do, how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3458 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I like this guy who's friend told me he liked me a few months ago I didn't like him at the time I just thought he was cute but now that I'm starting to pay a little bit more attention to him I actually like him how do I tell him?...

He made me feel special ... and then he let me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Last week, a guy told me that he liked me. I didn't really have feelings for him, but now when I think about it, he makes me happy and I think I'm starting to like him.. The problem is, this week our friends started playing a game of 'who you'd ...

Is he crushing on me or just being super friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - There’s this guy I used to work with, I now work for another company but in the same building and the same floor as the guy does, well, he passes by my office everyday and takes the stairs when there’s an elevator he could take that’s even closer to ...

I asked my crush if he had someone and he said no but his facebook shows otherwise. Do I let him know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I asked my crush months ago, did he have a gf, wife etc he said no, well I go on facebook and see a pic of him and his g/f (based off the comments, its his g/f)....dated 12/17/2014......now as of now, me and him are still talking and getting to know ...

Should I stay away from where he works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I was seeing this guy back in February. He owned a bar where I worked which we went into on weekend for drinks. My friends told me he liked me but I didn't really pay him too much attention. On New Years Eve, my friend and I went to his bar and ...

Seven days later, is there a reason he hasn't asked me for another date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - So I went on a date with a guy about a week ago. He picked me up, and we went out for a few drinks and came home relatively early because he had work the next day and had already been at a dinner. When we were both in the car together, we kept ...

Feeling hurt and confused. We are not official. Yet why tell me had a date? was it said to get a reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts, There is a guy that I have been seeing. Its not official or anything. We kiss, go out, go to each other homes etc. He has always described me as his part time woman which i feel like for the time but I want to take it to the next leve...

I like him but am too scared to ask him out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3461 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - I've liked the same guy for a while now and we talk alot of thhe time, sometimes more to each other then our close friends. I really want to be in a relationship with this person but am too scared to ask him out and (if he did like me) then same for ...

How do I express my feelings to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3458 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - dear cupids, Iam almost 19 now and falling in love is common at these stages. The same happened with me. this girl entered in my life as an angel. she is awesome. whenever she is around ,my world goes upside down. I think she too likes me as many ...

Things have been volatile. She's been a flirt with someone one else. I've been angry. So where to now with our relationship? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

22 May 2015 (M) - HI people. I need advice. I accidentally found a message from my girlfriend that a guy sent her asking "what she would like him to do ;)". setting aside the winky face, this could have been innocent or harmless flirting,so I waited to see if...

What is he trying to imply? He sent me back a message saying ''love,love,serve''

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I wrote this man and said we are attracted to each other, he wrote me back and said love, love, serve. I know that is a tennis term, but what does he mean?...

How can I change him over to being just my buddy, instead of his snuggle buddy? It's just snuggles and cuddles, nothing more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3451 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I have this casual snuggle buddy thing going on, but I think I'm taking advantage of him? something seems unbalanced in my mind. Anyways we've been friends for about three months and oddly enough we started out being cuddle buddies. whi...

Shall I encourage him to communicate, give him space or abandon trying? What is the best way to encourage a male introvert to communicate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3463 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - Hello! This is kind of awkward, but I've got nothing to lose. Please forgive me because of my English, it is not my mother tongue. I've liked an introvert guy in my class for a long time now. I(21/f) have a feeling that he(22/m) is also interes...

Is my Bf too good to be true? I like him, my family don't like him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I just recently got into a relationship with this guy. I've had a thing for him a long time and he has too. so we decided to make it official. The problem is he is a bad boy. Half of my family doesn't even like him already, without even kno...

Why is he now so much more responsive, in a positive way, to everything I say now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hi, me and this guy have been friends for 7 months.. We talk everyday but our conversations were short but recently, the conversations have been long and he laughs at nearly everything i say. whereas before he never did that and i'm more happ...

How can I get over him? I am so hurt about the way he's communicated with me, and rejected me, in the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3464 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - So I got with this guy at the start of freshers week in September, he's a friend of my housemate, he doesn't remember it and I don't remember much. Anyway my other housemate who likes to stir things keep on snapchatting photos of me to him so event...

Don't want to look desperate but I want to know her better . How should I approach her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

20 May 2015 (M) - there's this girl in this extraclass i go to after school. there are eleven students there i think... including her and i dont know nobody over there. She might be same ages as me.I got a crush on her....i read a little “understanding b...

Why do you think I haven't heard from her? Is she waiting till I contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3464 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - So I took a girl out on a date almost a week ago. She was very confident and poised and calm. She was definitely flirting with me, and when we were in the car she would look at me all the time and smile and when I would drive fast she would sa...

I'm wondering if it'd be weird from a female prospective if I pursued this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

20 May 2015 (M) - I feel stupid right now... SO I'm at the library and a girl I haven't seen in a long time and actually didn't remember walks up to me and basically acknowledges that she remembers me from church, etc. We had a very brief chat and I ended things with ...

Should I text him, or just leave it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Hi I usually answer problems as an auntie on this website, but I have a question of my own. I have been flirting with a man I like for about a year. He has done most of the flirting, I'm not good in being forward, but I do let him know his attentio...

Should I be feeling guilty? She got offended because I WANTED to use a condom

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

19 May 2015 (?) - I really am losing faith in humanity. Here goes: I’m 26, and a mature(ish) student at University. I recently got with a girl who I’d had my eye on for some time. We’d been hanging about in the same group of friends for several months and would fl...

Do I unfriend her? Talk to my Bf? My Bf has been avoiding me for last few months. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards...

How can he say he likes me but he doesn't 'like' my photos on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have a guy I like and I was just wondering if this is normal behavior... so there's this guy who i like and who likes me but we are friends. lately i have noticed that he likes all the photos belonging to the girls in his Fac...

I think this older man might fancy me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Hi my question is about a man I know. I can't figer out if he likes me or not, I know him from Church and he is a good bit older 40s. He is always friendly and helpful towards me and gives me little gifts now and then, such as books I might li...

Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Or is he stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Recently my ex came around again after breaking up with the new girlfriend we started talking slowly ... and the next thing you know we hung out together and of course that lead to sex. he...

Where am I going wrong with men? One bad experience after another (:

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - Hi guys, short question (hopefully). Where am I going wrong with men???? I know I'm only young, but the majority of experiences I have had have been bad and the men have done me over. I know I'm quite a nice person I think I trust people so...

She is 42 years old. What do I need to consider when I go on our first date together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

14 May 2015 (F) - Modnote: later correction made to title based on followup post by the Original Poster .................. Hello everyone I am dyslexic with a So if my English is hard to reaped I apologize. Well everyone I been out from seven years I dated wom...

I met this man and the chemistry was intense, so what happened next was ............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid.. Long story short, have been texting 24/7 with a Guy i met 2 weeks ago. We been out together with friends 3times partying And made out once(french kissing). He is crazy in the head And i completely get his sick sense of humour. We t...

Every time I think about him I feel ten times worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

13 May 2015 (F) - I've got depression, dropped out of uni due to it and am stuck back at home again with an abusive family due to financial reasons. I have no friends but I did meet a guy through temp work, who's older, in his thirties. He was bullying and rud...

I dated and broke up with brother 1. Now brother 2 is pursuing me. Is it wrong and what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - Is it wrong to be with someone who pushed you away for a very long time and because you were with his brother and he felt jealous and now he wants you???? I am in love with him but i'm confused... His brother hates me for telling him what happene...

My boyfriend has stopped talking to me! Doesn't he like me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm going through this awful time with a guy! So I've known him over a year and during that time we had a break then got talking again. Things have been so nice.. He took me out and got me ice cream, chocolate and comes all the wa...

I want to tell my friend that I've had a crush on him for awhile but I'm afraid he won't feel the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3472 days ago

12 May 2015 (F) - I want to tell my friend that I've had a crush on him since hs but I'm scared he'll turn me down and it would be awkward. We are good friends so he has told me about some of his past relationships and how he feels like there's no one compatible with ...

Why didn't he end up texting me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

11 May 2015 (F) - I was out one night with my friend at a bar and this guy opposite me kept looking at me, we proceeded to go to a club very near by and I turned around and not long after, he was coming into the club as well. As the night went on I saw him again. H...

How do I approach a shy guy and ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

11 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I broke up from a very long relationship few months back. My ex is a very confident person which attracted me to him in the first place, but he is so confident that he can get any girl he wants, he treats me like shit all the time, ...

Any suggestions as to whether I should ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

11 May 2015 (M) - Should I ask her out. There's a girl I like and she just started talking to me and would smile everytime I look at her. She sits there and stares at me. She takes my stuff and wears it. She will stop in the middle of the hallway and start a c...

Nobody turned up to my leaving party, including the guy I fancy. I'm so embarassed, should I confront them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

10 May 2015 (F) - So after working hard in job for four years, I started to realise I wasn't getting anywhere and thought I could make more of myself. I found a really good new job that I haven't started yet, and handed my notice in at work, giving myself 2 weeks off ...

I've fallen for a gay man and I always thought I was straight. How can I explain this to family and friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

10 May 2015 (M) - Okay so I thought I was straight until about 8 months ago. I was in a relationship with a girl we broke up cause she cheated. I got over it, sort of slept with a few girls and then one day I come across this guy on Facebook. For some reason I was...

Clearly we have some kind of emotional affair going on but what now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - I met a guy 3yrs ago through a mutual friend, there seemed to be an instant attraction on both sides the chat was flowing and then he slips out that he has a girlfriend, gutted! Anyway I decided right then to back off. He lives over 2 hrs away ...

Any tips to help a male virgin become a man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

9 May 2015 (M) - I'm 24 and I'm a male virgin who hasn't kissed a girl and hasn't been on a date. I really would like to change that, I wish I could be a stud. It's a little bit difficult since I'm far from tall, dark and handsome. Even the girls in my size...

I'm starting to worry about our relationship. How can it last the summer considering our communication issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) - Hi, I am 14 and in a almost 4 month relationship with a guy that I like very much, I feel like I love him. Anyways, the reason I am here is because since the beginning of the relationship we we both really liked each other but we're sort of awkwa...