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*ellinda
writes:hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards me... i felt like he is avoiding me since last december. i've also noticed him becoming more close to her by liking and commenting more of her posts.. Last month i was completely broken when he told me she is an amazing lady.. i wonder whether she is telling to my bf any gossips about me, because he has been avoiding me for last few months.. what should i do? should i unfriend her from facebook?
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reader, bellinda +, writes (19 May 2015):
bellinda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks honeypie.. your advice is really good & helpful...
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 May 2015):
 1. You can't steal a person. So this "friend" didn't "steal" him from you. For whatever reason your BF isn't the faithful type and HE wouldn't be LOOKING elsewhere if you two were doing fine and if he was a one-woman- kind of guy.
2. Block HER, delete HER from your FB. When you see her on campus ignore her. She obviously is not really a good friend.
3. You say your BF had been avoiding you for the last couple of months... don't you think ACTIONS speak louder than words? IF he is AVOIDING you, he is OVER you. He hasn't had the GUTS to break up with you, so instead he "just" avoided you thinking you would "get" the point.
4. Tell him good luck, and then block and delete him. HE is not treating you like a BF should treat a GF, so WHY stick around? Why waste any more time on this guy?
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reader, bellinda +, writes (19 May 2015):
bellinda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate:- my bf is my college-mate and we are both pursuing our bachelor's degree. i should mention here that even though he avoids me many a times,he always used to initiate a conversation with me when i'm online. but still im feeling he is keeping a distance from me even when we chat together. also please provide advice on how should i treat that girl who stole away my bf because im going to meet her again when the college re-opens.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 May 2015):
 Is your relationship with your boyfriend mainly online, or do you get the chance together in real life.
If you are in a relationship with your boyfriend online, and rarely, or never, meet face to face it is time to ask him what his intentions are. When does he intend to actually spend some time with you in person, and what he envisages for the future.
If he still avoids you, or avoids answering questions, then you need to accept he was never serious, and then block him on all social media, and not have anything further to do with him.
If you and your boyfriend used to meet face to face and he has been avoiding you since December then you need to accept your relationship is probably over, and that he is just too spineless to actually tell you.
Again, block his number, block him on social media and move on.
Good luck!
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