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writes:I'm 24 and I'm a male virgin who hasn't kissed a girl and hasn't been on a date. I really would like to change that, I wish I could be a stud. It's a little bit difficult since I'm far from tall, dark and handsome. Even the girls in my size and looks range turn me down. The fellow geeks who are women mostly want to stay friends. (Which is fine)I really want to lose my virginity by 25 ( which happens in July). I'd like to have girlfriend but I kind of doubt a girl would want to be with me. It's merely judging by my track record. I've had some very straight forward rejections and some that were downright cruel that I wouldn't talk to girls for weeks. I don't want to pay for it and I don't want a one night stand. Most people I meet think I'm funny, and I can talk to women as far as having a decent conversation. Any tips on how to have seduce a lovely girl and go on dates and maybe start a relationship? Being me, a tubby ugly geeky guy hasn't resulted in any success. I want to finally become a man; I'm just frustrated with being a failure. Most guys can do it, and I can't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2015): Let me just say this, not being a Virgin does not make you a man. Relax pal it will happen when it's supposed to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2015): Hi thereI went out with a man when we were both in our late teens and I ain't bad looking, but he was not what you would call attractive by any stretch of the imagination. My Mum said she could never listen to a word he was saying because she would be looking at him thinking, 'What are you doing with my daughter?'The thing was he was so much fun. He was lively and happy. We split up after a couple of years and remained friends and he ended up marrying probably the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. If you want to change anything about the way you look, then if you're tubby, lose some weight. This is in your control. Being a little upbeat and smiley and welcoming certainly helps. There's a lovely saying and it's so true. 'Every pot has a lid' You sound like a lovely man. You are certainly intelligent, your post was well written. You've got a lot going for you. Try to forget your time driven goals and if you can, relax about it all, because it will happen for you. And I bet the girl will be very lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2015): i'm 27 and still a virgin, it's difficult for me to not feel bitter and resentful towards couples, people who were getting laid and are getting laid in their late teens and early 20's
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 May 2015):
 First and formost; Being a virgin doesn't mean you are not a man. being a man" has NOTHING to do with how many women you've slept with. It has everything to do with being responsible, courteous to others and being responsible for things you have control over. Beathe deep and just get over yourself. All good things come to those who wait.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 May 2015):
 RELAX...
RELAX.....
RELAX.....
RELAX.....
Worked for me.....
Good luck...
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