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writes:So I went on a date with a guy about a week ago. He picked me up, and we went out for a few drinks and came home relatively early because he had work the next day and had already been at a dinner. When we were both in the car together, we kept looking at each other and smiling a lot. He asked me plenty of questions about myself, what I do etc and I did the same. When we got to the restaurant/bar, we sat diagonally. At times, our knees would touch and he'd put his hand on my upper back and we definitely were 'close'. Looking each other in the eye and talking about everything. I honestly felt a connection, I'm quite intuitive so I can work out vibes quite well. He was quite 'jumpy' and seemed nervous, tapping his foot and then grabbing it sort of and slightly shaking his head-from nerves I believe. He would ask me random questions-that sort of had nothing to do with what we were talking about. At one point, he tried to guess my age and said I looked really young-not sure if a compliment or not. He asked me what I was doing the following day(a Sunday) and I told him I wasn't too sure. Anyway, him being so nice he dropped me home and I reached over to give him a kiss on the cheek and he told me to text him once I'm inside my house and to possibly let him know if I'm free tomorrow. Before I even got in, he texted me first saying it was a pleasure to meet me and that he enjoyed it. I did the same, and he basically replied saying it was the least he could do. I didn't say anything back to that because I thought I would wait to see if he would organise another date. Now this was all about a week ago-and I haven't heard anything?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 May 2015):
 I think HE thinks that you have blown him off. Sure, literally " possibly let me know if you are free tomorrow " would mean that if he did not hear from you, that was because you were not free the day after. Then again,common sense and common courtesy would have suggested to most people ( at least, interested people ) to respond : " Hey Joe, too bad but I am not free tomorrow. What about next Sunday ? " or " not free tomorrow, let me know if there's another time that works for you ". Total silence may be taken as a blow off, or as the sign that you want to be seriously chased after, which may be off putting. It may be true that men love chasing- but they love chasing something they know they have a fair chance to catch.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 May 2015):
 So did you TELL him whether you were doing something the NEXT day or not?
My guess is you didn't, so he might think you weren't that interested and thus didn't ASK you out again.
People seem to get their wires crossed a little because they don't know each other very well yet.
IF you are interested CALL him and tell him to totally forgot about that question and would he want to go on a second date. YOU can ask a guy out too, you know....
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