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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

What can I do legally to get her to stop with all the crap shes doing so we can live our lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - Good day all... Here is the time for all you that give great advice to read my situation and give me advice on what I should do about it. I have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years now. Within a couple months of our relationship he ...

A close friend told me that my boyfriend isn't a good guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - A close friend of mine recently told me that my bf isn't a good guy!he said he s very mean and took his friendship for granted and took advantage of his friendship. he is telling me not to have a relationship with him as he might cheat on me or take ...

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In ot...

I'm not sure if he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - I don't trust my bf Everything seemed to be perfect in the beginning but one night has changed him ! I told him 2 weeks ago that you are careless! I meant that he should take care of his job and health because he goes out every night and...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

I am crushing on my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - So I'm a terrible person. Today, I couldn't stop thinking about my best friends boyfriend. Today, was the worst day ever because I haven't ever felt so much good and bad. We were all hanging out and ever so slightly we'd periodically look o...

!When I ask him why he doesn't give me any sex he answers that he just got lazy...Does that make any sense to anybody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Ive got a confusing situation that boggles my mind. But maybe there is someone out there with answers to help me understand things. Ive been with my guy for about a year now. I take our relationship VERY serious. Even when I have outside temptati...

He can't be happy with his girlfriend because he kissed me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - I'm going to try not to make this too long but I met this boy from online, his name is Jordan, and I think he's really great. He's perfect apart from the fact that he has a girlfriend (They became official 3 days before I met him in person). I ...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

Three months. What can I do to forget him? why did he cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3497 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - How do I let go? Its been three months.. I still miss him. I mean he left, he cheated, and we go to the same college and live like across the road I can see when I am walking to school or leaving my apt if he's there. I get a sense of happine...

How can I convince myself that this is my mind playing games? Or is my FWB interested in another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - My FWB and I have being seeing each other for a year now. I'm Starting to fall for him and I ADORE him. I don't know if he feels the same but I'm too scared to tell him how I feel. For a while I've always had issues with jealousy and recently he...

He cheated and I really don't know if I can forgive him, or not. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - So, my boyfriend and I went into a relationship quickly; we've only been together for five months. However, we were close friends for ages before we got together and we both developed feeling for one another before we got together, so we didn't see ...

Forgive and love him like before? Or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I was dating a guy and I got completely involved in him. We started dating in 2011. It was a long distance relationship. In the beginning I thought it would not work but I have no idea how hard I fall for him as the time passed by. We used to talk ...

Do open relationships work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - Do open relationships work? I'm not asking because I want to have one or anything but a very good friend of mine says that it keeps her and her husband happy while he works away. He had an affair a few years back and she decided that to stay tog...

Why would a mistress leave her married boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - What is the #1 reason WHY a mistress will leave a married man she has been seeing for a long time? ...

He constantly is accusing me of cheating and he says rude things to me but claims he can't help it. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. This is the 2nd time we are in a relationship. The 1st time was 2 months prior. We were together for almost 3 months and he said he had feelings for his ex and so I broke it off with him ...

What motivates people to cheat? Especially why do married people cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi all, ive been asking myself this question and i dont seem to get an answer. Why do married people cheat most. Why cant a person get out of a relationship than to stay when they are unhappy, than to sleep around with whoever thet meet?...

He cheated on his last girlfriend. I am constantly worried my BF will cheat on me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Does lack of trust in a relationship manifest itself over time in a person? I am wondering if it takes a toll on somebody physically and emotionally, ie. emotional overload, tiredness, depression, withdrawal, tension and aches in the back and ...

I feel bad for cheating on my ex girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3504 days ago

18 April 2015 (M) - So my girlfriend and i broke up for her reasons.But some months before that i did the stupidest thing by sexting another girl. I immediately regretted my mistake and the guilt immediately started eating me alive. I woke up in cold sweats and chest ...

I cheated twice then lied, how do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

18 April 2015 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together almost 2 years and were best friends for a year before we started dating. I fucked up about 8 months into our relationship and had sex with a girl after a party and was drunk and convinced myself it didn't ...

Why has this girl I have suspicions about suddenly gone MIA from my BF's classes?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Why has this girl suddenly disappeared from my BF's martial arts classes? I accused my BF of flinging with this girl. He denied it and still does. He is a martial arts instructor. We are both in his class. I told him I don't like her, have my eye...

Do married men who cheat usually have multiple mistresses or stay with just one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Do married men who cheat have more than one mistress or do they stick with one for a long time if she is willing to stay with him? Would it not be too complicated to have multiple women when he already has a wife AND a mistress? Just having a wi...

How do I stop myself falling for an older married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Please don't judge me on this, but I'm falling for an older married man. I see everyday and can't avoid him (tried not possible). At first I noticed him watching me all the time, then he would offer to help me out all the time which I admit al...

I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

17 April 2015 (M) - I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...

Is it possible that he loves me but he is interested in having sex with a prostitute?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Hi. my relationship is going great now after hard break up half year ago. thanks to the aunts that gave me advices. ive been with my bf for 5 years and we broke up due to my fault. Im unsure about his feeling for me although everbody know th...

I just want to go to the party and make him wish he hadn't done what he had done, am I being stupid?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - I'm going to a party on Sunday night and my ex boyfriend is going to be there. He cheated on me a couple of weeks ago and stupidly I want him back. He hasn't called or text since we split up and I just want to go to the party and make him wish he ...

My gut is telling me there's something weird going on, am I too worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for about two years now. He lives an hour and a half away so we see each other on the weekends. Recently, he's been in a class in which he is working with a girl I know and do not like. She used to date his...

What would be the best way to confront my Bf about his online flirting with other women? Only discovered it recently

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3506 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - I have a problem I just found out that my live in boyfriend has been having talking to some women online. The way I found out is I looked in his phone when he was in the shower. I just felt something was off and sure enough some nights at work h...

Help me decide to do the right thing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

15 April 2015 (F) - I met my boyfriend in online dating , two days after we talked and chat . He was persistent to move in with me . We was only still trying to get to know each other.. part of me I was shocked and also willing to give him a chance but a lot of doubt. ...

The fog has worn off the affair but I love my married boyfriend. It's hard to stay but also hard to leave. What do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - I am having a difficult time. No judgment please. Just help. I am the mistress of a married man and I have been for almost 2 years. I have heard it all. Believe me. Nobody can punish me more than I have punished myself. The problem is I am i...

What kind of man would treat a woman who is all about him like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - Im hoping someone out there can help me thru this or someone reading this has been thru the same thing where I can find out what steps I should take to get over this and move on with my life: I met my fiancé online almost 3 years ago. Withi...

We're back together but I don't trust him and now I find that I'm pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - I broke off my engagement because I caught him talking to one of his ex's. We had an argument so he called her - He said she's just a friend means nothing and since he knows I have access to his phone bill and passwords he's got nothing to hide. I...

Boyfriend told me his brother is cheating - and now I think my boyfriend is too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles of Dear Cupid, I hope someone can advise me on what to do here. I've been seeing an older man since early November last year. He will be 50 later this year. I am 40. Early days and we have been taking things fairly s...

I'm struggling with jealousy in my FWB!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

12 April 2015 (M) - Hi everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read my question. Basically, my issue is to do with jealousy. At the moment I'm in a FWB with a girl, we've been on this arrangement for about 7 months. Through this time we've had a few bad pat...

Things didn't work out while she had a boyfriend, but now that she's single I want to try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

11 April 2015 (M) - Hi, i've known this girl for about 6-7 weeks now, I met her through a mutual acquaintance at a bar as she liked my friend. Anyway, we got on really well and had things in common professionally and personally and didn't think much of it at the time ...

I'm confused and upset over my ex and how to treat the situation! I'm only young but I was with my ex for a year and a half and it was a pretty intense and loving relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I'm confused and upset over my ex and how to treat the situation! I'm only young but I was with my ex for a year and a half and it was a pretty intense and loving relationship, in which we spent a lot of time together. During our relationship ...

She cheated on my boyfriend with her current boyfriend but still tried to contact him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - First year I dated this guy he's 4 years older than me....he showed me emails of this girl asking how he was and wanted to talk to him check up on him, I asked him who was she? He told me it was one of his ex girlfriends that cheated on him with a ...

Am I wrong for wanting to know if she enjoyed it and if he wore a condom?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

9 April 2015 (M) - I have a 27 year old girlfriend of 3 years and we have recently been having some issues in regards to spending time together. She has been spending a lot of time with a co-worker (going out, going to his place but just as friends as she claims). ...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

I need to talk to my b/f about trust since I caught him texting. How do I start the convo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

7 April 2015 (F) - Around 5-6 months ago I found that my boyfriend of almost two years had been messaging other girls. Some messages were friendly however others weren't, I confronted him about it and he didn't give me a straight answer at first until I kept asking ...

He has a new job and I'm worried that he'll text girls. How do I control my jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

7 April 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend has just got a new job which involves working away sometimes, today is his first time working away and he is away for 4 days. I'm so happy for him that he has this new job however at the back of my mind I can't help but think he...

Was his threesome suggestion just an excuse to have sex with another woman? Is it wrong that I felt hurt by his actions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

7 April 2015 (F) - I agreed to a threesome with my husband and a friend. I've never been with a woman but agreed to try to please my husband. He didn't even touch me. feeling uncomfortable, i went outside. he proceeded to have sex with her. i was reduced to watching, ...

Should I ditch my current relationship and try being single again? Could this new guy be problem free for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 April 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have began fighting quiet regularly over almost anything. This has made the relationship difficult, and we both have been debating going our separate ways. In the past four months a guy from work ...

Will a married man ever replace his long term mistress with the next best thing?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - I am here to ask a question to everyone but WITHOUT JUDGMENT or PREACHING. I know affair posts get everyone very worked up. But I am not here to be crucified. Just to get help. I want to know what you think the answer is. It will help me immensel...

I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my Bf wants a threesome, He's already messaging the intended girl. Am I being paranoid? Or is this a red flag?.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend of 7 years has asked for sex with another woman, I kind of understand, we are both our firsts and only. We found a woman about our age for a threesome. I am 37 weeks pregnant with our 3rd and she is fit, slender, and has more ...

He inappopriately texted other girls, worried he still has something to hide

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I went through a rough patch because i found out he was texting girls inappropriately. I decided to forgive him and he said he'd show me his phone and give me all his passwords in an effort to regain my trust. Now, at first,...

Sometimes I just wish I had punched him so he could feel pain too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - I just cannot move on. What the heck. Today I think I saw my ex we go to the same college and he cheated and left, while we were breaking up I demanded we talk about it but he said he had class and a quiz an excuse to leave at that moment my heart ...