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*carlett101
writes:I just cannot move on. What the heck. Today I think I saw my ex we go to the same college and he cheated and left, while we were breaking up I demanded we talk about it but he said he had class and a quiz an excuse to leave at that moment my heart broke he wansn't even trying he just left. Now I cannot move one its been two months and I cried today again mostly because I am alone and he seems or at least I imagine he is doing so good with other girls and stuff so how do i MOVE ON from him? When we were together he always made fun of my small breast and shortness. Near the time he cheated I could sense his distance,yet I STILL DID NOT END IT i was too weak, but him he just left thats whats hurts the most. What do I do? Sometimes I wish I would have punched him or something just to make him feel an ounce of the pain I had
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 April 2015):
 Pain from a punch doesn't hurt anywhere near as much as the pain from a broken heart. You just need to work on blocking/removing him from your thoughts and life as much as you possibly can. Time is your best friend.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 April 2015):
 Inow a gal that punched her ex...she broke her wrist,ergo, bad idea.
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reader, llifton +, writes (2 April 2015):
 You obviously know punching him because he hurt you is a bad idea. Although, sometimes, it sure can seem like a great option at the time, when we feel so wronged. However, you will get over him. It feels like you won't right now, but it hasn't been very long. Two months is nothing. Just give it a bit more time, and I promise you, you won't even think twice about him. Good luck. Oh, and you'll be glad you saved face and didn't punch the guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2015): I can relate to your story. I was dating a guy 5 years older than me 3 months ago. He made me believe that we were going to be together for a very loNg time. I have no idea why i believed him because he was always angry with me about even small things like being 2 minutes late for our meeting ("date"). He knew i was a virgin when we met and according to the way he couldnt stop talking about sex. .his plan was to take my virginity but i never let him. Basically, i was blinded by love. My ex bf was jealous of me. .never has he told me that i look beautiful and when his friends and other guys showed appreciation he would get upset . I was asleep until he woke me up the day he proposed my best friend worst part oN facebook. Like REALY!?? You have been accusing me of cheating and now u propose my friends. I also found out later that he had several facebook accounts with different names that he used to chat and post a girl that he told me was his cousin (and was actually his gf). I cried everyday because for allowing him make me look like a fool but not anymore, dear. Clearly im not the first one he ever cheated on. Once a cheater always a cheater, he wont stop hurting you until you say ENOUGH. Take what belongs to you and leave..stop feeling bad about yourself he does not deserve you. You don't even have to talk to him, forget him there are so many people who care about you. There are so many guys out there who wish to be with you. .who will respect you and see a woman in you. I found that man (known him for almost all my life) and i know yourz is not too far either. All the best 3.
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