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writes:I have a problem I just found out that my live in boyfriend has been having talking to some women online. The way I found out is I looked in his phone when he was in the shower. I just felt something was off and sure enough some nights at work he talks to these women, I want to confront him but I know I was wrong for snooping though his phone too. I need to know how to confront him about this. Can someone please help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2015): My now ex boyfriend was doing this. I posted on here about it a while back. Had to end it as he cleared all evidence of it when I challenged him as I didn't do it as soon as I found it.In your specific case, do you know who these women are? Is he flirting with them? Agreeing to meet up? If so, next time he goes in the shower, get his phone again, get one of the messages open and when he comes out, just ask him why he is doing stuff behind your back. See how he reacts.In my case, I hadn't been with the guy for very long so it was easier to end it. But to be honest, I don't take any more bullcrap in my life anymore, it's way too short for two-faced men. I would have dumped him even if we had been together for years. Either you're in or you're out. If you're still shopping around for other women, then at least set me free to find the right guy who will appreciate me 100% was my way of looking at it.
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