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Archived questions from: February, 2018 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Should I remain in contact with my long distance ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - Me and my ex broke up in the new year as he has moved to Australia for a year. Our relationship was great, we had been together a year and were both very happy and in love. We both cried endlessly about the breakup. We had never been in this ...

How do I tell if she ever felt anything for me or if does feel something for me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

27 February 2018 (M) - I met this girl 12 years ago. I had already been in 3 relationships my relationship with her. My first relationship lasted for 2 years. But it feels like she is the only girl that I have ever truly loved and the only girl I will always love. Anyw...

I feel I’m investing more than him! Should I break up with him even though I don’t want to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy since a year now. I am in love with him and I know so is he. However, I am an extremely emotionally dependent human, unlike him. I have always felt like I am investing more in this relationship. But to think ...

Am I a girlfriend or an atm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - so i met this guy some few months ago for us it was love at first sight or so i thought.we kept on dating and at some point he was broke and i would give whatever i had on me without him asking.later on he got the courage to start asking for cash ...

What just happened? He’s getting a new phone and said that was it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - I don't even know how to start this... 5 years ago, I was 18 he was 17, I met this guy I had been working with and at first it was nothing, at least to me. I noticed that he kept to himself a lot and something inside of me said talk to him. Mind you...

I think I might have scared her away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

24 February 2018 (M) - Hello everyone, Recently I got out of a long term relationship. It's been about 2 months and now recently got hired to a new job 16 hours away from home. So, with the break up going down, I figured I would give myself time to heal and a lot of peo...

I can’t shake the things he told me! Am I being unreasonable and paranoid or is he lying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - So from a very young age of around 13 I was always strongly attracted to my teacher he was a lot older than me but there was just something. Fast forward 7 years and we start speaking every day problem is he’s married. At first we talked very ...

Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...

I feel worse after breaking up with my married lover

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I finally pulled the plug and broke up with my married lover but now i feel worse. I am having an extremely hard time getting over it. It was an ugly break up and even though he begged to remain friends and promised to be the man i met in the beg...

He said he doesn't see it working out and doesn't want to waste my time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I went on a couple dates with a really nice guy. Our chemistry was great and he's got a winning sense of humor that I just really appreciate. Everything was on track and we scheduled a third. This date wasn't awesome. I guess I was having a rough da...

I’m pregnant and constantly worrying that he’s still in love with an ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

21 February 2018 (F) - Sooo, I'll try to explain all this as well as I can. I'm sorry if It all seems a bit confusing. It's quite a long story. I have a boyfriend of nearly 3 months. I have known him for almost 4 years and am 5 months pregnant with his baby. The first ...

I kicked my partner out of my house because of his hurtful comments. Advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

19 February 2018 (F) - Yesterday I kicked my partner out of my home. He is 60 years old and has been a very high level banker in the past. We had a minor tiff when I confronted him (gently) by telling him I was hurt by a comment he made. I had shown him a mortgag...

Always feel trapped getting in to a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

18 February 2018 (F) - So I’m trying to analyse my own behaviour a bit here. Until recently I’d been in a three year relationship with a man. He was a classical musician so worked away a lot. When we first got together it was this exciting touring lifestyle he had...

Too invested after a few dates?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - I’ve been on five dates with a guy. We slept together on three of the dates. We definitely fancied each other, but during date number four he said that his long term goal is to work away. I’ve been in a relationship in the past with someone who ...

I love him, but his deception can’t go on!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi Aunts! I'm 29 years old and in an alleged relationship with a married man for the last one and a half year. It wasn't intended to happen cause we were only friends, but developed nonetheless. At first, he kept his marital status a secret from me....

A relationship with an attached man is making me feel so sad?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a man who lives with his baby mama for a year and I've fallen head over heals in love with him.He told me that he was in the process of leaving her and they are not really together but idk..He still live her a year later with no ...

She has a way of clawing herself back into my life! Insight needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

17 February 2018 (F) - Hi all, I started dating this girl in December 15. I was 25 and she was 22 and was a TA in my class. We eventually grew in attraction and one evening, it progressed. Initially I was reluctant and said no as she was my colleague but she pursued ...

I treated her good but she ghosted me, I still want her back.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

15 February 2018 (M) - Asking for advice,over a year ago, my ex girlfriend ghost me, no contact since, she didn't even say goodbye,I didn't do anything wrong, but treat her special,what I am asking is ,would it be stupid, in my part to try to contact her,I know every one ...

We text and fight, then meet, make up then make out! Now he wants to be just friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I am in relationship from 4 months,we fight alot on texts.Almost every week we decide to break up.But when we meet, we just kiss amd make out ,there is no fight at all.Now again after fight he wants to be only friends.Will we be ...

As much as it hurts badly do I need to cut guy 1 off to give myaelf time to get over him? And focus on guy 2?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - Dear Cupids! I am torn between two men in my life. Guy 1 and I dated for 7 months then he had to go back to Greece as his contract for work ended. Now we still chat long distantly it was hard and I broke it off with him. We still talk via Skype a...

Should I go out with her again? She didn't trust me the first time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

13 February 2018 (M) - I have recently got back together with girlfriend after a couple of months apart. We were together for 5 months before we broke up just after Christmas. I broke up with her because I felt she didn't trust me but we spoke recently and she told me she ...

He's driving me crazy, how do I get him out without involving courts or police?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - I'm back again with another question. I asked my last question in Novemeber, long story short, I was asking why I didn't want to marry my fiance, and I got most answered that suggested talking to him. So I did a few weeks later and told him I didn't ...

I can't give up the fantasy of a fairy tale ending.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - The fear of being alone had led me to be alone - I have searched everywhere for a mate - online - bars - events - charity - church and nothing - when they have come out of the blue they have only made me miserable and empty- but I kept them just so ...

My husband spends more time with his female co worker than he does with me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - My husband has a female coworker that he has been friends with for a while. They go out to lunch together and text each other here and there. I’ve never had a problem with this, I have male coworkers that I am friends with as well. My problem is ...

I don’t think I can deal with the amount of travel his job entails. Should I cancel our third date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - SO I met a guy, lets call him CHAD. We went out on two dates. Really hit it off, loads in common, lots we like in each other plus great attraction. He works for some sales company and after our second date went out of town for 8 days. I have a t...

He loves me but wants space? What does it mean?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

10 February 2018 (F) - I have been dating a man I met 6 months ago. His wife cheated on him and now lives with a new partner but they had only just stopped sharing the marital home just before we met. He treated me like gold, told me I was the woman of his dreams and t...

What on earth do I need to fix in me to set myself free?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2473 days ago

9 February 2018 (F) - Hi people, I am trying to work out what on earth is wrong with me at the moment. I've had two important relationships over a 35year period, the last was a marriage, 13 years ago and ended due to his infidelity. Prior to my marriage, (15 yrs prio...

I have a boyfriend but I'm still in love with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

8 February 2018 (F) - Hiya do you believe that’s there’s a one in life I met this man 5 years ago and I’ve never felt that way about anyone before we split up due to not having enough time for each other and I was gutted for months we decided not to speak as it would ...

I drunk texted her while we were on a break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

8 February 2018 (M) - Hi. So me and my girlfriend are on a break due to our age difference I’m 10 years younger than her and this scares her as she feels she’ll hold me back. Anyway. Went out on Saturday and got very drunk woke up Sunday morning to see if text her. Now ...

My girlfriend wants a break, what chance is there for us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

8 February 2018 (M) - So my girlfriend said she needs space to work out what she wants. Now I know that this isn’t a good thing but is it necessarily a bad thing? Obviously I have agreed to give her space for one week. Two points though do I text her at all to make sure ...

I thought he loved me but he cheated and she's pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

7 February 2018 (F) - Hello this may be a lil not lengthy but I need advice. I was in a long distance relationship with someone I met on a job two years ago, we met when I moved to Virginia for a short period of time but because we were both in a relationship at the time ...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2476 days ago

7 February 2018 (M) - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

Could my FWB's partner's ego have kept him from admitting that he cares about me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

6 February 2018 (F) - I've been on and off friends with benefits with a guy for 4 years. I've fallen in love with him and I told him in person. he said he likes me but can't commit to me because of his family situation as his family are not speaking to him. During this ...

Is this seven year relationship worth working on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

6 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. He's currently in med school, and about 6 hours away from me. He did his post-bacc program at this school last year, and now he is in his first year. Even though we're 6 hours apart, I still ...

I don’t really want to go on this vacation with my dad and his girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

4 February 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid. I am 24 and need some advice... I’m due to go on a trip in june, with my dad and his girlfriend...tickets have been paid for and now I’m not really wanting to go...I’ll be stuck on a yacht for 10 days, their friends are going bu...

Advice needed - break up or work through it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

3 February 2018 (M) - Hi, I've in my late 20's and I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. I love her and she is an amazing woman but our relationship has recently taken a lot of hits and it's affecting both of our happiness. To the point, we are both seri...

Do we try to help this couple, whose marriage is deeply troubled?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2481 days ago

3 February 2018 (F) - So this is for a couple who have been family friends for a long time, let call them A (the woman) and B (the man). They've had differences in approach and tension going on, but now they have stopped conversing all together. They have a child and ...

He’s blocked me on everything, do I wait to see if he comes back or do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

3 February 2018 (F) - Hi guys I need your advise. Me and my ex have broken up. A few months ago Due to arguing. But we are still meeting up nearly every week. He kept accusing me of cheating which I would never. He never likes me going out because guys would approach me ...

Should I just walk away and save myself more heartache?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

3 February 2018 (M) - Hi recently I’ve started dating a woman who is a bit older than me (I’m 22 she’s 34). It was all going well we were seeing each other most nights, we had a real spark so good we started being in a relationship, anyway a week ago she said she wasn’t ...