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Archived questions from: July, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He said he wants to get over me and deleted me on fb

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

31 July 2015 (F) - Help all, I was dating with this guy for 3 months and we were on and off. We were friends on fb. Evert single time I went out, I poster my pictures and he liked it and texted me how was my dinner date or Etc... He was trying to learn i guess if...

How do I get over him cheating? And to add to my woes he got into a better university than me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - So its been 6 months since my ex cheated on me at a party and I found out by looking at his phone he didnt regret when I said I wanted to talk about it he left and I never saw him other than at school. I went to the same school he did because ...

Single Mothers: does it ever get any easier in the absence of your child's father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

30 July 2015 (F) - This is a question for any single mothers out there: does it ever get easier without your children's father? My problem isn't regarding financial support, but the emotional side of the situation. My son's father has been absent since his birth. For ...

What can I do about my hunch that I should leave my great Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

30 July 2015 (M) - I've been with this girl for 5 months -known her for 8-. I was dubious of having a real relationship with her at first because I didn't feel as much for her as I did for other girls I've been in love with, but things just happened and here I am. ...

Should I be concerned that my Bf is asking for ''space'' when it's all been going so well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - My question: Should I be concerned about my boyfriend asking for space when everything has been going so well? Also, did I respond in a good way when he asked for space? Background information: I have been in a LDR for a few months with a ma...

Frenemies or am I too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3433 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I hope all are enjoying summer and thank all who respond to my question. So some background.A couple of weeks ago I brought two friends and a woman I met recently to a girls night out.It was a good time and we decided to meet again last week....

Failed past relation. Then online friend. How can I regain my health and get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - i'm 23 years old female, felt in love for 4 years with a cheating guy. many cupids here helped into knowing that i was in a kind of abusive relationship, and it took me a lot of courage to actually let go of my boyfriend. i had a male friend who ...

I felt I had no other option than to do what I did. But will he suss out that I sent it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - What do you guys think about sending fake messages under a pseudonym? I know you are going to think this trivial and trouble making - but I just need your answers:- I needed to get a message to this bloke on Facebook - he had blocked me (all beca...

Unrequited love. It's been so long, but I can't get over him. Should I call him to ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3419 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I fell madly in love with this boy back when we were college seniors. We were really close and we spent a lot of time together. One night, I told him how I felt for him. I didn't really get a clear answer from him but I knew that he didn't love me ...

How do I cope with all this pain? I don't know how to cope with this betrayal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

29 July 2015 (F) - I have just found out my ex boyfriend has had an affair with my female friend. For months I suspected something was going on, and so me and my boyfriend split because of my lack of trust. My friend however, always denied it until recently -...

What choices are there for me to consider? I don't want my son subjected to all this tension any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

29 July 2015 (M) - So I am in a situation where my one and a half year old son, fiancee, and myself are living together with her mom and dad's house so we can save money. Of course it has turned into a complete disaster. My fiancee and I now argue over things like...

Is there such a thing as commitment phobia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3432 days ago

28 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm just out of a 4 years relationship that really broke my heart. My boyfriend left me saying he was mixed up, and needed to do soul searching. It has been a week since we are separated and with no contact. I am just beginning ...

Is she trying to tell me that she is available? Or did she just want some consolation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (M) - Hello dearcupids, 2 years back, i started chatting with a high school crush in facebook. She was 2 years junior to me. I thought she already has a bf, so i didn't flirt with her. I had normal friendly conversation. She replied to my every ...

We have a 6month old baby together. How can I tell him I don't think I love him now, without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am currently engaged and have a six month baby with my partner but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I love him like a brother, we are buying a house together and I still want to live with him and raise our child, but i don't want a r...

At this rate I don't want to have sex with him. What can I do about our volatile on or off relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is 29. We are in an on/off relationship. He is always the one initiating the breakup when he gets upset or feel attacked/disrespected. We don't live together and we have sex about once a week more or less. We've been back ...

My fiance disrespected my family. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - I have cried my eyes out tonight. My fiance of 3 years disrespected me and my family. I'm in disbelief and denial. Here is the story. We are in LDR right now, sometimes the frustration is too much and mostly from his part. He has done a lot for m...

He wouldn't go public with our relationship so I ended it. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

27 July 2015 (F) - He says his marriage is ended and they have both moved on but he wont go public with our relationship or remove his "married to... [her name]" Facebook status. Did I do the right thing ending it after giving him the ultimatum remove the status and ...

Were you successful in forgetting the person you had an emotional affair with? How long did it take you and what did you have to do to get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - Were you successful in forgetting the person you had an emotional affair with? How long did it take you and what did you have to do to get over it? (esp. for those who are unsure of their feelings towards their spouse/partners to begin with). ...

Is there hope that this mostly LD relationship can survive? Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3436 days ago

26 July 2015 (F) - My bf and I have been together for a couple years. Half of our time has been together in person and the other half of it has been long distance. We are still currently long distance. However, after quitting his job (they were going to fire hi...

I don't feel special to him anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

25 July 2015 (F) - Hi, I really need help in this situation because I'm completely lost... I'm dating a guy who I really really like. I would say love but I'm 14 and in my first real relationship so idk of this is love or not. Anyways, I really care for this guy and...

I think my ex is on drugs and he wants no contact from me but I care and wish I could help him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - (Mod Note: OP is in early 30's) I was with my ex for 3 years. At the beginning of the year I noticed a change in him. He became distant and moody and would snap at me for no reason. After a row one day he broke things off saying he didn't love me ...

I don't feel I owe him an "official" break up. My friend says I left my bf for minor reasons. Did I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it immature to leave a long term boyfriend for minor reasons? My bf has never spent any of his birthdays with me for the almost six years we've been together. It too four years for me to meet his mum and I've never been invited to family ...

I've been scarred from previous relationship and think of ex though I don't want her back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - I split up with my ex a year ago and have only started to get intimate with someone new but I keep getting very emotional being with the new person. I don't know why! I really, really like this new girl but I keep thinking about my ex and how bad ...

Is it normal to end up having a real dislike of your first love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

24 July 2015 (F) - Is it normal to end up having a real dislike of your first love? The fact is - when I was at college 20 years ago - I fell for this guy and we started dating ( my first proper relationship). It lasted on and off for about 6-7 years and then we...

How do I stop feeling so bad about myself?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend and I feel such a horrible person. Even though I know it was the right thing to do for both of us I cant help but feel guilty for making him so upset. There were issues in our relationship, but I just didn't love him ...

I think I'm more into women than men but how do I tell my b/f of 10 years this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - I am a 29 year old woman I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years we have two kids. Well I have always had this attraction to other women an as hard as I try to make myself feel happy with my boyfriend I am not. I don't want to leave because he ...

We had words and broke up. I don't know if I want him back or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

22 July 2015 (F) - Hi I am a sag female andiI been involved with an Ariesmale for a Lil over 8 months and we stay bumping heads but had fun times too he is very wishy washy..and well we used to talk and text all times of day and night..we cant seem to get it rite well ...

Is it healthy to keeps talking to your ex when your breakup is fresh?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 days ago but we've been talking ever since like we're still dating. I ended things because of who I became dating him(I was sad and not my self). I know it's hard for him and he probably thinks am joking as this w...

Do I leave or stay? We keep almost breaking up, then seconds later we miss each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - My boyfriend started to like someone else and he told me and I've been so hurt and the question is so we stay together? But there's more... We keep almost breaking up then seconds later we tell each other we miss each other. He loves me and he's sto...

We broke up. Why is he so keen on me talking to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F) - He knew he wanted to break up with me but requested a break. I ended up breaking up with him and he did not put up a fight. This was in may. He keeps coming back and at first I just said I do not want to be friends. I do not want to talk. Leave ...

Do I leave him....or stay? Or breakup and choose the other boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

Are there no gentlemen left? ? My dating has left me not interested in sex, though I have had sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm 20 and I've got this problem with boyfriends. I only had four of them when I was in HS. "Matthew" was a relative of a friend and he was nice, but he annoyed me because he would just show up at my house without calling first or else he would...

Is this rebound sex for an ex-lover or something else? I want to stop seeing him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - SO I have this situation that is a little bit odd, not wanting to be judged, just trying to understand from other people's points of view: SO the back story goes something like this: Six years ago I had a sexual relationship with this guy while my...

I do want him back. We can't seem to break free of each other. What can I do now that it's become a friends with benefits situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - I'm in love with my ex. We talk several times a week, hook up regularly and have done for more than a year- basically since we broke up. He's cold and distant and at times when we meet up I feel unwanted and like i've become a "friends...

I've tried. It's not working. I want to give up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

20 July 2015 (F) - Hello , I would admit to being depressed for the past few weeks. Let me start by saying I am at a point in my life where I am not happy with my finances, my relationship and everything in general. I have gone out a couple of times with the intention ...

I want to end things. He won't take it well. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for six months but i dont think our relationship is going anywhere and there are various issues. He is very clingy, tells me he loves me all the time and texts me 24/7, which being an independent person feels very ...

Am I over-reacting by considering breaking up with gf because she went to see male strippers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

19 July 2015 (M) - Hi. So, let's describe the events before asking the question. Because they are lenghty, I am starting with the TOO LONG:DIDN'T READ version TL:DR: She went to a strip show while I don't nor have I done the same. Am I over reacting that she wen...

He lied to me. I am so angry with him, yet can you love and hate someone at the same time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - Six months ago, I was going out with a guy. We were both sixteen. His ex also made me feel very uncomfortable as she still liked him and kept making jibes over us. This guy has had a string of girlfriends but he was my first boyfriend. I tho...

How do I tell my Bf to find someone better? I don't think I am good enough for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I have always had insecurity issues and body image issues since I was younger. Also living in a house with constant mental and emotional abuse can take its toll. However I have a boyfriend and it's close to being a year for us. He is the most a...

Do I throw away a twenty year marriage because he is more interested in porn stars than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - My husbands obsession with Porn is driving me crazy . There is no desire when he looks at me anymore . Our sex life feel like he is in another world . He has his favourite porn stars saved on his computer.I've Tried talking to him and he sa...

Is it possible to be just Friends to him, after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

19 July 2015 (F) - I lost my virginity at the beginning of last year to a co-worker. And moved out of state back to where I'm from. We kept in contact for 5/6months. Then in August we stopped talking, I actually think it is because of me that we stopped talking ...

Together 4.5 years. How do I pick myself up and cope with him moving on, after our recent breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

18 July 2015 (F) - I have no idea how else to deal with this. My ex fiance broke up with me 2.5 months ago after 4.5 years together. There was no cheating or lying or anything else; just, I guess he grew apart from me. I was ready, absolutely ready for us ...

My friends want him gone. Am I crazy for trying to still accomodate him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - So here's my situation. I've been in a relationship with my bf for 2 1/2 years. We have been friends for almost 10. I thought we could make it work but we both have issues and we've come to a point where I broke up with him because we weren't ...

One year and I still think of him. Does it get easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

17 July 2015 (F) - It's been one year now and I still think of him. I tried to keep myself busy most of the time; I have read a lot how to get rid of infatuation( if you call this infatuation) and I understand it takes time to heal. It is less painful and less ...

Breaking up was not my choice. Do I tell my current Bf that I have feelings for my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

16 July 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so confused and would really appreciate any advice. I am currently in a relationship with a really amazing guy. He's kind and funny and treats me the utmost respect. And my parents like him, which is a great bonus. But there is ...

Boyfriend of 3 years ended things, 2 weeks later he's in a new relationship and I'm still hurting

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - I am 32 years old and about 3 months ago my ex of 3 years left me stating he did not love me anymore. To add to my devastation, he started a new relationship just 2 weeks later. At first I was beside myself but am slowly learning to accept their ...

Why am I still so angry about his relationship? It feels like he won. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Several years ago I fell for a good friend I'd had my whole life, but who was living in another country. We began an LDR that lasted 8 months. It ended when he struggled to support me emotionally, as I had some mental health problems at the time...

This love-rat LDR guy has been chatting to me for a year. I thought it was a relationship. How do I pick myself up after all this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - Please help! A man I had met online found me on Facebook and started chatting to me. More than ONE YEAR later he left Facebook, started a Twitter account and my whole world has fallen apart. I found him sending sexy comments to a particul...

He's acting like a douchebag and I'm so hurt. How do I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

15 July 2015 (F) - How do I forget about him, he's horrible to me:(? So there's this my brother's friend who I really liked and we use to talk all the time but all the sudden he stopped ringing me and would always want to argue as if He can't stand me. He says I a...

Do you think spending time apart can mend this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

13 July 2015 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of four years lived together two and things the past year have been hard. He has recently told me that he does love me but he has fallen out of love with me and feels the only way to see if we can ever get back to what we ...