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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am a sag female andiI been involved with an Ariesmale for a Lil over 8 months and we stay bumping heads but had fun times too he is very wishy washy..and well we used to talk and text all times of day and night..we cant seem to get it rite well a couple days ago we had an falling out and his friend got married a he posted pics of him a and some chick well I really didn't care..but why not be honest..anyway I said some pretty harsh mean angry things..I want him to for give me but I don't think I have a chance being that he's with somebody else now...and even not first time we stopspeaking last time we fought and didnt talk for a whole month...I love him but I told him I hated him..i dont want him back at all I think I should let him go but errbody that know us together like he's coming back but I don't think I want him to..I was really there for him..no I really was...what should I do help....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2015): what is the point of this headbumping wishy washy cheating kind of guy and why would you want him back?Are you really saggitarius or are you a scorpio looking for an opportunity for revenge.Saggitarius are normally so easy going..you say you spoke harsh words but are you normally a kind hearted laid back person? Perhaps you are just not suited and he brought about your change in character.So maybe you will find new love with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2015): Ask these questions to yourself:Are you jealous of the girl?If you are not you may have passed on from him and it may be a good time for you to move on. If you are jealous then maybe you're not over him yet.At the time did you really hate him or did you just say it out of anger?Humans always say things out of anger and you might have done the same with him. But if you really meant it I think you should move on. This argument obviously meant something to you and if it made you have that strong feelings about him then you might need to move on.If you think you're not the kind to say sorry but you want to maybe this poem will help:My life was completeBut now it's notI lost it all, because I fought.He made me aliveNow I am deadI'm laying hereCrying in my bedLife is worthlessWhy should I tryAll I want to doIs lay here and dieIt had only been a monthbut that is all I needTo get a last chanceBefore he leavesOne last chanceTo turn it aroundHoping he won't turn me downAll I want to dois hold h tightAnd make his dreamsCome true tonightThat once and for allI can make him happyInstead of screaming, yellingmaking life crappyI'm sorry for what I have doneThis is coming from my heartI'm just askingFor a brand new startFor you are my lifeWithout you I am nothingSo give it one last chanceAnd I will make it into somethingI love you too muchI can't let you goSo look into my eyesAnd say I love you so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2015): I think that if he just broke up with you a couple days before, and he knew he had that wedding to go to, he may have planned that out. Did he have another date set up already? or did he go alone and meet her there and is now dating her? Very suspicious.It might be best if you move on. No need to ask for forgiveness from him. Be sorry about the bad things that you said and make an effort not to do that again to anyone else in the future. Learn from that experience and be a better person going forward than you were then, in the heat of the arguement.Your friends will come to accept your decision to move on if you are consistant and your actions show you are doing that. Go no contact with your ex. No checking his pictures! Block and delete him from your contacts. Do not respond if he tries to contact you again. You have no further obligation to be "there for him". Be there for you. Don't stay in a bad relationship that is constant fighting and drama. Hope this helps a bit. Good luck!
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