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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I am so confused and would really appreciate any advice. I am currently in a relationship with a really amazing guy. He's kind and funny and treats me the utmost respect. And my parents like him, which is a great bonus. But there is absolutely nothing going on in the bedroom, which I am okay with. I can understand if he's not ready or whatever. But the real problem is this. My ex-boyfriend and my current boyfriend are friends. And every time I see my ex, these old feelings get stirred up. He was very sexually attentive and I'm not sure if I feel this way about him because I never got over him or if I'm sex deprived. I broke up with him because my parents made me. They didn't like him at all. He was an asshole but so so sexy.What should I do? Do I stay with my boyfriend or do I tell him I still have feelings for my ex?
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reader, MSA  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Agree with everyone here... what you are doing is unfair to your current boyfriend. He doesn't deserve this.
Take some time to be alone to process this ex of your's, Once you are completely over the breakup, THEN meet someone new to start a new relationship.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 July 2015):
 At 16-17 there SHOULDN'T be anything going on in the bedroom department I my opinion. And I agree with my pal SVC, Don't tell him and don't stay and lead him on. Break up and start fresh.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 July 2015):
 Ditto, what SVC said.....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 July 2015):
 you don't tell him and you don't stay with him.
NEVER start a new relationship until you have processed and are over the old one.
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