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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

"I still have feelings for you, give me another chance"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I had been dating this guy for almost three months and I was thinking about what to get him for our anniversary. Well a few days before our anniversary he told me on the computer that he wanted to take a break and start the new year of college ...

We seem to have grown apart, is there a way back or should I go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Good evening to all and happy new year! Ive been asking myself why am i visiting this site? How did i came upon it, what led me to being here and the answer hit me - i know who i am, i know what ive achieved in life regarding work and studies and ...

I just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a ...

Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many ...

He's cheated twice and lies about doing drugs! Dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has been making me feel terrible lately. I feel as if I can no longer trust him. He cheated on my twice and lies about doing drugs. Well he didn't lie more like tell me he would quit for me then text me the next day saying I can't tell ...

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking ...

Boyfriend of six months forgot my birthday. Dump him or forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - My birthday was a couple days ago and he still hasn't noticed. There are only two scenarios: He really did forget, or he's getting revenge on an argument we recently had. But either way... Should I reevaluate our relationship? We've been together ...

I don't love him anymore but I still haven't got closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - This is SO long and I apologise :/ My boyfriend had been making me miserable for quite a few weeks by like just doing things like calling 31 times a week, but then when i did talk to him not pay attention to what im talking about, talking c...

Alone again on the New Year...how do I get through this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I've been sngle for the last 3 years around new years and all that and the last couple of years i completly had melt downs cause i was so sick of being alone. all my friends are going out of town and i will be alone yet again. i was wondering how i ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

Is this the end? He left my daughter and I stranded on the road.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I just let my boy friend move in with me because he didn't have a place to move to, so we agreed we would split everything 50/50. It has been 2 days and he works a lot so we don't see a lot of each other. We went to go transfer internet and cabl...

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

The longer we are apart the harder it will be to get back together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I split up after almost 2 years. We've split up before, but this time seems different. Basically, I left her alone for almost 3 weeks the first time before I tried again, and left for a week this time. But she has abandonment ...

When boyfriend gets angry he is verbally abusive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for almost a year and a half. I love him VERY much and he feels the same for me. The problem is, when he gets angry, he is verbally abusive. He says things that he knows will hurt me, things that are so ...

I know we need to break up but I'm having trouble coming to terms

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have been in a gay relationship for over 6yrs like any relationship it was going through the best phases of its life but I decided to move away from him cos of my job but touchwood most seems to have worked out well even when we decided to see ...

I broke his trust and don't know how to make things better.....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi. So I've been seeing this guy for just over 3 months now, but we got together when he still had a girlfriend so had to keep it all a secret from our friends. They broke up a couple weeks later and since then we have still kept everything quiet. ...

She cheated, I dumped her, but am having second thoughts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years. and have never been happier, until i find out for a couple months my girlfriend was sleeping with her ex. the last time she slept with him was at least 6 months ago. but during the cheating period i ...

He met someone else and broke my heart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - How can I fall out of love with someone when I have been in love with him for years and was willing to move overseas just to be with him. Now he has met someone else and I am left broken hearted and lost. What should I do? ...

After you break up, should you get rid of any gifts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have two questions. When you break up with a boyfriend, especially when it was a serious relationship, do you trash/give back gifts, or anything that reminds you of him? And by getting rid of those things, does it make you get over him faster, ...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

He's not Christian but I am. Does it matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hello. I don't have feelings for this boy who is anti-christan we only get to we to see each other for a great while and he gets lonley when i am not around plus he lives far away like 2 hours. So i was wondering if anyone can fall for with an...

How do I help my ex move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex several years ago because I just fell out of love with her. She didn't do anything wrong, but we just didnt connect and in the end, my feelings for her changed. She doesn't have any close friends and still considers me her ...

She broke my heart! How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - "I need time to think." Those words from my gf have resonated in my mind for over 5 months since she suddenly dumped me. I'm new to dating so I have 0 experience in this sort of thing. I spent my high school years as a combination of a nerd and a ...

Help! I feel like I'm being cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me a month back and then we got back together. Since we work together he gave me his password yesterday to do some of his work. I know i am not supposed to check his IM conv history but out of curiosty i di...

We had sex and he told everyone! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Im 15 and about a month ago i had sex (i was a virgen) with my 17yr old bf bc i thought i loved him. He promised me tht no 1 would know no matter what but less than a week later he broke up with me bc he didnt want attachments bc hes goin to the ...

Was a fling or does he want me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone. My boyfriend of 19 months dumped me almost 2 months ago. We were in a long distance relationship as of September this year when he started college, and he's currently home for the X-mas holidays. He attends college overseas. I'm cu...

If she snitches on me I'm done for!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I just recently broke up with a boyfriend and were still friends. Up until a couple days ago we have been hanging around each other every day all day. Then I stopped it because I still really liked him and he was pretty much using me as a booty ...

I need to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue ...

BF suddenly claims that he's commitment phobic! Where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman and dating a 26 year old guy we have been together for a year now .suddenly he starterd acting up for me like not taking my calls and stoped me from coming to his place he said he has commitment phobia and says he doesn't ...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

What is a good time frame in giving each other space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - how long is a good time frame to give each other space? we are both out of a recent long term relationship break-up and have fallen in love. but realize that we are too emotionally damaged to get into something to soon. but we both dont like the ...

My heart still aches, how do I get him off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - im 19years old had a beautiful son 7months ago,moved in with my childs father,things began to change he started stayin out late,disrespecting me, basically treated me like trash! dont help me out with my son, chose his friends over me and my son,he ...

I don't know where I go wrong!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I've been in several relationships were the guy has been head over heels in love with me and I'm not joking :\ but I can't cope with relationships at all my most recent one was a guy I really liked and I daydreamed about him asking me out ALOT and ...

He's been horrible to me since he broke up with me, but I still have feelings for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i was dating this boy for about 5 months, we was really happy together until he finshed me on my birthday. ever since then, he's been really horrible to me, insulting me all the time, spreading horrible rumors about me and hacking my facebook, it's ...

How can I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I just really do not know what to do now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year.. We were both in relationships when we had a one night stand which lead to our relationship but ended them. For the first few months it was a ...

Why is it so difficult to move on out of this crazy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So, I finally told my boyfriend who has put me through a lot in the 5years from trying to choke me twice the last incident was 2years ago..that I don't want to have a baby by him. I have 2boys who aren't his and he has a daughter which he see's ...

Is it possible to fall in love again and forget this loser for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated on and off for 3 years. I am 18 years old. he is the only boyfriend ive had. we broke up recently bcuz he was texting another girl. its not the first time we break up for that reason but i always end up going back to him ...

I wonder if I should have broken up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...

Should we go back to a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm now in an open long-distance relationship with this guy. We used to be in a close distance committed relationship for 7 months but after he moved to Asia for a new job, he admitted that he felt too hard to stay committed as he felt like a kid in ...

Is he going to get over this and come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm a mess over this. I have been dating this guy for 9 months and although we never made it exclusive it was obvious that we wanted and liked each other. He is a very proud and kind of jealous person. Things were going well and I was looking ...

Is she wrong to begin a relationship with me again when she still has feelings for another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - five years ago I began dating a wonderful woman, after 1-2 months, she dumped me to be with another man. Five years later, she asks me to take her back, we begin a serious realtionship and even talked about marriage. 6 months later she dumps me for ...

My wife is leaving me help please!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Hi, my wife is leaving me after 6 years of marriage and 2 children 2 and 6. She told me 5 months ago she did not love me and is now leaving in a few days, the reason is she is unhappy and wants to be alone. We are doing a deed of seperation and I...

Please help! I need to break up with my boyfriend fast and avoid any questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - This may sound weird, because I heard that mostly men have this problem. The thing is that I am very inexperienced but not virgin and my boyfriend has a colorful past. It really bothers me to the point that I want to break up with him and give ...

She basically did everything possible that hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I have a question about an ex girlfriend. we met during our freshmen year in high school and went out for 3 years. i thought all throughout everything was good with the exception of a few arguments throughout the way but doesnt every couple argue ...

He wont leave me alone - is he crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5076 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Two years ago, I went through a painful break up with my now husband. During this time, I had a rebound with another gentleman that I unexpectedly fell for. When my now husband and I reunited, I dumped the other guy. It has been 3 years and this...