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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Broke up with boyfriend today, he has punished me for telling the truth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Help - I realised that I still love my ex and tried to do the honourable thing by breaking up with my boyfriend today, afterall, it is not fair to carry on stringing him along while I still think about my ex! I only realised I still loved my ex ...

What can I say to him to minimize the hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I feel very upset and down in the dumps over my ex. We split up 6 months ago, he ended things because we weren't socially compatible (I like going out and he doesn't!). I was gutted and fought for him to take me back, coming up with solutions, and ...

He doesn't want to get back together whereas I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I saw my ex for about 5 mins earlier on, I've not seen him since friday anyway when i saw him he gave me a hug then he said sorry i dont no why i needed to do that, He dumped me but we still talk every day, he doesnt want to get back together...

Her aunt died just as I was about to break up with her. What do I do now?

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30 November 2008 (M) - I have a problem, my girlfriend's aunt died, right before I was going to break up with her. What should I do? ...

It ended before it even started!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - For a while I liked a guy in the pub. We ended up getting together a couple of weeks ago. Both said we like each other but are worried of getting involved because we both have children to think about. And he said he likes being single and wishes he ...

How do you break off a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - How do you end a long distance relationship. We have been going out for over a year and she moved 3 month ago. She visits frequently (once a month), but do I end it now like over the internet or in person when she comes to visit. One is imperso...

I've fallen for my ex girlfriends sister.....Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, So like many of you I have a real complicated love situation I am in. For a few months now I have fallen for my ex girlfriends sister. I know it is wrong but I cant help how I feel. She lives right next door to me so it makes it impo...

My ex massively betrayed me, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for a year and thought we were totally in love. Then all of a sudden he started acting strangely, distancing himself from me. I suspected he was cheating and finished it. A few weeks later his ex girlfriend contacted me saying they ...

I want to be there for her to get closure but not sure what is the best way to help her out of this?

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30 November 2008 (M) - We broke off a month ago and we have decided to stay friends after that. we care for each other alot and I can never think about hurting her. she is also a nice person to be with. it has been heart wrenching in behaving like friends and we keep ...

He doesn't love or want me so why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi there, I've been with my partner bout 11 years. Four years ago he had an affair which lasted on and off a year.. he eventually left but never admitting the affair saying he was working until he had no option but to tell the truth. After a bit ...

All of a sudden he is not interested in me or my pregnancy - we met online; what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I really do not know where to begin. Its simple though I met an incredibly sweet man on the internet. We hit it off really well , we were always online or the phone. I even helped him with a few bills. Even went as far as even buying him a cell ...

What do you do when the love of your life leaves you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5866 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - What do you do when the love of your life leaves you claiming he no longer loves you? We were together for 2 years and he told me I was the love of his life. he was my first boyfriend and we had everything in common and a lot of stuff, well it w...

Why would she be doing this in front of him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - About a month ago my girl broke up with me for her ex. We continue to talk and flirt. I'm just having a really hard time understand why we have full on texting conversations when I know she is with her bf? These aren't really rare. We probably ...

What would be my best option?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hoping someone or a number of people can help a bit here. I am on an important committee and am respected for my contributions. I briefly dated one of the guys in the group. He broke it off as he met someone else. I took it pretty maturely but at ...

Struggling with a break up. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I'm not really sure there is answerable question in the following, but I need a place to express myself and if you feel you can help me, please do. Again I woke up to a text message from J (my ex). "How was your day today?" I know she's not l...

He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned ...

Why is the news of my ex being engaged bringing me down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I broke up with my ex of 5 years a few years ago. She broke up with me and got together with the guy she was cheating on me with. Just found out recently they got engaged. I have a great girlfriend now and we have such a good time together so why is ...

I think it's funny now... is it normal for me to think of it this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - About 9 months ago me and my boyfriend had a major fight as he lied about where he was one night, following it we both went on a night out with friends but seperately, and met up later, when we met up I caught him on the phone planning to meet up ...

As the years pass I feel as if I've lost "the one". Does anyone else feel like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - We had known each other since childhood, it was almost inevitable that years later, as adults, we would get together. We both came from unhappy homes and in the past had problems with drink and drugs. Together we straightened ourselves out and ...

I got a job and he's gone all quiet on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend has split up with me, but hasn't told me. I saw him a week ago, when he said he would text me the following day but he didn't. I have thought for a while something was a bit 'off' but thought he would eventually open up as to ...

It really hurts how much he has change, why did he start treating everybody so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Right basically, ive split from my boyfriend and i still really like him even tho he hurt me really bad by leading me on after we went on a break by his choice by kissing me and then ending it for good, but hes really changed. He used to be sweet,fu...

I'm getting a divorce! What are my legal rights to his inheritance??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I am getting a divorce after ten years, I need to know if I am legally entitled to his inheritence or what reasons I would not be entitled to it....

My wife became violent and we're having a divorce! She is trying to take our kids from me, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Heres my story. And it's a long one at that.... Some fore years ago i married a woman that already had five kids...one of which i took on as my own due to my wife telling me that the biological father was a bad egg. I had another two children...

What can I say to recover the relationship...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Is there anything I can do/say in order to get my girlfriend back? Last week i got a bit down and kept my girlfriend at arms length,she was supposed to be going away for the weekend and i felt that i would get better when she got back. My mother...

Why can't we just stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years, the longest I've ever had. But we break up and get back together all the time. I'm tired of that because if he wants to be together why can't we just stay together? another problem that I ...

Do feelings really just fade away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me a couple months ago. I have been an idiot and kept pressing the issue of getting back together, even though i know she needs her space right now and doesn't want a boyfriend. I didn't do anything ...

Is he playing with my mind or does he really want me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I really want my ex back after 2 months, we are still sleeping together about 2 times a week, talk on the phone everyday, and see other most days down the pub, He knows i still have feelings for him and would go bk to him , but he says we are frie...

Am I just lonely or do I really miss her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - as i have said before, i broke up with my ex back in june, we were going out for 8 months, i broke up with her because her family is crazy(litteraly),i just felt bored and like i deserved someone better than her, as it has been 5 months, not a ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend love me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend met 2 years ago. He exposed his love to me at the beginning. He loved me so much at that time. About 6 months later he is starting to change. I really love him so much. I always agree and accept whatever he wants. He even knows ...

She has also made up so much crap about me that I find it hard to believe she was at one point my wife...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I have been married for four years and my wife and I broke up some two months ago. At first she wanted me to stay with friends for a while as to give ourselves a break, but still being husband and wife. I soon found out that she was starting to go ...

I'm soooo in love but miserable and confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Dear agony aunt: My boyfriend hasn't been having the best of luck these past few months, he says he has problems in his life because everything hasn't been going right for him. Now I try to help him but he pushes me away and because of this we ...

Does he still care or is he using me?

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28 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy a year and a half ago when I was in a bad relationship which ended and he was there with me. Around this time we were like the best of friends but he had asked me out and I had hesitated because he's like 8 years older and is my ...

She's just not herself since we broke up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - hello friends, We broke off a month ago. She still behaved like before but I brought myself to the friendship boundary and she was often hurt by this but soon she adapted herself to this to some extent. Since then we have been having hard time acc...

I feel like she just doesn't love me anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - Since school started after the summer, my girlfriend of nine months has been feeling distant. On IM she started giving short answers and stopped calling me. I knew she was having problems, but those problems had nothing to do with me, and it felt ...

Do I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I was with a girl for 18 months and it may not be a super long period of time and we are still young but i knew she was something special. Not like any girl i have ever met. I love her with all my heart. Well at nights for the past couple months i ...

Will a woman go after the "working" man who's best for her - even if he's off-limits?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Good evening! I've a silly question really. I'd like to know from the lovely ladies out there who frequent this web-site whether you can genuinely be selective about who you decide to date in a working environment. In other words, if a guy was 'off ...

Do you think he will ever get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Me and my bf finished on sunday I had already written a question on sunday there sayin that we always argue .. we still toked on the fone on the monday a cppl of times and then on the tuesday and wen i was at college on the tuesday afternoon he had ...

Should I break up with her before I go to the university?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Hi me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year now and i'm going to university in 2 years time. I keep thinking i want to break up with her when i'm at uni. I know its a long time off but i'm gunna be miles away and i'm always thinking ...

How do I discretely make him come to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up a little more than a month ago. We go to school together, and therefore we see each other every day. I would love to get back together with him. I have worked on the things in my life that was part of the break up. ...

Is this relationship over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I am 25 and have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for ...

I don't think I love my husband anymore! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi I feel sick and utterly alone not being able to talk to anyone about my marriage. There is nobody I feel I can be absolutely honest with and the one person I should do my husband I don't want to hurt. We have been married 9 years and have 4...

We're just sex buddies...even though we broke up 2 months ago! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, i now this is sounding stupid and desperate but, me and my ex broke 2 months ago for the past month we've been having sex as in f**k buddies, the thing is we both we not getting any and he hardly has any money and so he puts it ...

We're dating but he like another female...how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My bf and I been together for 2 yrs now and he recently met a girl he really likes. Now, we're not planning on breaking up with each other but she does apparently "appeal" more to him than I do and this is what got me freakin out. How do I win m...

I have dated men who treated me badly--so how do I gain a man's respect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - why is it that I am 25 years old and have never had a meaningful relationship in my life? The closest I ever had was in my teens but I had to break up with him because he was abusive. It seems now I go on a date with a guy and they are all over me ...

I believe in fighting for the one I love, but how do I do that in this situation? Any Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for approx 18 mos, we had a slow, deliberate start for a few reasons. We both had been burned in prior relationships (not recent though, I felt we were both pretty far moved on by the time we both got officially going, ...

I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years, met someone else, still interested in my ex, confused, which one would be better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 years. We broke up 2 years ago and since then have gotten back together and broken up many times. In the meantime, I met someone else that I've seen off and on over the past 2 years. ...

I am in love with a guy, who was verbally abusive and he dumped me, I am very sad, how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my ex. He had huge issues with my past. He was like Dr. jekkyll and Mr. Hyde. Sometimes he'd be the swettest and then he'd practically hate me. He was always blaming me for spoiling the relationship, becasue of the past, he was ...

After 4 years, the love of my life left me cold, I cry all the time, what do I do to get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1832 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - My lover of 4 years just left me for someone else. She betrayed all the promises she had made to me, betrayed my trust and faith in her, forgot all the sweet moments we’ve had, forgot all that i have done for her and just left. The way i find out is ...

When it all ends...God it hurts...But is there always light in the end of the tunnel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi! I think all of us, men and wemen, got thru the nightmare of ending a relationship, and surviving the weeks and months after. I´ve been trough this twice, and both times I felt I would die! I was the one to break up, for several reasons....

Should I pursue it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - My husband of two years and I seperated in September mainly because the marriage was abusive, but also because he decided he was having a midlife crisis (at age 24!!) and couldn't decide if he wanted to be married any more. Since we have been apa...