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anonymous
writes:Hi me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year now and i'm going to university in 2 years time. I keep thinking i want to break up with her when i'm at uni.I know its a long time off but i'm gunna be miles away and i'm always thinking about other girls when i'm not with her.I dunno what to do. She's completely in love with me and thinks i'm going to propose one day and i really don't know what to do.I love her but everything's just the same these days and nothing changes.Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Wow... You don't love her at all 0_0
Please do her a favor and break up with her. Let her find someone who will actually love her and cherish her as a person.
I can't understand how people can be so cruel as to toy with someone's emotions.
As for thinking about other girls all the time, that's also another sign of you not loving her. Please break up with her. Don't waste her time anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): please do the poor girl a favor, and gently break up with her now, instead of wasting two more years of her life when you clearly dont care about her as much as she cares about you. from what youve said you are simply bored in the relationship and although you claim to love her too, i dont think you understand what truly loving someone is. if you really loved this girl you wouldnt be thinking about other girls all the time and you certainly wouldnt be thinking about leaving her when you go away for school. if you really cared for her you would plan on doing your best to keep the relationship going despite university and distance. dont waste anymore of her time, i suggest you break up with her now and let her find some one who will love her back the way she deserves to be loved.
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reader, Artistry  +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Hey, Now if it is going to be two years before you attend University, and you are trying to make plans to break up with her now, then I agree with the other Aunts, why not do it now? I would. You are seemingly not happy in this relationship, although you say you love her. What does it mean when you say "everything is still the same here", are your bored? I would not waste anymore of her time, as you want to break up with her anyway. Do it now, and explain how you feel, don't blame it on the University, express yourself to her truthfully. Take care and good luck.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (27 November 2008):
 If this was right for you , then you wouldn't be questioning it. I'ts only natural for you to have these feelings, you could try being honest with her and cut down the time you see her or finish it altogether. Going away to University will give you a whole new lease on life,meeting other people,girls, and a new social life. It looks like you are aware of this. You sound as if you arent ready for a big committment at the moment. Be honest with her and discuss it then she can make her own mind up as well. If at some point in the future you find that you can't cope without her then at least you will find a way. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I think it would be better to break up with her now if you're not totally committed, rather than waiting 2 years in what is for you a dull, uninspiring relationship. At least have the balls to tell her now rather than wasting 2 years of her life during which she could find someone who returns her love in equal measure.
You may even find someone to become besotted with yourself!
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