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writes:Me and my boyfriend met 2 years ago. He exposed his love to me at the beginning. He loved me so much at that time. About 6 months later he is starting to change. I really love him so much. I always agree and accept whatever he wants. He even knows that I love him so much but now he wants to break up with me but I didn't accept. We are still seeing each other until now but I know that he's not like before. He said that he's not happy when hes with me. Should I let him go? The problem is I can't let him go. Please advise me what should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lorenzo  +, writes (28 November 2008):
My dear your relationship with your boyfriend is still fresh. you need to give it time to progress in the end if you decide to show no interest in him he will start to get worried. So basically its clear sign that he is not ready or something is not right in the relationship so you have to keep your eyes open and talk to him find out what disturbing him and in the end you will get your answers you are looking for.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 I'm always a bit wary of people who confess undying love early on in a relationship. It can lead to a false sense of security on the other parties behalf. Sounds to me like he was using the old 'chat up tecnique to win you over. If he's wanting to break up with you then you can't stop him. Let him go otherwise he will stay just to feel sorry for you and that's no good for any of you, you could end up destroying the little you had in the first place. This is happening for a reason, that the real love of y our life is waiting for you to show. good luck. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I feel sorry that you love him so much but he wants to break up. But you can't force people and in the long run he will like you even less if you try to force him.
You say that you go along with whatever he wants. It could be frustrating for him that you do that.
You can let him go. It will be hard at first but for a happy relationship, both people have to want it and you would always feel uneasy and unwanted with the current boyfriend. Better to move on and find someone who really wants you.
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