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writes: I'm in love with my ex. He had huge issues with my past. He was like Dr. jekkyll and Mr. Hyde. Sometimes he'd be the swettest and then he'd practically hate me. He was always blaming me for spoiling the relationship, becasue of the past, he was always complaining about things I did when I was single.Well he dumped me now it seems for good, he doesn't wanna see me or talk to me and doesn't care if I'm hurting. I told him everything I've told you guys, about how bad he made me feel, and he seems glad.He got angry because I was trying to explain how I felt about something and as usual he thought I was nagging and then he told me to leave and we were with some friends and I just left without saying goodbye and he told me it was over because I was stupid and childish and a slut and that I always embarrassed him. Lately he had been criticizing me so much.And now he told me he is going to ask this girl out this weekend! He's already moving on and my self esteem is crushed I'm already stressed with school, I already feel like doing nothing and now this! Now I really want to do nothing and I have so much to do and I don't want to! And I feel ugly, fat, stupid, worthless, guilty and unloveable. He doesn't want to talk to me, and I just wanna die, this pain is so intense, I love him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Oh sweetheart, sounds like you need a big hug, so heres a virtual one:
*Big Hug*
Now, you are NOT any of the following:
ugly, fat, stupid, worthless, guilty and unloveable
It sounds like you are really hurting, but to be honest, it also sounds like you are best off out of that relationship, for a guy to say those things to you is absolutely wrong and nasty. He sounds like a bully and a complete moron. You are so much worth more than this are you not? Take this opportunity to go out with you friends, go out and laugh again!
I can promise you that given time, you will eventually feel better and begin to move on, I know it doesnt seem like it at the moment and that life itself isn't worth carrying on with, but I swear, IT WILL GET BETTER!
Hang on in there sweetheart, and if you wanna chat, please mail me
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