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writes:Dear agony aunt:My boyfriend hasn't been having the best of luck these past few months, he says he has problems in his life because everything hasn't been going right for him. Now I try to help him but he pushes me away and because of this we usually breakup quite often and always get back together too soon, he usually apologizes for this but when we together again, he pushes me away again and it just keeps going on like a life cycle, what must I do? I need serious help...From:anonimous
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): You need to have a good talk to him and tell him in a ralationship in order to have a very good one you have to be there 4 each other and you cant possibly do that if he keeps pushing you away all the time tell him it must stop or else he could lose you for good, if you dont want to do that then give your ralationship a break for a while until he gets him self sorted. in a ralationship the best key is communication
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reader, Looshkin  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 Take a step back. Be there for him and see him as you normal do but don't try to help him. Let him know you are there for him if he needs you to help or wants to talk he will ask. Some people are very private or just stuborn and want to do things on there own in there own way. If you don't try to help he can't push you away and you break the cycle. When things look better to him he may be more inclined to talk to you about it. Be there for him but don't push him.
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