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Archived questions from: May, 2020 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm confused by what this man said.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1671 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - I recently started talking to someone in a friendly way , he lives in another city to me and asked me, if I am I going to keep him up an night if he stays at mine as I said id like to spend the night with him, im just wondering if he will have ...

I'm not happy with my girlfriend's appearance and lack of self care.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

31 May 2020 (M) - If I’m not happy with my gfs appearance do I have another choice rather than leaving her? We were both in good shape when we got together few years ago but she is now borderline obese. Also our eating habits are opposite. She has this obsession w...

Is this guy trying to make me pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1671 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone This is my first time posting on this, and my friend told me its very helpfull, im not sure how much details to go into but this has really confused me and have asked a few people but not really had a answer lol, So a guy im seeing af...

Are our neighbours taking their stress out on us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1671 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I was just wondering if I had made the best decision… Five years ago, my husband and I struck a friendship with a couple that is about 12 years older. They live in the same village where we bought a house, where we hope to...

What should I do about my passive aggressive sister in law?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1671 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - My husband and I travelled cross country to visit his brother and his brothers family (wife and kids) over Christmas holiday. It was the first time I would really get to spend one on one time with them. I get along very well with all the rest of my ...

My wife says my vest is embarrassing.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1670 days ago

31 May 2020 (M) - There's a TV show about a motorcycle club called Sons of anarchy. I bought a vest like the ones worn on the show by the actors. I have a motorcycle and I'm such a fan of that TV show. My wife says it would be embarrassing to wear it as people w...

I've met a guy I like, but he is friends with my ex baby daddy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

31 May 2020 (F) - I’m trying to decide if a guy is interested in me. He is a divorced single Dad. The issue is he is friends with my ex baby daddy. We saw each other out with our kids. His daughter is friends with my oldest daughter. So I asked if she could come over ...

Being in lockdown has forced me to see how unhealthy our relationship is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1667 days ago

30 May 2020 (F) - Hi all! I would appreciate some advice on how to handle an issue with my husband or rather a problem hes has that is seriously influencing my life. In a nutshell, he has some problems with relationships with people (I understand WHY). R...

What can I do about my life and wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

29 May 2020 (M) - Over 43 yrs of faithful marriage she requires separate bedrooms handles all financial transactions accumulate over 100,000 dollars in credit card debts that I know of and no sex for 3 years now .... what to do No names please ...

Am I screwing my friend over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

29 May 2020 (M) - I had a message from an old friend asking if I had ideas to pitch to a company he has just signed up to as a freelancer. They are a production company looking for show ideas and pay commission if an idea is chosen. My friend said if any ideas I c...

The more I try to better myself the nastier my friend becomes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

27 May 2020 (F) - Thanks in advance for answers to my guestion. This is a great site. I have been friends with this paticular friend for about ten years. I cannot say that this is the only friendship I have been evaluating lately. I have a great job and have started ...

Is she smitten with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1675 days ago

24 May 2020 (M) - I am confused and more unsure than I have ever been. I have always been a good guy who is confident and I always know what to do. But with this lovely woman I am unsure. We work together, and she is in a relationship she is dissatisfied wit...

My married boyfriend is moving to Panama for 6 months and is leaving me behind. He wants me to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1676 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - I know I won't get any sympathy here but I am looking for some advice. Mistresses have nowhere to go. My married lover (he is more like a boyfriend now) is going to Panama with his wife in September to spend 6 months out of the year there, ever...

I feel trapped in this relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1680 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - Hi I’ve been in a long term relationship for 8 years we have a coming up 6 year old son my partner 3 years ago suddenly started smoking weed he was good looking and smart when we met the relationship was great we both were working we went on ...

Does this man like me or need space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

23 May 2020 (F) - This boy told me he likes me n he started holding me n kissing me. He stays the night n hold me. In morning he left early n didn't hear from him in a couple days. He came up to me n I said u didn't say nothing just left. He said I need to get on my ...

Did I emotionally cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1679 days ago

22 May 2020 (F) - Some background. I’m in my mid 20s, my boyfriend is early 30s. I went through a very tough breakup. This was at a time in my life where I was also experiencing four deaths of people close to me. I was an absolute mess to say the least. Throughout ...

Why did he ghost me after acting so insecure ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1677 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , ...

How can I remain upbeat when the father of my child creates conflict?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1681 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - Experiencing ongoing conflict with the farther of my child who I left over ten years ago. On yesterday's date, I contacted a helpline for dealing with domesticated issues regards to communication taken place. As a result,they referred me t...

Commitments to my work and my compromised family conflict.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1655 days ago

21 May 2020 (M) - Currently i am trying to juggle my personal life with work. They keep clashing, my boss calls meetings always towards the end of the day which means i am late getting home. I have 3 disabled family members waiting for me to get home, carers help ...

I'm in the US, sister in UK is making some rash decisions, how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1681 days ago

21 May 2020 (F) - I moved to the us 16 years ago. My family is back in the UK and my sister had a diagnosis for early onset Alzheimer's a few years ago. Her and her partner have broke up and she says she wants to move back to London - she lived there for some years ...

Where did I mess up with the LDR who faded on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1681 days ago

20 May 2020 (M) - This girl and I first met a couple of years ago, casually hanged out a couple of times, then went back to our own countries on the opposite sides of the world. A few months later, we briefly met one more time when I travelled to her country; we had ...

My feelings have grown since blowing off a girl I met in college.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

19 May 2020 (M) - I always had intense trust issues that lead me to stay away from relationships. In fact I've never been in a relationship till now, perhaps because of that. This also lead me to not make many friends and for some reason I maintained distance from ...

He criticizes my driving and it’s wrecking my confidence and ability!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

18 May 2020 (F) - Heeeellpppp, i am a long time driving vihicles already. Im driving bycicles, real motorbike sometimes with 1 or 2 behind me as passenger plus my baby dog infront basket ( please dont get mad" that is normal in asia, when your small baby dog is train ...

How do I deal with the incredibly annoying and somewhat creepy flatmate that I'm stuck with during lockdown?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1685 days ago

16 May 2020 (F) - I'm currently living away from home in the UK, sharing a flat with three others. Unfortunately, due to the coronavirus lockdown two of them have gone to live with their friends nearby a couple of months ago, so it's just me and a male flatmate whom ...

I don't consider myself to be gay but what was the homosexual experience with my cousin all about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1684 days ago

16 May 2020 (M) - This thing happened to me when I was 13 years old. I used to meet my cousins on vacations when we had a large family get-together. I had this particular male cousin who was of the same age as me. We both never had any girlfriends ever and were ...

BE REALISTIC WHEN DATING A NEW GUY

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1683 days ago

14 May 2020 (F) - Women often get caught up in the excitement of finding a new man, so much so that they throw caution to the wind and carry on with him even when there are clear indications he is not worth the bother. The very needy ones might even insist that they ...

My partner's family never acknowledge my birthday

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1681 days ago

13 May 2020 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 63 and my guy is 65. We both own our own businesses, both fairly healthy. No children. We got together six years ago and both had no children from before. He lives with me in my house and they have often visited here and spent a ...

Is normal for my boyfriend to bath and shower with his six year old son

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1674 days ago

10 May 2020 (F) - Is normal for my boyfriend to bath and shower with his six year old son. He also, sleeps naked and allows his son to see him naked is this normal. Or red flags to where I should be concerned and running away from this man. I don’t have children. ...

What are examples of someone being a co-pilot in a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1691 days ago

9 May 2020 (F) - I have been torturing myself wondering why I was not good enough for my ex-boyfriend. He made a comment to me that will forever haunt me. He said I was never his "co-pilot" and that "I will never be what he wants me to be". I don't understand what ...

Why does my husband have an unhealthy obsession with me, my body and other men looking at me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1693 days ago

8 May 2020 (F) - I am a 35 year old woman married for the last 6 years and have a 2 year old child. My husband is a genuinely good person who dotes on the baby and me. The problem is that he dotes on me a little too much. Despite being married for 6 years and ...

I want to help my boyfriend deal with his past sexual abuse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1695 days ago

8 May 2020 (F) - Hi all. I wasn't sure where else to ask this, but I am not sure what my best actions can be. While drunk, my boyfriend recently divulged some information to me about his past. Basically when he was 14 (he's 28 now), an older woman (early-mid ...

I'm still grieving the death of my husband.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1694 days ago

7 May 2020 (F) - My husband passed away 8 months ago after a two year battle with lung cancer. Since then, work has been able to distract me from my grief but I have been working from home due to COVID-19. It's harder on me being home all the time, surrounded by his ...

I feel I would be better off staying single and just getting a bed buddy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1692 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - I am a single mom. I have been divorced twice. I attract toxic people. Or people who need fixed. I am trying to get back into the dating scene. I feel like I truly know myself now. I am sensitive and an over thinker. I am wondering if I should just ...

I believe my husband married me for convenience.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

6 May 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm married to my current husband for 2 years and been together for 4 years, (2 years before marriage). I am not sure whether i love my husband or not, reasons below. 1. He never told he loves me even once in this 4 years, his reason...

It feels like a slap in the face to provide everything for this relationship and not even get the respect of an adult conversation.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1694 days ago

5 May 2020 (F) - Hello! I have been in a relationship for over two years. My SO hasn’t worked most of our relationship. I have an apartment that he pretty much stays at unless he goes home after a fight. I am constantly stressed about bills and responsibilities ...

Can a swinger give up that scene and be monogamous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1696 days ago

5 May 2020 (F) - Can a swinger give up that scene and be monogamous? I’ve started seeing someone who I really like. However they’ve been into swinging and I just don’t know if that’s something that people just give up. I prefer a monogamous relationship. ...

Is it ok to talk to two people at once on online dating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1696 days ago

4 May 2020 (M) - Hi all, I have had a rough few years and have abstained from the dating scene during this period in part because of a breakup that took me a long time to get over. My life currently doesn't allow me to meet new people often so I decided to try...