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Archived questions from: February, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Help please! Need some career advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, less of a dating question and more a career one. I left college two years ago and decided not to go to university, it was a good move for me personally because I don't like what is happening to universities right now. I've ...

I friend zoned him, he is trying to be more, which annoys me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - I have known this guy for 4 months, everything was good and we had a very good connection. After a while, he started falling for me, he confessed his feeling to me and he wanted a relationship. He was so desperate for my love which turned me off a ...

How should I react to this coversation between him and her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - Ok, so I am going out with an older man, he is 16 years older than me(me 30 he is 46), divorced no children,we get along really well,and he treats me super nice,he is a gentleman and much more,we don’t have a lot of time of being together,yet we ...

I feel I'm so bitter and lifeless at such a young age! How can I change myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

28 February 2018 (F) - How can I be a better person? Hello aunts I suffer from anxiety - depression and obsessive personality diagnosed when I was young - long story short I have a lot of inner issues that I want to resolve and attack . One of my main issues which I have ...

Should I be ticked hubby didn't say I love you after I said it to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - Hubby of 5 years and I spent a lovely weekend together. Left the kids with his mom and took a romantic weekend for ourselves. It was fun and passionate until..... I told him "I love you." He didn't say it back because he doesn't want it to be...

He doesn't want children but I want one of my own

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

27 February 2018 (F) - I feel like ive wasted my time , my boyfriend ( of 4 month) just blurted out he doesnt want kids .We havent talked about having any or any anytime soon. i dont know why he just said it , he already has 2 ( pre teen )but i always wanted one and he ...

In-love vs Indebt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

27 February 2018 (M) - is there a difference between "in-love" and "indebted"? I was having lunch with a girlfriend who kept on and on about how much in-love she is. out of interest, I asked her what she finds most intriguing about this guy and she tells me "I've n...

I've accepted his past so why can't he move past mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

26 February 2018 (F) - Hi I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly two months is 19. When we first met (a couple of months before we started dating) we spoke about our body counts. I've been with a few guys and he's been with a few girls, nothing major or too far, just as you'd ...

How to convince my parents to let me date this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

25 February 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, first of all, I'll provide some information about myself. I am 19 years old and I'm in my second semester in University. I live on campus during the weekday and I'm home during the weekend with my parents. (Also, bear in mind, moving ...

Do I need to say something to head off this student?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Hello, I’ve written in before and now I have a really awkward situation that doesn’t have too much to do with my parents. Part of their rules about me going to school here is that I am not to work. They give me $20 a week for hygiene items or if I ...

Husband is making my life miserable because I told both our families of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

24 February 2018 (F) - Married for last 25 years. Husband had affair with girl 20 yrs younger to him 5 yrs back.. myself and my 15yr old son badly affected. I had to divulge the matter to my in-laws and my mother. They broke up last year. Last year my mom died. Before she ...

I’m terrified that I’ll encounter my Facebook stalker in my new neighborhood!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I’m a single quiet gay woman Im moving rental apartments soon and found out my Facebook stalker from 3 years ago is on same suburb! What if I see him? He hasn’t bothered me in nearly 3 years but I heard from work rumours when there wa...

Do I break two hearts by leaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

23 February 2018 (M) - I am a gay man and have been with my partner for almost 14 years. We married last year. I love him completely but over the last few years he has developed terrible depression and I can't lift him out of it. We have tried various things to keep ...

We've had 4 dates in 5 years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - Hiya I’ve been with my partner for 5 years now we have had problems throughout the relationship due to him we hardly spend any time together. we’ve been for 2 meals and to the pictures twice in 5 years. it’s like he doesn’t want to be seen with me....

He said he doesn't see it working out and doesn't want to waste my time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - I went on a couple dates with a really nice guy. Our chemistry was great and he's got a winning sense of humor that I just really appreciate. Everything was on track and we scheduled a third. This date wasn't awesome. I guess I was having a rough da...

How can I stop obsessing over my colleague?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

23 February 2018 (F) - how can I stop making men my world - example - I have a bad crush on a coworker - he is taken - and I know that it will not Work - my conscious self realizes he might not be a great catch but I am really attracted to him sexually so much that my ...

Married boss claimed to love me, kissed me and has now blocked me! Should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Ok so basically me and this guy I work with who is assistant manager and is married.. used to get on so well. I used to call him my work bestie as we just clicked and always had a laugh. Over the past couple of months I feel him getting closer t...

Why does a cheater cheat and then beg his gf or wife not to leave him if she finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Why does a cheater cheat on a woman he loves and then if she finds out, begs her not to leave him? Why would he even commit the worst relationship sin of all if he loved her? Seemingly he did not care enough about her not to hurt her. So, if ...

I feel I'm being left out because of the colour of my skin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

22 February 2018 (F) - Hi I’m a black female currently enrolled for my master’s at a very prestigious university in NYC. We are only 3 black people out of 120 in my class. I’m having quite a hard time making friends. I mean, everyone is kind and cordial but that’s a...

Are all university boys so immature? Do I need an older, more mature man in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - I have recently broken up with my university boyfriend after a year of dating. His hobbies included smoking weed and playing video games, and he didn't go to his lectures or ever have any money. He generally was a caring person who I had lots of ...

Is it possible to still be a rebound if a guy left his ex to be with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2467 days ago

20 February 2018 (F) - Is it possible to still be a rebound if a guy left his ex to be with you? My boyfriend and his ex broke up after she found out about us on Facebook. He’s with me now but he still entertains his ex and is still in contact with her....

What can I do to make my life easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

19 February 2018 (M) - been through a turbulent life and had bumps along the way, got into scraps with people, was raped when I was eighteen and have a gamble problem which is on going which I can’t keep control of and have quit work due to stress, Ive tried therapies, ...

He talks marriage but I think he is just using me for sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - So I was with a guy when I was younger we didn’t date but we would make out etc teenager stuff right (No sex) it lasted like 4 years so I consider it a relationship he ghosted me and then 3 years later came to see me and we talked made out etc he ...

I want to start a business but struggle with anxiety and depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

16 February 2018 (F) - Im writing this today because I am turning 25 and I'm a failure. I so badly want to be a productive and sensible adult but I'm just a big child. I've failed in so many areas of my life it's laughable. I have no career, no super, I finally managed to ...

My husband doesn't understand how important my sister is to me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - My husband recently lost his job. I told my sister immediately. My husband is now angry at me and said I should have asked if he wants me to make it public. I told him he cannot control me and that I share everything with my sister and also that my ...

I was working towards a goal that doesn't exist now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question but everyone on here gives good honest advice. I feel so lost. I was training for the job position higher than mine, and I moved to another department and increased my hours hoping that will leave a goo...

I don't have a partner, it makes me sad. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

15 February 2018 (F) - I am 32 and single for nearly nine years. At this time of the year my loneliness feels suffocating and I’m finding it extremely difficult to cope with the fact that there is no telling whether I will spend the next nine years or more alone.Given my ...

Toxic relationship with my mother and my family have decided to completely ignore me since I don´t live with them anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - I need advice on a problem that is making me miserable, and it´s that my family are completely ignoring me and my mother was all that I had left but she is neglecting our relationship. This is not a new event, this has been going on since I was a ...

Why am I a walking contradiction!!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

14 February 2018 (F) - Is it ok to feel most comfortable, content and safe at home? I live alone and have a small amount of individual fiends I see occasionally. I’m single, gay female, i work, and have no kids. As much as I enjoy looking around my city,g...

Any advise on what I can do to feel more relaxed while trying to learn and do my new job?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

13 February 2018 (M) - Pls help! I have issues with anxiety and panic attacks. I have recently joined this new firm where most of my colleagues are from the best schools and are really smart. It's great that this opportunity had come through and the job is something tha...

Is pregnancy a normal turn on for a man ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2475 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together about 6 months and we have a pretty normal happy relationship. Decent sex life and I love him and care for him dearly. I see a future for us. There is one thing that always comes up though recently. Pregna...

He's driving me crazy, how do I get him out without involving courts or police?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - I'm back again with another question. I asked my last question in Novemeber, long story short, I was asking why I didn't want to marry my fiance, and I got most answered that suggested talking to him. So I did a few weeks later and told him I didn't ...

I can't give up the fantasy of a fairy tale ending.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - The fear of being alone had led me to be alone - I have searched everywhere for a mate - online - bars - events - charity - church and nothing - when they have come out of the blue they have only made me miserable and empty- but I kept them just so ...

I'm starting to think I am unlovable :-(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

13 February 2018 (F) - I don’t know why it never works out for me. Every time I think it’s going to work out with a guy it ends up just being another dead end... My last actual relationship was a year ago with a guy I’m still in love with (and who apparently still ha...

My husband spends more time with his female co worker than he does with me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2471 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - My husband has a female coworker that he has been friends with for a while. They go out to lunch together and text each other here and there. I’ve never had a problem with this, I have male coworkers that I am friends with as well. My problem is ...

Will I ever meet anyone or will I be alone forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

12 February 2018 (F) - I’m a 29 year old single Mum to a beautiful 2 year old daughter. I split with her dad shortly after she was born, so I have been single for about 2 years. The first year I was happy being single and wanted to concentrate on raising my daughter. The ...

I want my pastor to treat me as he does others

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

11 February 2018 (F) - OK my head is frying and I have no one I can talk to about this without it ending up a mess. My pastor is hurting and confusing me! I am a young single mum to a 8 year old. I find life though sometimes. My pastor came out too see me 3 times in...

He makes insensitive comments then says I'm a drama queen

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

11 February 2018 (F) - Hi everybody. I’m here to ask you if I’m a drama queen! My boyfriend of 4 months is 53 and I’m 40. He treats me well but sometimes he makes some insensitive comments. We were talking about birth control pills, I cannot take any kind of them, and ...

Should I go to this concert or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

10 February 2018 (F) - Should I go to this concert or not?. I already have a ticket to see my favourite band for a seat for the 7th row in the front centre stalls block. Some security in some venues here let you stand at the front all the way through the concert, and some ...

I cheated and I stay because I think I owe him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2480 days ago

8 February 2018 (F) - (Mod note: based on your follow ups you are in an abusive relationship and require assistance beyond the scope of this site. Please contact the organization provided by the last post. This question is being closed now.) This is going to be a long one...

Would you date a man you weren't physically attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

8 February 2018 (F) - Would you date a guy who you aren’t physically attracted to? I met a guy online about 2 wks ago from Tinder. It was like a blind date as he’d only the one picture. We shared a mutual friend so I decided to meet him for a drink. He was nice in pe...

My girlfriend wants a break, what chance is there for us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2477 days ago

8 February 2018 (M) - So my girlfriend said she needs space to work out what she wants. Now I know that this isn’t a good thing but is it necessarily a bad thing? Obviously I have agreed to give her space for one week. Two points though do I text her at all to make sure ...

I thought he loved me but he cheated and she's pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2482 days ago

7 February 2018 (F) - Hello this may be a lil not lengthy but I need advice. I was in a long distance relationship with someone I met on a job two years ago, we met when I moved to Virginia for a short period of time but because we were both in a relationship at the time ...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2481 days ago

7 February 2018 (M) - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

Is this seven year relationship worth working on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2484 days ago

6 February 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. He's currently in med school, and about 6 hours away from me. He did his post-bacc program at this school last year, and now he is in his first year. Even though we're 6 hours apart, I still ...

Why am I always the last to know at work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

5 February 2018 (F) - Why am I always nearly the last one to find things out at work? everyone knows but me? This younger colleague (who works nights and I see in shift changeover) I have been working with for 3 years is leaving soon and everyone seems to know ...

How do I work with a Type A personality at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2483 days ago

4 February 2018 (F) - Asked this yesterday and no one understood my question. Please help me today. Thankyou. What’s the best way to work with a type A, younger,super confident and outgoing person? , when you are quieter, older, and type B? In a work situation.. a...

How does a Type B person work with a Type A person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

4 February 2018 (F) - What’s the best way to work with type “A” or very driven and assertive people? When you are quieter, older and more type “b” Tips please? Thanks ...

Is "we need to chat" the same as "we need to talk"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

4 February 2018 (M) - If someone says ‘we need to chat’ is that different than ‘we need to talk’ or do you think it’s the same thing? ...

How do I leave the family business without creating drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

3 February 2018 (M) - I work for my family business (we take care of people's dogs). I would like to quit my family's business and go work for another company that has nothing to do with dogs. I am getting extremely burned-out with working with dogs to the point that I ...