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Archived questions from: August, 2018 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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How do I deal with a clingy roommate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

28 August 2018 (F) - I am having some issues with my roommate. I live in a large,expensive city. I’ve been here for a few years and really like it. I love my job and have a lot of friends. Because I am a teacher and paying for graduate school, I needed to sav...

How do I stop creeping him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

28 August 2018 (F) - I met a guy at college over four years ago now ,he was 18 and I was 17 which is quite a long time ago but only feels like a year ago .When I first met him I was not interested in getting to know him because I did not find him attractive and he ...

I often worry when people don't respond quickly enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

28 August 2018 (F) - I often get worried when I don't receive a reply from someone and I know this may seem silly as not everyone is able to reply or they might be busy. there's one friend in particular that I try to not text or contact because I get worried if she does...

I don't feel guilty for cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

28 August 2018 (F) - Things with my bf have been Rocky for a while. We've been together nearly 4 years. We hardly sleep together, we never go to restaurants, we argue alot but when I've suggested we break up he gets teapot upset and says things like without you I will ...

He's messing around with that other girl, he's the one that moved out leaving me paying all the bills when I'm unemployed and yet somehow I'm at fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

27 August 2018 (F) - Hi guys, this will be a long one so please bear with me... I moved abroad around 3 years ago for work. Two years in, I met Jay who I thought was, as tacky as it sounds, the one for me. I had never had this connection with anybody before and there...

Is it possible for someone to be so self-centered and selfish that he doesn't even realize he's in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2278 days ago

27 August 2018 (F) - Is it possible for someone to be so self-centered and selfish that he doesn't even realize he's in the wrong? Here are a few examples : 1. I believe in bringing the kids to travel internationally to visit different countries and cultures to 'see...

Are most people this uncomfortable seeing their exes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

26 August 2018 (F) - Today we were going to go to a supermarket and my boyfriend did not want to go inside at all because his exes mom was in there. It made me feel like he wasn’t over that person because he always makes sure that person isn’t there If we are to sto...

He wants to return to his home country but I don't want to join him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

26 August 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. Things have been good but we're trying to think more seriously about our future together. He's from another country and originally wanted to move back there to start a life. For a litt...

Someone I thought was a best friend just chose someone else to be his best man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2282 days ago

26 August 2018 (M) - I’m left at the minute and don’t really have a best friend. I grew up in a different county until I was 13. I made a lot of friends at a school from an early age and I have always been active and interested in sports. I make friends easily a...

I feel like I am forcing myself on him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

26 August 2018 (F) - Im in a long distance relationship that would be three years in November. My boyfriend has been in school abroad, he’s graduated now and is back home.Sometimes things are great, sometimes they are not. So I thought that now that he’s back, and ...

He'll do anything .... except come fishin'

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

25 August 2018 (F) - My family are a big fishing family (both my side and my husband's family loves fishing). We tried to teach our children to love fishing. We have three children and three grandchildren. Our youngest son, Justin, is 33 years old and he hates fis...

Is it the world or is it just me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

25 August 2018 (M) - What am I doing to push people away or just get used all the time. All my friends from school don’t really bother, any gatherings, I’m usually last resort. If I flash my money and support them, buy them lunch, look after them, they will love t...

I'm afraid that having a transgender friend means he's stringing me along

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

24 August 2018 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for a year and a half planning to move in with him. I’m pregnant. My boyfriend is very handsome cares a lot about his appearance. Well I put kisses baby and he put kisses mami then a transgender guy from his...

Will my married lover ever come back to me, even as a friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

24 August 2018 (F) - I am 45 with a teenage daughter. My husband is good but has no time or interest in me. I tried all ways to get him interested in me, but he is keen only in earning more money. He is not bad but a very very boring man. But he is a great dad. I ev...

How do I fix my girlfriend's attitude about her appearance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

24 August 2018 (F) - My girlfriend has a folder on her phone that consists of a lot of pictures of beautiful girls. I asked her about it and she said that these girls are pretty and she likes the inspiration because she wants to look like that one day. We're both onl...

Turnng 30 and getting itchy feet about passionless relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

23 August 2018 (F) - Hi, I don't know what to do or how to feel. I have lived at home with my parents until not long ago. I was always a good kid and studied hard and didn't go out partying. I've bought a house and moved in with my partner of 10 years. I have bee...

My husband's driving triggers my panic attacks

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2284 days ago

23 August 2018 (F) - I suffer from anxiety, and i have been married for 7 years now. I constantly have an argument with my husband whenever he is driving. I have severe fear from driving (specially highways), and i always argue with my husband if he just slightly gets ...

The guy I've been seeing just asked about a threesome with my friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2286 days ago

23 August 2018 (F) - A guy I've been seeing for not long was talking to me tonight and he pulled up a pic on my social media and asked if it was my friend in the pic. I said yes and he said she looks familiar. He then a few sentences later was asking if I wanted a...

Our male co-worker is too friendly with my girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2284 days ago

22 August 2018 (M) - Hey so i work with my gf and we have this male coworker who is engaged. but he is always giving my gf a little gift like once a month. it could be some bread he baked or the last thing was a pack of paper clips with a note saying he hopes this ...

Leaving a married man is more painful than staying

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2285 days ago

22 August 2018 (F) - So I ended my A over a month ago. I felt like a huge weight was lighted off my shoulders that I finally off the roller coster ride of emotions. I started wanting more than he can give He would always make excuses to come to my place go to your p...

After 2 months away my boyfriend wants us to take a break

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2285 days ago

22 August 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he just got back from being away for 2 months on a family vacation. Ever since he got back, things have not felt the same. Everything was pretty much really awkward. So, we talked and at first we...

I've been taking stock of my life since my ex and I broke up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2286 days ago

22 August 2018 (F) - I am in mid twenties from India. This is gonna be a very long post please bear with me . I am an introvert and solitary reaper kind of personality. I hardly have or made friends. Currently I have very small circle of friends with whom I am in const...

I just can’t shake the feeling that he’ll be benefiting from me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2284 days ago

21 August 2018 (F) - Hey, so I have a dilemma! My boyfriend of 6 months is due to move in soon, I'm very happy and so is he, we adore each other. I have my own place which is owned by family, I don't pay any rent, my grandmother pays for the service charge whic...

My profile was on a dating app...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2286 days ago

21 August 2018 (M) - I have a long term partner of many years , with whom I'm really happy. About a year ago we were chatting in bed about dating in general, and how hard it must be to meet someone suitable, etc.We'd just been watching one of our favorite TV programs...

What should I do about this married, flirting floozy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2285 days ago

19 August 2018 (M) - I have a friend and shes always says she love me. Shes married to She once said I love you more then you know what is she trying to say to me. She flurts with me to. I dont know what to do....

I think this 15 yo boy will probably want sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2288 days ago

19 August 2018 (F) - i am a 13 year old . this guy is very cute and i like him a lot . and he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and i told him “ rpprobably not maybe i’ll succ you tho “ and yeah he is 15 and is not a virgin and i’m 13 and i am . ughhh idk what ...

Does my wife really believe we need this money this bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

18 August 2018 (M) - I'll try to keep it short. My wife picked up a small second job cleaning/taking care of an elderly man (80's) 20 hours a week. She heard of this guy through a customer at her waitressing job. Guy is paying her $20 an hour under the table. Pr...

Did I just get used for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - So I've known this guy for a while and last week our texts turned sexual and he said do I want to meet with him. So we met we were kissing, we held hands we had a good time. Then he asked if I wanted to have sex with him I said I couldn't because I ...

After 28 years of marriage I just feel sad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2287 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - M Y husband and I have been married for 28years. We have 3 children. We had our own cleaning business which went bankrupt. Whilst working in our family business I also had a 4 day a week external job. He now has a casual care taker job. He works ...

Sometimes people don’t understand my sense of humour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2291 days ago

16 August 2018 (F) - i hope I don't sound big headed but I feel as though I am quite a funny person which is one of the things I like about myself and makes me feel slightly more confident , I always seem to make someone laugh , when im in a group of people im normally ...

Why is my ex reaching out again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2293 days ago

15 August 2018 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated in school only for a month when he suddenly broke it off. I was really hurt because I have deep feelings for him and we talked about our future a lot even though it was short lived. He ended up apologizing for his ...

I’m worried about how I’ll be able to handle things at my new job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2293 days ago

15 August 2018 (F) - I have a trial for a job at a café/restaurant next week and i'm unsure of whether to do it as ive been asked to hand out menu's to customers and I no this is just something im really bad at talking to people and how do I even say so to someone oh ...

Am I just in love with the idea of being loved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2293 days ago

15 August 2018 (M) - Has anyOdy else experience what I am experiencing now? Although She is an attractive woman I have never had any feelings for her in the past. By accident I found out that she finds me physically attractive. I never realised that fancied my type. ...

How I am going to do with my the monthly expenses with all these medical debt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2294 days ago

13 August 2018 (F) - I had an emergency surgery done this year and unfortunately, the medical insurance covered only a small portion of it so I am in debt with medical bills. I did call all the parties and set up a payment plan so at least I am paying it little by ...

I’m looking for practical advice on managing interviews!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2294 days ago

12 August 2018 (F) - I have been looking for a part time job for over a year now and now need one more then ever as I don't have a job anymore due to the café I worked at closing as a result of lease expiry and other issues . I had been quite happy working in a caf...

Do females feel it is important to work when married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2292 days ago

9 August 2018 (M) - Do you females feel like it’s important to work when married? My gf has only managed part time job, and few years later we are low on money and still not living together. She lost the job and now found another part because no one will accept her ...

I got involved with a coworker who spun a web of lies. Now he wants to be civil and I feel confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2297 days ago

9 August 2018 (F) - Hello all, I got in a relationship with somebody from work, he'd been unhappy in his relationship,they have two kids less than 5 years old together. Initially we were friends, he brought me out of my shell when I returned to work after m...

I feel stuck. Did I waste too much time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2296 days ago

9 August 2018 (F) - Hi all. I will try to be short and specific. I'm a biotech grad. And I was hopelessly running behind a research job for 3 and a half long years after my graduation but I did not achieved it. At the same time due to this unemployment and conflicts ...

She’s a good wife and a good mother, but did she break me too much? Will I ever forget what she put me through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

8 August 2018 (M) - My current wife and I dated from 2011 till now. I never had any reason to think she was ever unfaithful, but she talked a lot about ex boyfriends, and she had cheated on a number of them. We got engaged in 2014. And were supposed to get married i...

How far would you be prepared to travel to a friends wedding? Is the very expensive proposition even practical with my girlfriend and one year old baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2298 days ago

8 August 2018 (M) - How far would you be prepared to travel to a friends wedding? Hello everyone! After some honest and friendly advice regarding an up coming opportunity. I live in the UK and one of my closest friends lives in Auz. He has decide to go ahead and get...

Is it wrong to cut ties with former friends who let me down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

6 August 2018 (F) - Two years ago I worked for a small company of approx 60 people and my colleagues were like family. We worked together, socialised together-it was very tight knit. Then unfortunately one of our clients gave us a project that went wrong. One of my...

I just moved into a new rental apartment and now I realise that my creepy stalker of 3 years ago lives here too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2304 days ago

5 August 2018 (F) - Help! I’ve just moved rental apartments and have found out (via over hearing something at work) my Facebook stalker/creepy guy lives here too!? He stalked me three yrs ago and asked me out 3 times over fb, to which I said no! He’s weird and cree...

My ex who's also my colleague has ended the relationship in a really nasty way and I'm heartbroken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2304 days ago

4 August 2018 (F) - Sorry this is a long one but I'd really appreciate some advice please. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have known each other for about a year. We work in the same place but in different departments. There'd always b...

How can I subtly hint that I fancy my co-worker? I think he likes me too, but he seems shy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2304 days ago

3 August 2018 (F) - So over the past few months I got to know a co-worker from a different department pretty well. He often comes over to my department to ask me research questions, and we got talking and have a LOT in common, we really click and have very similar ...

Cheating, baby drama and a paternity test. I can't deal with all this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

3 August 2018 (F) - I have been married for a little over 3years and have 2 beautiful children with my husband. I had both children before we got married. When I was pregnant with my second son, I went into a great depression. He was not planned and I actually took a ...

I think my dad should take legal action, but how to convince him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

2 August 2018 (F) - My dad opened 2 companies about 12 years ago, everything were going really well and we were financially great. The past 2 years were hell, my dad's companies are failing to sell products as before. The 2 companies failed, and we had to close 1 ...

My boyfriend cannot stand up to his family and is commiting fraud!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2306 days ago

1 August 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating two years, living together, and discussing marriage for a couple months now. We have always acknowledged and accepted our differences in family culture however they have not affected us until now, and I am ...

I saw my boss on a dating app... and swiped yes! OMG!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2306 days ago

1 August 2018 (M) - Shit I didn't realise it was her until after I swiped Yes. Normally at work my boss is this conservative lady with thick glasses but she was this totally hot chick on this dating app. I mean I have never seen her even wearing a sleeveless top in the ...