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male
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anonymous
writes:I have a friend and shes always says she love me. Shes married to She once said I love you more then you know what is she trying to say to me. She flurts with me to. I dont know what to do.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (24 August 2018):
 Not much information to go on here.
I'm guessing you don't appreciate this attention?
Is she part of a group of friends and you can't cut her out of your life without cutting others out as well? How long have you known this woman and how well?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2018): Ignoring this kind of a predator sometimes adds fuel to the fire. These women are up for the challenge! So, I think you and your wife need to confront her together and tell her to stop bothering you. I'm afraid total humiliation is the only way. These people hate to have their ego's messed with because that's what it's all about to them. So, humiliation is the best way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2018): Simple , tell your wife about her
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2018): She's married; so what can you do? Nothing!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 August 2018):
 You call her a friend and a flirting floozy? So which is she?
If she initiate something flirtatious, shot it down if you don't find it appropriate.
It's not hard.
As for what she meant, why care? It's not like it can go anywhere is it?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (19 August 2018):
 Easy. Unless you want trouble from a disgruntled husband, you laugh it off and ignore it.
When she says "I love you", laugh and say something like "Of course you do. ALL the ladies love me."
If you are in any doubt about how you should react, you should ask HER HUSBAND and see what HE thinks.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (19 August 2018):
Here’s what you do: do not flirt back and try not to be around her unless it’s necessary. Keep some distance, and if she goes too far tell her you’re not interested. Don’t say the L-word back. Perhaps she is flirty and open with her feelings by nature. Perhaps she is trying to find an escape from an unhappy marriage. Perhaps she’s just a tease. The point is that she isn’t available so if this is worrying you, it’s just not worth being around it.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (19 August 2018):
 I'm with Aunty BimBim. Tell your wife that this married woman is harassing you, and that you're not interested.
If she doesn't take the hint from your wife, then it's time to stop being a nice guy. If she tries it again with you, tell her that you are not and will never be interested, and that if she doesn't leave you alone, her husband will know what she's up to.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 August 2018):
 Your question doesn't mention if you are wanting to stop her doing this or if you want to know what she means by saying these things or if you don't know how to take her up on her offer, if that's what it is.
I think you should have a chat with your wife and ask her to help …. if you are wanting this woman to stop with the flirting your wife will be able to do a few things, like laugh in her face or give her the evil eye ….
If you are wanting to know what's meant by these declarations of love your wife, as another woman, will be able to interpret for you, or …
if you are wanting to indulge in some hankypanky by telling your wife now she will be able to help you pack your stuff rather than wait for her to find out about your cheating AFTER it starts and it all gets very messy indeed.
Please come back and let us know how it goes.
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