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How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy???

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Question - (19 March 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2010):

You don't. You're either committed to her, or you're not. If you want go experiment, then you must leave her first. Don't tell her this though, it will hurt her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010):

I think you are a confused. A lot of guys go through some sexual identity confusion. It's more common than you think. From my understanding gay men have always known that they are gay. I don't think you are gay or bisexual just confused. I hope you figure it out.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010):

my advise would be to ask you r girl if she would fancy taking your relationship in the bedroom furter.

if she giggles and says yes ask if she would like another woman to join you, and if she says no, she wants another man to join then your sorted! good luck.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (20 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntJust tell her that you want to try sex with a guy and see how she reacts.

Then when her face becomes crimson, Just tell her that it was only a joke.

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A male reader, uncutdan United States +, writes (19 March 2010):

uncutdan agony auntYou have to be honest with her. Tell her you have feelings that might hurt her. And then tell her what they are.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):

Unless you two are in a open relationship or she is veerrry open minded, I would keep this to yourself as it would be cheating.

How would you feel if your girlfriend told you she wanted to have sex with another man? I amagine not great.

I think if you are really wanting to have sex with other people maybe you should split with your girlfriend as i wouldn't be fair on her.

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A female reader, Gasolina Canada +, writes (19 March 2010):

Gasolina agony auntSay something like, "you know honey, I've never been with a guy, and I've always wanted to try it."

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