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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My cousin and I are in a relationship. I was married at the time and he was not. We both loved each other deeply and were crazy for each other. So we got married behind the closed doors and was not done in public. We took this relationship very seriously, and I also had a daughter with him. Then he got married; however, he promised me that he is only doing it because he had to but he will never betray me. After a year or two, he left me and our daughter for seven years. Last year at a wedding he broke down and came back to me. even when he was not with me, I always thought of him as my ONLY husband since I had made the commitment. This time I told him that I take this relationship very seriously and that if he hurts me this time I will not be able to tolerate. So, we go on for a while and again he has asked to not have this relationship. He thinks it is wrong and he is afraid if it comes out in public. My feelings are very strong and my thinking is very different. I understand that it was a mistake we made back then but it is a relationship we had, a husband and a wife. Only because we did not do it in public does not mean anything to me. To me, whether it is a mistake or not, we were bonded by a relationship, it was true and genuine love. From my heart, he is my husband. However, he does not want to continue with this relationship. I understand his thinking that it was a mistake, but to me it is too late to think about it...... once we made a committment and have a child together, you can't back out.I am just so tired of being betrayed and disrespected. My argument is, he can only ask me to break this relationship because he does not think it is real. His relationship with his other wife, who he married in public is real? He wants to break this relationship because he is afraid of facing this world. Advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): No problem in this but think of it we must live with only one whom we love than anything in this world.we can give ourself for that one person.so,past is past dedicate urself to ur husband,not to ur cousin who was hiding himself from u and public,say bye to him and to his cock.
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