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writes:Having a Hard Time...I'm and my son are going through a hard time right now and want some advise on how to deal with it and go on with our lives. My husband of almost 20 years has left us for his first cousin. She lived in Florida until he moved her in with him. He thinks nothing is wrong with being inlove with his first cousin. He told me that he was not in love with me and not been happy for years that is why he lefted but I know different and have proof that he was planning on leaving for her. I have found chats and emails with them talking about it. OUr court date is soon and he thinks he is going to get off easy. Most of his family has turned against them and the boys don't want to have anything t do with her and he don't understand why. He told my oldest son that if he didn't won;t to have anything to do with her then he didn't want to have anything to do with him. He don't understand that they just want to spend time with him not the both of them. He Left me on Jan 30. Then 4 days later he left to go to Flordia to get her to move up here with him. Tell me something wasn't being planned before he left. I say yes. she decided to not come when he went then to get her but he finally bought her a ticket to fly up here and she did. She left her 2nd husband and her 3 kids and moved 3 states to be with him. Now tell me that isn't wrong and sick.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (19 March 2010):
MadamYou have my thoughts in what must be 'hell' at this time. I am in a similar situation that is 9 months past.However much we try and rationalise what our partners do, those sleepless night wondering 'if only', harboring thoughts of a return to better times i fear it ain't goner happen.He has acted like a complete shit and if it is any consolation, I doubt the new relationship will last.You must keep your faith and conside the three of you in the future 'Sod him' you are rid of rubbish!Your time will come just cry and if you feel full of self pity - you have evry right to do so. Times will change and that is the cure but it may take some time.Remember not all of us men are like this and the quicker you look for other interests the faster you will move forward and maybe find someone more worthy of your loyalty, charm and attractiveness!After you shower tonite stand naked in the front of the mirror. Yes! That beautiful lady is your maybe a little weather beaten after this but still fine and fit.A few more months the pain will disperse and life will seem a lot better?PM me and see if we speak on my birthday on August 15 I am right and you have moved on!Brunel
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