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*arah_87
writes:I have been with my Fiance for 3 years we have an 18month old daughter and due to be married next year. i love him very much and he treats me like a princess. i have recently started a new job under the same sector as my fiance and i have to come in contact with some of his work friends. we went to one of his friends wedding, and other parties with him aswell. now that i work with his friend we have started to become quite close i.e texting and flirting alot. everytime he texts me its like my heart skips a beat, it's like im 16 again! me and my fiance's fried havent physically done anything apart from flirting, but i don't know if i want it to go any further, i know he feels the same even though he's married. i dont know if its only a matter of time before the next step happens? has any body been in this situation before and can give me any advice? i love my fiance and he is the best thing that ever happened to me, but i cant stop myself from texting this guy... HELP!
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reader, Sarah_87 +, writes (22 March 2010):
Sarah_87 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi everyone, thank you so much for your comments. they are really helpful and you are all right!! i just needed to hear someone say it, and all of you did. so thanks for your help and i'm going to work on my current relationship and not contact the other guy. thanks everyone!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 Imagine your husband is sending flirty text to another girl, how would you feel?
If you are regularly sending flirty text to a married guy , it is wrong.You have crossed the line.
If you know that it is wrong and you don't want to hurt your fiance ,then you should stop and do not have any contact with this married guy.
Focus back on your fiance and send him flirty text instead.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 March 2010):
If you love your fiance, then end contact with this other man now and go home and focus on your relationship. This could just be you trying to regain independence, as you are a mother and are due to get married, both if which are stressful and time consuming. But if you do go further with this other guy, you will ruin your relationship, a friendship, possibly 3 careers and your daughter will end up growing up in a broken household for nothing. Not to mention your reputation will be left in a mess. So stop contact, go home and focus on your relationship. You have so much to lose if this goes any further.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): stay away. you are looking to hurt a lot of people and there jobs. is that worth having sex with your fiances friend and co worker. wake up! send flirty texts with your fiance to rekindle what u r looking for. Your crush will leave u in a second to stay with his wife while everyone around u will leave including coworkers friends and your fiance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010): Quite frankly your a fool for getting involved in texting in the first place. Think long and hard about your next step, it could make or break your current relationship.
Bear in mind if this other guy is married and does cheat on his wife, then he will most probably cheat on you too.
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