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writes:I asked my boyfriend where am I on his priority list he says I'm #3... I wish I was #1. He is #1 to me. Is that unfair? For me to be unhappy about being #3 on his priority list? Reply to this Question
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 What are his other priorities? :)
it's not UNfair to want to be number one on his list of priorities! :) But it's not always realistic.
I recently had this conversation with my bf.
I'm number 2 on his priority list :P but im number one on his "favourites" list. He has uni work to think about so im understanding. If ur unhappy about it, u shud tell him so gently, maybe he can make u feel better?
In the end though, if the number 2 and 1 things on his priority lists ARE really important, just be glad ur so close to the top! :) and just because ur not number 1 on his priority list right now, doesnt mean that ur not number 1 most of the time when he's not got something important to think about.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 March 2010):
It depends on the circumstances. If someone is ill in his family, or if right now he's struggling for a job or something like that, then naturally he will be more preoccupied with that. However, if you're number 3 in comparison to his friends and going out or something like that, then that's not fair. It depends on the circumstances.
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