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writes: Are fake breasts better than natural, small ones? I mean, I know this has been asked before. But it seems like they are. I've asked many guys and they say "Hey, if it improves her beauty, then it's all good!". And I read this article: http://www.cosmeticsurgerywife.com/articles/106/1/5-Reasons-Why-it-matters-to-have-the-best-looking-breasts-in-the-health-club/Page1.htmlShe sounds moronic, I mean, she bashes small breasts like it was a woman's fault that she was small chested. And she called fake breasts healthy looking in comparison to small. She says that men at the health club just look at her boobs and she feels great. Is this how men really feel?Maybe I should just get them done. I've always felt self conscious about my small ones, and even though I hate the idea of getting plastic bags under my skin, I just know that men prefer big breasts, it's true that they can't help but ogle when a round, big pair walks past... and I'm tired of feeling undesirable (I know a lot of busty women complain that being ogled is unwanted attention, but they don't know what it's like to get NO attention at all!). I am a great catch, but I feel ugly, I get no attention and it's not fair, since I didn't choose to have small breasts, it's not my fault and it enrages me to think that all those plastic skanks at gyms or the pool are feeling sorry about women like me! Sometimes I feel I can't take it anymore, and I feel that men just say they don't like fake breasts in order not to be hurtful... but otherwise why do they like porn stars and starlets with fake breasts so much? Why do they buy men's magazines in which most glamour models are obviously enhanced? It doesn't make sense, then, to say that they prefer real small breasts to fake big ones.Plus, a few guys have told me that yes, they say they hate implants only so they don't end up looking like jerks, but deep down, they prefer that to small ones and that if they could get their wives or gfs to get them done, they would!So are fake breasts better? Should I get mine done? I'm tired of feeling like the "just friends" girl, or the "cute" girl, or just plain nonexistant sometimes (especially at clubs or the beach), because other women have more breasts (I refuse to use the phrase "well endowed" since that implies having small breasts is being poorly endowed, like it's something negative). I want to feel like a sex goddess in the eyes of men, I feel just like busty women, I deserve to be admired for my beauty... I have a beautiful mind and soul, but that doesn't mean that I can't have that nice feeling of knowing I'm beautiful on the outside too, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): big tits/small tits,fake tits/natural tits, hell we love them all.i myself prefer a firm b or a firm c
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 I fell in love with and proposed to a girl with A cups. She was, and indeed is, a beautiful woman. Hey come to think of it, I've never dated anyone larger than B cups. I never found large breasts attractive... at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): I'm not a big fan of fake boobs. I PREFER smaller boobs (like a cup to b cup). Look at fashion models...many have a cups or b cups. I am more interested in overall proportion and shape, I suppose. I know many guys that like big boobs and implants. I can't ever tell if they really prefer this or if it has just been driven into their head by society that they do. All I know is what I like! I like a fit girl, preferably with small breasts. I am not against larger boobs, but, at the end of the day, there is really nothing sexier than a fit woman with smaller breasts :-)
Embrace what you have and embrace the men that love your body style, and for the love of god, don't try to make men that like you feel bad for liking you. I've dated women with small breasts that are so brainwashed by society that they think only a pedophile could prefer their small breasts! That is really a turn off to have a woman who you think is very sexy basically accuse you of having something wrong with you to think they are sexy!! You are no less of a woman for having small breasts!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): I think these responses are fabulous! My mother had impants and the doctor cut her lung by accident. Plastic surgery is an invasive procedure. Remember how cute Tara Reid was, she is scary now.. I think beingblack made some great points, plastic surgeons are making tons of money tying to make all of us feel insecure, cosmo is trying to sell magazines (try not to read to many of these articles) For some reason I would not want to be friends with someone that had fake boobs., Likewise, I would not date a man on steroids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): I don't think that you need your breasts done to be attract men. Although many men, me included, often notice women with pronounced breasts, when I think about my past, none of the girls I've been attracted to had particularly large breasts. I was deeply attracted to one girl and thought she was incredibly beautiful, but her breasts are not above average size. You can definitely still attract men sexually/physically without large breasts. But I think you know that really attracting quality men isn't about appearance -- it's about what's inside. So I would suggest you do what makes you comfortable. Just don't expect breast surgery to suddenly get you more luck with guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): Big breasts or small, Real or fake... it doesn't matter.Being a 26 year old guy, I can tell you ANY red-blooded male will have sex with you if you are confident, happy and funny.You don't need to have huge noobs to look good. Keira Knightley is pretty skinny naturally and is flat as a board. But there isn't a guy alive who wouldn't spend the night making the best with two back with her.Why? Because she oozes sex appeal and carries herself like those Princesses from old fairytales. Men like to be made to feel manly. Make a man feel that and he's yours for eternity.I like em. Big. I like em small. I like em pointy. I like em round. Supple. Soft. Firm.Its all good. Know how to work what you've got and you'll never want for attention again.But if you trully feel that breast implants are right for you. Then do it. But don't do it for the attention. Do it because it makes you happy.Alway do whatever make you happy.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): i rather have them small and real than big and fake...besides it isn't about the breast it's the person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): I'm the original poster:Thank you, because it gave me a different perspective, it was all very useful advice, and I especially liked askoldersister's:)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 So. If you get your tits enlarged, what then? You will get attention? Nope. Your tits will. You call other women skanks, so that is what you want to be?
If men want big tits, then why do people google for Keira Nightly. Why bother for her to make glamour picks? She got to be one of the flattest women out there and yet, she is a sex symbol.
Most catwalk models are fairly small as well. Any D-cups on "[your country here] next top model"?
You want to be admired by men... why? So you can toy with them? This isn't about finding someone who you love and who loves you. It is about getting the same kind of attention that other girls seem to get. About being popular.
All you got to do is put out. Charge a few bucks and you can even pay for all the enhancements that you want. You will be really popular. Not liked, but popular.
And if you get your breasts fixed, what then? If one guy doesn't look at you, will you have the next thing altered? Fuller lips, bigger butt. Where does it end? Happyness comes from within, not a surgeons knife or being admired by others.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (18 December 2009):
 A guy who loves breasts here. My Wife has big breasts and I love them. But they are hers, all natural. I like real, imperfect, natural, any size, breasts. I don't like sculpted, to perfect to touch, anything. What really turns guys off is "High maintenance".
As much as I enjoy my wifes body, when I really need her , I need to talk to her. It is her mind and her personality that keeps us together.
FA
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Real. Be happy with what God gave you. I actually prefer small breasts myself.
Jeff
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 You've probably heard it before, but I will say it again. Beauty comes from within.
In my past, I went out with all sorts of women. One of the sexiest women I knew was a cleaner in the TV studio where I worked. She was slim, had small breasts, and frankly was a little on the ugly side. But all the guys, me included, tried it on, and had the hots for her. I would have done almost ANYTHING to get with her. Mostly, it was her character. She was a fantastic woman, and somehow managed to keep myself, the producers, the presenters, and the special guests at arms length.
If a woman is attractive and charismatic, and most of all confident, men do not care what size breasts she has. It is only the air-headed, bimbo, dumb blonde type girls who need to try to LOOK good. They have nothing else to offer, no character, no conversation, no humour, just an empty shell.
I am lucky in life, I have had dinner dates with models and TV personalities, as well as office workers and waitresses. The ones who I got lucky with, we shared a connection in mind as well as body. I will admit that my initial attraction was based on looks, but never breast size. If flat chested Keira Knightley and busty Pamela Anderson were competing for my attention (I can dream can't I?), the one who made me laugh the most would end up on my arm.
If you want to get your breasts enhanced, go ahead. But it will not change the quintessential YOU inside. Sexiness is what you are, not what your breasts look like. And remember, real men prefer real women.
You need to work on your confidence, not your body. Men find a confident woman to be sexy as hell. You have a uniqueness. You are the only you in the world. You say you have a beautiful mind and soul ..... so lets see those! Why hide behind an insensitive 'get fake breasts, to boost my surgery, to increase my income, to sell more magazines' Cosmopolitan article? Youre smart enough not to fall for that old trick, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): I had small breasts b-4 I had my son and I have to say I miss them! I could lay on my stomach without squooshing them and i used to run, but now running makes my back hurt. I miss my smaller breasts and it's sad that I didn't realize what I had until they became a pain...literally!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 December 2009):
 I think no matter fake or real, if you LOVE who you are and are satisfied with your own body a man will find you a million times more attractive.
And honestly I rather men look at my face when they talk to me then down my shirt. It gets old fast.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (18 December 2009):
 As somebody who worked in an industry filled with naked women and men leering, I'll tell you right now that most are MUCH more attracted to real breasts. Fake breasts are a novelty, and feel weird. My husband slept with a girl who had fake breasts, and he hated it. Said it ruined the whole thing. Fake, rubbery and he knew that she couldn't get any real pleasure with them - they're just to look at, basically. The fun of breasts are being pleasured from them... and fake breasts are only to be used for pleasure (not fun for quality men).
Small breasts are sexy because they're perky forever. And, can I add that fake breasts - have you seen an augmentation gone wrong? It is HORRIFYING.
Feeling confident in yourself is the sexiest thing of all. And for some women, that takes a couple of plastic balloons on their chest. That's why men chase after them... because they FEEL sexy. Sister, you can feel sexy by loving yourself and maybe going out and buying a really hot bra/panty set to wear. When you go out, you'll have an extra pep in your step because YOU know that you're one hot mama. Keep yourself solid, keep reminding yourself how gorgeous you are (inside and out) and keep your beauty YOURS.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 December 2009):
Hell no! Well, at least a guy who accepts you for who you are does. A lot of men are exposed to a lot of porn, which makes their expectations somewhat different. Just get to know a guy first, and you'll be able to find yourself a great guy.
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reader, kahuna +, writes (18 December 2009):
Wait for a man to come along who is looking for everything you are as nature planned you. Fake boobs and fake guys make for fake relationships with fake endings. Don't waste your time trying to look perfect unless you're a bimbo, but a bimbo would have just got on with it and had all the plastic surgery she can afford without asking for advice. Be yourself and learn to love who you are. There's nothing more attractive to men than that.
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