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*leonor rigby
writes:I fell in love with my friend with benefits. We've been on and off since november 2004. What we have is a secret, even though, after all this long many people realized what was happening between us. He doesn't want anything serious, and neither do I, we talked about it and we were both ok with it. Recently I hooked up with one of his friends, I think he found out about it, and yesterday on the chat he said to me that he was like cleaning his life because of karma :s so he asked me to forgive him if he ever hurted me and then said "just for the record, I want you to know that right now I don't feel anything for anyone and I like being alone, so please don't call me or send me messages, it's just because of karma" He said after that, that we were still friends. I mean... I don't understand how can karma be involved with this, I think it was just an excuse to get it over with and well before we talked and right after the thing with his friend, his nickname was "dissapointed and building a wall" and after the conversation it was "building the wall" Do you think he just got tired of me? or he found out what happened between his not so close friend and me? what should I do?
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (24 September 2008):
well you were intitled to "hook up " with who ever but you said it was a friend of his. to me, that's a no no... he's jealous probably feeling a bit territorial... some guys are like dogs if they don't eat no other dogs can either.. he'll get over it...but if he doesn't girl never hook up with a guys friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Sounds like he found out and he was hurt-hes probably jealous....(guys would never admit it though).. and wanted some alone time
maybe he does have secret feelings for you? I have a friend like that, we have been on/off for years but he says he sees me as a "friend" -soo confusing..
just give him space then confront him about the way he has been acting towards you
do you like him also?
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