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writes:Sooo this guy I've hooked up with 2 times basically let me know this past weekend that all he is really looking for is a good time and nothing more than that. This is cool with me, because I'm not really looking for anything more than that either. He tried meeting up with me this weekend, but I couldn't because I made other plans and it's not like I'm going to move my whole schedule around just because he's horny. Anyways, then he texted me yesterday asking me how I was and how my week is going, so I texted him back saying it was good and then asked him how was his, and he replied back with a kind of long text about how he was going to some class that night and how then later he was meeting up with some friends, and that his week was going well.My question is, if all he wants is to mess around with me, why would he care how my week is going? Does that just make him a nice guy? Does he want to be my friend as well as mess around with me? Does it mean something else? Or am I looking too much into it?
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reader, wishyox96 +, writes (26 September 2008):
i think he mite just b being a good friend. i went out w/ a guy 2 about 2 months and he still talks 2 mi and always askes how i am and he tells mi wen he is goin 2 b in town bc he moved and stuff. he doesnt really sound like he wants 2 get bc 2gether soo u should just think of him as a friend
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 September 2008):
 You might be spending too much time thinking about his motivation at this point. If you're just 'FWB' I think that means that you don't each other explanations of what you do and how you spend your time outside the relationship. I would doubt that he's developing more feelings for you if you went into this FWB just a short time ago.
All you can do is keep an eye on him and the situation, and be thankful he's a nice, polite guy. And my nag for the day, please use protection! There are lots of nasty STDs out there!
Take care.
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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (24 September 2008):
 I, personally, am a great beleiver in respect and morality, so i would say, No, he is not really that worried about how your week is, but is being quietly polite.
It is like saying how do you do? to someone you've just met - you don't really care about his being but are using it as conversation.
i value morality and curtesy, respecting elders etc. because that is what is right.
Well, best of luck,
jelly
xxx
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