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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i...

I like a much younger guy, and now he is flirting with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) - I need advice on something. I told one of my friends that I liked a guy in our college class. The thing is that I'm 23 and he is 17...I told her I was embarrassed about it and that I couldn't help how I felt. I had to tell someone so I chose he...

Age difference and a dying girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school ...

How do I tell my family I'm dating a woman 28 years older than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Hope someone can help, I got talking to someone on a internet chatroom and we have a lot in common. After chatting for a while we both wanted to meet each other and we did and got on really well together, only thing is that she's 55 and i...

Is it wrong to fancy a woman who is 25 when your 44?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

27 January 2012 (M) - Im from the usa and 44 im divored 10 years this march and always dated woman my age . I'm friends with this Irish woman at work and its strange because when i see this particular woman my heart pounds weirdly fast! This woman she is about 5...

Is he using me or...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) - I have been dating a younger man for approximately 6 months. He seems to be crazy about me and treats me like a queen around the house. His situation is as follows: he had a break-down approximately 1 year ago after he broke up with the mother ...

His behavior is out of order! How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (F) - Is there some that could help me? Im in a messy relationship and im 5 months pregnant. Im 27, hes 53. Yes i know huge age gap but age is just a number. we've been together a year/was friends for a year before we got together. When we first ...

How can I prove my feelings are real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 January 2012 (M) - Please help me, I desperately need help and I don't know what to do anymore. I have met the most amazing girl ever. She is kind, thoughtful, sweet, caring, faithful, intelligent, fun..everything that a man could want. We never even argue. What...

I am older than him. He finds fault all the time. How do I deal with this relationship? Is he over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - ModNote: two questions combined, as clearly about the same issues I love my man and even though he's younger than me. He makes a fuss about things and everything he say is true and I'm always a liar. We get together and he pick some of the mos...

Is it a good thing to jump back into the relationship so fast and move in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 January 2012 (F) - I was dating a guy a yr ago he was 41 and I was 20. and at the time i was in trade school, working and taking care of my gmom. And he was working none stop and had to move to atl for his job. The relationship didnt last very long because we didnt...

Will I have to wait around all my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I am 20 and I have been seeing this man (35) for two years. I know I care for him and though I realize that something like marriage cannot happen right now (I want to finish school and be settled in my career first) I wanted to at ...

How do I handle this relationship? He's 22 and I'm 15. My parents do not know about him yet

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

22 January 2012 (F) - I've got a situation.. I'm a 15 year old girl that's in love with a 22 year old man. I met him when I had just turned 15 one month before and he had been 21 for about 7 months. We started talking and when we hung out for the first time it was like...

I miss him a lot. But 4 year age gap. Is he into me? Should I tell him? And if I so could it make a difference?

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22 January 2012 (F) - I've added this guy on my facebook a few years ago out of boredom but never talked to him because he lives in another country. So a few months ago he planned a visit to my country so we met up and I showed him around and we got along well. A...

What is this older man thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts. What conclusions can be made from this? I'd been seeing a 27 year old for a while. I had only just recently turned 18. I decided to take things veryy slowly with this man as I wasn't too happy with the age gap, but sadly began to f...

I think my professor likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 January 2012 (F) - i really don't understand my professor. I heard he is usually strict during classes. He has given me much better grades than my classmates. Last time during classes when i looked up i noticed him staring at me, i don't know what happened but i ...

I want to encourage him, but I don't want to be called a tease if this doesn't work out. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

21 January 2012 (?) - I went on a date with a guy recently. We have another date next week. I just want some advice on how to handle this as I try to feel him out. I'm new to the city I live in and met him through a new acquaintance. I enjoyed chatting with him the ...

Why are only older girls attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - i seem to attract mostly girls older than i am and i know am a cute guy of 22.firstly i have attracted of 25 who loved me so dearly that she does many things for me.there was a time a girl of about 23 also got attracted to me and she also loved ...

I just cant seem to like girls my age!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 January 2012 (M) - So in a weird flip of the coin i have recently started seeing older women. I am 24 and im seeing a lady who is 34 and another who is 42. i have fooled around with a lady who was 63 last week. i really dont know what it is. i find them attractive and ...

Are these signs that she likes me? And is she too old for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

19 January 2012 (M) - Hi im in a dilemma and i have 2 simple questions i need answered,so here it goes. So i started talking to this girl at school and shes the sister of one of my friends. She's cool and i am attracted to her. Today she told me she was freezing and...

Older male cannot understand what's happening!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I am 62 and change. Exactly 1 year ago I met a woman 14 years younger in a retraining program. She chased me, and even when I tried to point out the age difference, she insisted it was not important. We've been seeing each other several ti...

How often does "no contact" work on the heart?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 January 2012 (F) - We were together 15 months. We practically lived together for six months. We were good together, really understood each other, but our timing was off (he's younger and not sure of what he wants in life). I broke up with him because of his ...

Four year age difference. is it too much? Do I go with it? I think she loves me already

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 January 2012 (M) - Is there anything wrong dating a girl 4 years older than you are. I am 22 and and this girl is 26 and i believe she does love me because anytime we are together she likes touching me,she'll like to rub her hands around my body. At times she'll t...

Is he too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

14 January 2012 (F) - I am 20 and recently started dating 31 year old man. We get on well, but is 11 years too big an age gap for a relationship to work in the long run? ...

The ex , the old guy, the inlaws and my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

14 January 2012 (F) - I'm 27 an my life is a big disgrace an sham . I m in a relationship wit a split up male who is twice my age wit two adults kids near enough my age . I ve being with him for nearly 6years now things were ok till his ex got cancer , I stood by him an ...

We argue, don't talk, no sex, no date nights, no vacations. I'm fed up, what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - I'm 31 and my boyfreind is 46, we argue, don't talk for a wek at a time, no sex, he don't take me out movie, dinner, shopping nothing, no vactions together, I'm getting really fed up this being going on for years what should I do?...

I'm sure this older married woman is into me, how do I get her number and get to know her better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - Hi all. Need some advice. I'm 21 years old, and I've been working at my job for over 4 years now. There is a woman who comes in who is significantly older than me (probably mid-30's). She is Colombian, like me (although I don't speak Spanish and she ...

He did say he was selfish. Are his actions reflecting what he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

12 January 2012 (F) - Okay so here is a little backstory you will need to asnwer the question: I was enrolled in a class where my teacher (lets call him ben) commented on my breasts once or twice in class. He also would tease me about how sexual I was but never took it ...

My older girlfriend wants to settle down but I don't feel that attracted to her anymore, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

10 January 2012 (M) - I have been dating this girl for almost a year and a half, she is 5 years older than me and maybe this September we will be going our own ways. She may be in other cities pursuing school. I have to option of completing my degree where she would ...

How do I tell him it's over through text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - am just 16 and my bf is 29..i love him but right now,i have every doubt that he loves me to..but when ever he is tickled he plays with me and tells me how much he love me just 2 make love with him..am so used to him that everytime i cry when ever he ...

I can't go to his house parties and he doesn't want to hang out with me and my friends because of the age difference, and his job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - On my senior year i met this teacher at school. He wasn't my teacher, never was. He was just my UIL coach. When i first saw him i didn't know he was a teacher so i just started crushing on him until i found out he was a teacher, bummer right? ...

Do I tell her she's older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (M) - I'm an engineering student. I'm in the first year. I met a girl on a prominent social networking website. We talk'd. Talk'd about sex. Our sexual preferences. Now, this girl happens to be of my college itself. But, a senior of me. She's in the seco...

Mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (M) - I am confused about this guy I just met. He is 21 and I am 33, secretly gay. We started hanging out and he is sending strange signals. He wants me to go to the doctor with him (v.often now), wants to know my favorite food, picks lint on my clothes, ...

Boy troubles! Do I tell the boy at school to get lost? And is there hope for me with the 19 year boy in the army? I like the army guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - Mod Note: two adjacent questions from same poster have been combined. I'm a freshman in high school and I'm having major "relationship" problems with this senior boy. I don't even know what's going on between us. The other day I was walking in the h...

There's an 8 year age difference, is that OK?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts, i need some advice on what to do with this older man I have been seeing. He is 25 yrs old (8 yr age gap, I'm 17) i have met him only a few times in the month and a half i have known him and other than that mostly keeping in touch ...

Is a 3 year age gap too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

7 January 2012 (M) - Ive recently met a girl who i like. We havent done anything yet, but we get on really well and have been seeing each other a bit. Thing is though, there is a bit of an age gap. Im 20 and she is 17. Is that ok? Im from the UK and the legal age of ...

Sleeping with my boss and dating a new guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

7 January 2012 (F) - hi i have been sleepin with my boss for around six months now but we made an agreement to keep it just sex cuz it wud never work. hes about 20 years older than me, very busy wudnt have time for me properly. i started to get attatchd so i get piss...

What is worse: His age difference or his lie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

6 January 2012 (F) - My BF says he is 38, but i found out he is 45. And i'm 27. Should the lie or the big age difference bother me? Is it too much of a difference? We are planning to take the r/ship to the next level....

Are men in their early 40s usually uninterested in sex? He tells me some relationships don't need sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

6 January 2012 (F) - Hi, do men in their early 40s go off sex?. My partner is 42 and our sex life is non exsistent. He says he is tired and that some relationships dont need sex, that you can be with someone and friendship is more important. I am 6 yrs younger than him ...

I can't get over the crush I have on my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

6 January 2012 (F) - I'm 17, and I know this is so stupid but I have the hugest crush on my teacher. I seriously get butterflies when I see him and we always greet each other. In class when I look at him, he'll look at me and give such a gorgeous half smile, and he'd ...

She's 14. So how do I get over her? and just forget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (M) - hi, so im having trouble getting over this girl... the more i think about her the more attracted i am to her. she 14 im 18 she added me as a friend on facebook cos she's mates with my brother, got talking flriting and that, once she was so upset...

My much older ex won't let me move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 January 2012 (F) - my ex kicked me out of our home in may. he then used me once a week for 4 months until I told him I wanted more commitment - his response was that he was happy how things were going between us and didn't want anyone but me but if I want to rush ...

I'm a boy and I like the guy that helps me in History. How do I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

2 January 2012 (M) - I'm an 18 years old boy and I'm bi. I've got a guy that helps me in History and he's 28 and, to be honest, I really like him as a man. I'm 99.9% sure he's gay, based on the way he acts, speaks etc and sometimes, when he's into his teaching very much ...

Sex turned into love with my boss 20 years older than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

2 January 2012 (F) - im 20 i started texting my boss after a few months of working for him, hes 20 years older than me and things started to get steamy he wanted things to move on but i wouldnt because of the age the whole work thing. but we kept.texting then i agreed ...

If I am a girl 17 and he is 4 years my junior then who makes the first move? Is this OK?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

2 January 2012 (F) - I need some help. I am in love with a close friend but I don't know what to do about it. I am a girl 17 years old, but I am 4 years older than him, so who should make the first move? Who should make the first move me a girl or him a guy 4 year...

I'm only interested in much older women. Is this normal?

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1 January 2012 (M) - I know it sounds strange, but I'm attracted to older women. Not sexually, but in a purely romantic way, which is strange as usuall the two go together. Long story short, when I was like 8-11 I was attracted to my neighbour, who was 37-39 at the ...

Should I see him? He's 28 and I really like him. I just don't want to ask him why he wasn't trusted with his own daughter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

1 January 2012 (?) - Last summer, the summer of 2011, I went on a trip to Norway. It was only three days after the shootings in Utoya, and the explosion. I went there to meet my friends who moved there three years ago. I met a lot of interesting people, but it was all ...