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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Man over 20 with a teen?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am a 24 year old male and I was wondering is it illegal for me casually date a girl who's 17? Or just simply be good friends with her?...

My pattern of preferring much older men is starting to bother me. But are men in their 30s discounting me for dating older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm a 31 year old woman. I live alone and have a career that I love. I'm fairly attractive. I would say I'm an 8 out of 10 on most days. I don't have a desire to get married. I have a healthy fear of getting pregnant or catching a disease. I ...

My girlfriend is 10/11 years young than me! What shoud I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hi Im 32 years and I met a 21 beautiful girl. We had our first date and we kiss each other. She said to me that she just want FUN ... After while she said that she is in love of me, because she didnt know about my personality before. I was very ...

Nervous about going to my boyfriend's works Christmas party...how do I stop worrying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - So my new boyfriend has invited me to his annual works Christmas party at an elegant hotel. Not only am i meeting his friends and co-workers, im also meeting his family. Only thing is, he hasnt told his family yet that we've been dating and wants to ...

17 year old and 14 year old

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hey I'm a 17 yr old guy, my girlfriend is 14, yes I know that a big age differance this young. We are very much in love, strong word but true. I have asked her about sex and she said she doesnt want to go that far, but she keeps throwing me mixed ...

Much older ex says we can't be together but wants to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I'm confused about the guy I've been seeing for the past 5 months. I am twenty, and the guy I have been seeing is 43. I honestly fell in love with him. I can’t stand how much my family is against it, him and I have a lot of things in common. (I kn...

Should I tell the 26 year old I like how I feel? Do I even stand a chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - ok so here is how it goes.im a 16 years old teen who has feeling for a 26 years old guy with me in a department..ive always ignored what i felt because this is weird and stupid..but its just that the guys is amazing and i really get along ...

The man who I thought of as a father figure has started hitting on me and I think its disgusting!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi all, I am feeling so pathetic right now. So I recently got to know this particular someone through my work. He was like a father figure as he was very helpful and I felt like he treated me like a daughter-ish or you know, like h...

Should I move on or wait for my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

25 November 2011 (F) - Well my bf and I decided to split cuzz im 16 and he 21. Its safer. I love him alot, I would do anything for him! We planned on gettn back together when I turn 18, we still see each other and call each other! Just like were still dating. But I dnt ...

Have I hurt the guy I liked? How would I know if he is still interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - I work in a large factory with many different departments. I am now in an office (within factory floors) but was previously just one of the normal labourers….which is where I met this guy. He isn’t from the UK like me and his English really i...

Why is he pulling away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

24 November 2011 (F) - Here's the whole story.. I started dating a man one month ago that I met 10 years ago He was my art teacher (not high school or anything) group lessons But we had a similar circle of friends and he was only about 10 years older. So we stayed in ...

Unexpected feelings have hit me hard!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

23 November 2011 (M) - Ok, my neighbor girl basically pursued me, I felt no attraction of any sort for her in the beginning(except for she was hot), but her persistence, and her cute way, eventually started getting to me without me even knowing, she is 20, im 34, she is ...

Is a 30 year old man too old for a girl of 19?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4745 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - Ok so I met a guy in April met at a nightclub he was 24 we hit it off got together but within about a month weird things started uhappening he kept having serious accidents I couldn't get thru to his phone he could only call me he claimed it was a ...

Has my friend lost it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

23 November 2011 (F) - My guy friend has been dating this girl ten years younger who's really immature. I think he's all caught up in his ego being that she's so much younger. I think he should be with someone grounded and more mature especially since he's got a kid. He's ...

My teen daughter is staying with her gran to finish her studies. Now she does not want to come home. How do I resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

22 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone We relocated to a new city... My mom is currently staying with my 14 year old daughter in our house just till the end of this school year, then she will have to join us in the new city. I think the move is constantly on my daughter's mi...

I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...

He's 15 years older than me and from another country so his English is not great....should I ask him out anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - Ok so im 21 and live in the UK....as most of us know the UK is full of people well not from here and I happen to work in a place where there is more non-UK workers than UK workers. I love my job and my old department was great as I had such a lau...

How do I let him down gently without hurting him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

21 November 2011 (F) - I'm friendly with a guy thru my circle of friends. We met recently and he's very nice and funny BUT too young for me and I don't think I feel any sparks. He's been trying to get me to go out and I wouldn't mind but not more then as friends. How do I ...

A never ending cycle of us fighting and in the end he says its always my fault

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. I've been seeing someone way older than me, and at first I thought he was amazing and everything..but maybe because he puts off himself that way. He thinks he knows best about everything and thinks very highly of himself. He ...

Is he just marrying her out of comfort? Ignore his feelings? if he felt nothing then why did he try to avoid me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - So one of my prior classmates in graduate school and I were in the same class . He is 40 I am 25. Anyways throughout the class we got to know each other and I realized that we had a LOT in common, and in a way we spoke the same "language" I open...

It is ok for a 19 year old to date a 15 year old?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

20 November 2011 (F) - I was wondering if it was okay for a 19 year old girl to date a 15 year old boy. I'm really worried for a friend of mine. He's obviously underage and still a minor and I'm sure there are legal implications of this but she seems so happy with him. I ...

I'm 13, he's 17 we met online, is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

19 November 2011 (F) - okay so I know i'm still young and all but yes so here I go. okay so a little while ago my friend showed me this website were I could meet new people and things like that, so one day I decided I would go and try it out ,so I did. I didnt expect t...

He's separated, but still married and I really fancy him. He's also getting over breaking up with his Gf. Am I doing the right thing to go out with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

18 November 2011 (?) - hey a friend of mine asked me out today, i've fancied him since i've known him but there are a few problems. 1 he's married, separated, but still married. 2 he's just had a messy break up with his girlfriend so he's near enough public en...

How do I overcome my boyfriends past behaviour and gain my confidence back, should I stay or go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

18 November 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I would really appreciate some advice off both men and women please, I desperatly need help of some sort, as much as possible please. I am a 22 year old woman, my boyfriend is 32, I have been with him near 4 years now. He is my fi...

I lied about my age to this 27 year old guy whom I've been seeing. Said I was 20, when I'm actually 18. Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

17 November 2011 (F) - im 18 and im seeing a 27 yr. old, i lied to him about my age and said i was 20, but were really starting to click and hes going to ask me to be his girlfriend soon because hes REALLY into me. I want to tell him before we get any more serious because ...

A guy my age? Or one much older and working? The guy my age is really nice and sweet and very gentlemanly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I really like this guy but recently started talking to him less because he works and i play basketball and the piano. Okay to get more to the point i like this guy but he is much older than i and we started talking less and this new guy i met like...

10 years younger boss: Is he trying to fight the fact that he may be attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

12 November 2011 (F) - I am 56 years old and I look good for my age. I work with a lot of guys, and I am friendly with all of them. But, my BOSS makes me feel uncomfortable. He avoids looking at my eyes... when I try to talk friendly with him, he repeatedly tells me t...

Wondering for the future: Would a 5yr age difference between a 23yr old woman and an 18yr old guy be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering what people think of 4/5 year age gaps in relationships? To give you a bit of backstory - I used to suffer with really terrible anxiety. At 15 I had a sort of breakdown, dropped out of school and just stayed at home. For about...

I'm in love with my dad's 70 year old friend and I don't mind if he's out to have fun with me, because I still want him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

11 November 2011 (F) - hi, I truly have feelings for someone who is about 70.He is my dad's friend.At first, he showed an interest in me.then he managed to get me be alone with him.He said stuff like, he's never taken to anyone like he did to me.He was so romantic...

Would women 35-45 be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

9 November 2011 (M) - I am 28 right now. Since teenage , I have been really attracted to 34-45 age group girls. I find them extremely hot, polite and mature. I am dying to have girlfriend and wife being coming form this age group. I always compliment them ...

I would love to see him again! What do I say or do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - On a cruise there was a very young entertainer half my age -we e mailed occasionally and now he is off the ship and in the city and I said I would be in the city for a day so we arranged to meet up in the afternoon for lunch and catch up with ...

What can I say to this 20 year old guy who is interested in me? I'm hesitant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - I know this guy, he's 20 and am 31 i was just wondering why is he interested in me, when he can have anyone he wants? I am worried about the age difference when keep asking me out. i say sorry I'm too old for you and he says I'm not old. What d...

18 in love with a man 30 years older than me

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

9 November 2011 (F) - basically i am in love with a man who is 30 years older than me. i am 18. we have been 'friends with benefits' exclusively for 2 years but have a stupid habit of calling each other bf or gf. i went to visit him about a week ago and we decided ...

16 year old in love with an attached 23 year old

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

8 November 2011 (M) - I am a 16 year old male an I have fallen in love with my 23 year old co-worker who is dating our manager what do I do? she says she is leaving him for me when she gets her car I just need advice....

What's stopping him from asking me out? Is it the age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

7 November 2011 (F) - I'm a 21 years old. At my work there is this older man that I talk to I know he's about 9-10 years older than me. He's a really nice guy and is always a frequent customer at my work. We always talk and I can tell between us there is an attraction, ...

He promised he'd divorce, but never intended to! How do I show him my life is better without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

6 November 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a married guy for two years.His wife of 10 years could not conceive due to some health problems.So he approached and told me he would leave his wife for me.he caimed they had discussed about it and he was ready for ...

This guy should come with a warning label!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

6 November 2011 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks. He's 55, I'm 42. I got divorced a year ago after 15 years of marriage and haven't dated or had sex with anyone at all during this mourning period. The guy I'm dating at first claimed he had just broken ...

Should I try to get rid of my sexual fantasies about my language teacher? Especially as I do have a Bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old, I have a boyfriend for 2 years now, I love him and he's very nice with me we also get along very well in bed. He is a german so he wants me to learn his language so I took a course at my university. I have never this type who fall...

A 24 year old dating a 17 year old?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

5 November 2011 (M) - I have a question about a 24 year old dating a 17 year old. I'm 24 and 7 months, and I do have a crush on a 17 year old highschooler. I'm wondering is it ok to get to know her and become close friends? I know I can't have sex, but would casual ...

Our first exclusive date. Any tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

5 November 2011 (F) - ModNote: You are 17. It may help if the you posted a follow up on the age of your boyfriend, as the Aunts and Uncles may appreciate that information My boyfriend and I are going on our first exclusive date (just the two of us, we usually go with a g...

Finding it very hard to feel content with my boyfriend and our life at present

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

3 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, How can I find peace and be content? I love my boyfriend very much, and he is a great boyfriend. He is kind, joyous, generous, thoughtful, and considerate. He is respectful and has a wonderful sense of humor. I know he is faithful. He ...