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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I reading this situation right, or am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me understand if I'm overreacting. Here is some backgrounds, I'm 40, divorced, have a kid and started dating online.I don't like to date few people at once so I focused on the first guy that I started talking to. He is 42 single, highly educated and we both have ... (576 words)

What can do, I am still learning how to negotiate conflict in a relatonship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship recently ended with my girlfriend of nearly a year. There was a falling out at my uncle's wedding where my girlfriend was heavily intoxicated and left the dinner table to vent to a bartender about things she did not like about my family. My sister and sister-in ... (387 words)

He seemed interested, but I was at work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - A customer came to apply for a house and seemed like he was interested in me. He asked my name, then told me his as he left. He came back the next day and asked me who would help him with his housing application as I was going somewhere else. I came back to cover for a ... (146 words)

Entitled Flatmate Won't Pull His Weight - What Should We Do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Moved in recently, I replaced another guy who lives here so didn't know the flatmates that well. The day I move in, the girl who lives here tells me that she hates the other guy, that he won't pull his weight in the flat, left a stain she ended up cleaning because he never... (275 words)

I asked before and followed advise but nothing works

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I have written here before asking for advice and I tried to take th advice but I'm still feeling the urge and fighting so hard to be happy - I can't seem to get over my ex- it's been close to a year - it was a short relationship and he wasn't let's just say the classiest guy- ... (271 words)

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't really tell him I was taken ... (435 words)

I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps there and say his son was ... (573 words)

I'm so in love with him but I don't even think I know who he is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - So ive been with my boyfriend a year and 2 months now. I recently found out he was lying about having a Facebook, I never cared he had one in the first place because I trusted him. So I'm on my moms Facebook and I see he still had it when he told me a month ago he deactivated ... (380 words)

How can you talk to a platonic friend everyday you used to have feelings for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Ive been wondering something recently... would love people's takes on it- particularly men! My bf is best friends with a girl he says he "used to think he loved" This was years ago but she rejected him. However he still talks to her everyday (on fb messenger) M... (111 words)

Should I just quit the job I hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been working for the same company as a CNA for 5 years and I absolutely hate my job. I went back to school for dietary aide and I just got a offer in different facility to work in the kitchen.I went for training and I must say I like the job much better.I'm still working ... (97 words)

He says I mean everything to him so why don't his actions show that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all!! In need of advice and I turn to you. Ive been with my guy for a few years. And he messed up HARDCORE a cpl years ago lying, cheating and hiding things. He got busted by being sloppy. And all that he did seriously messed my up in the head, heart and self esteem ... (444 words)

People changing their minds about crushing on you years later...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 January 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - When someone turns you down romantically or makes no time for your friendship, then years later they see you again. Suddenly, like nothing has happened they are all over you, and suddenly attracted you. Do you give them a chance or leave them? Surely if they have such a short ... (101 words)

My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask. He recently left after a nea... (132 words)

I am worried about letting my daughter's father back into her life.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

14 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm a single mum to my beautiful 8 year old daughter and I have struggled in the past but I have always got by. I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant with her, and at the insistence of her dad, I went through with the pregnancy, which is the best thing I ... (492 words)