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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co worker on a night out after I conf... (544 words)

Don't want this to get out of hand. Should I let this messaging everyday friendship develop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I'm a 19 year old female, looking for some wisdom, perhaps telling me what I instinctively know myself but I just need somebody else's perspective. I've recently gone to university and made a great male friend, and currently don't know what I'd do... (277 words)

I still think he cares. How can I convince him that I am fine? Or should I even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age - I was in a five year relationship with a man I loved. He lived with me in my home and we did everything together. We saw a counselor together because we had broken up in the past. In one session the counselor made some comment about my memory because I didn't remember ... (178 words)

The sex is good but I want more!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll get straight to the point: I'm not happy with my sex life. I'e been with my husband for 15 years, we're married for 4. we are happy in our realtionship- though there are always things to work on. He works a lot, which is fine. He is caring and attentive- he doesn't leave ... (238 words)

He wants to move in, I said not without marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,I'm at a time in my life now my kids are grown and now I just want to do me.I have this one guy friend who wants a relationship with me and then hopes of marriage. Our kids are all grown and some have children of their own.He wants to move in with me but I told him ... (123 words)

My crazy abusive ex got a job where I work.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a emotionally abusive relationship for years. I finally had the strength to get away. For years, the cycle was that she would do something horrific to me, and then break up with me. We would proceed not to speak for a while until she decided randomly that she wanted me ... (559 words)

He still has a dating profile up ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - My new boyfriend ( of 2 week ) still has a dating profile online , hes open about it and says he has 'friends' on there . should i tell him he needs to prove theyre friends by showing me the conversations hes having or demand he deletes his profile . I know theres other ways ... (134 words)

Boyfriend lost his job, became depressed and now won't speak to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a pretty bad situation. I dated a guy for 6 months long distance and were very serious- he met my family, I spoke to his, our parents talked- we were on the marriage track. 4 months into it he told me that he was unemployed. It threw me for a loop but I forgave him ... (592 words)

Do women dream about male virgins too?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

9 January 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear female cupids Many men dream of making love to a virgin Girl and teach her all about sex. Do women dream about male virgins too? Personally I haven't had this Kind of desire, although i lost my own virginity to another virgin. My first time was good, but also a ... (161 words)

How do I get him to last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - M boyfriend and I are in a Long Distance Relationship. We see each other every 4-6 weeks. I've been noticing that when we have sex, he doesn't last long... no more than maybe a minute or two at most. His explanation is that because he goes without for 4-6 weeks when I'm not ... (178 words)

Every time we talk on the phone, he is always clicking away on his computer.!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We are both in our early 30's. We are planning to move in together around Summer/Fall. But, I have a problem with him... every time we talk on the phone, he is always clicking away on his computer. It's quite annoying as all ... (358 words)

My husband wants me to date other men for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 17 years my husband for the past 5 year asks med to have sex with other men while we are having sex it gets him harder, should I? I have explained to him sex is more then sex to me, he says for me to go out and date then. I feel unloved and that love ... (78 words)

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together after alot of arguments and ... (159 words)

I like going out with her but it's destroying my self-conference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I go out partying with my Best friend, all the boys flock to her or spend all evening telling me how hot she is. It is destroying my self confidence but I love hanging out with my friend. What to do? ... (48 words)

The sex is frustrating for me, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunties. I've been seeing thisguy for a while and sex is very frustrating for me. Almost nothing he does turns me on and I feel embarrassed because he does take his time with foreplay: kissing, sucking on my nipples ( which are almost numb :/), oral, masturbation... and ... (159 words)

How do I make my boyfriend more comfortable with talking intimately on the phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

9 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend can't talk intimately over the phone, and when I do it makes him uncomfortable. Everything's great when we're face to face together but we're in a long distance relationship and spend a couple of days each month together. We've been long distance for the last 3 ... (120 words)