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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He promised to change if we got married ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently married 5 moths this January, we where engaged for a year and dated a year and 1/2 prior to that. Well now I want a divorce! My husband is the man I married and he swore that after we got ,arrived things would change, but still 5 moths later he is still th... (263 words)

I am in love with my casual sex guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with the guy I am seeing for casual sex, I cannot get over him and the thing is I'm getting mixed feelings about it, like he doesn't ask how's it going normally , he only talks when he wants sex but during sex he wants to cuddle, what to do? It's really hurting me ... (142 words)

I fancy my friend's housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I really fancy my friend's housemate. She doesn't. But he is super nice to her and I wonder if he fancies her. She does not see him like that but it makes me feel sad. Is he just being friendly? I feel that everyone always fancies her over me and so I always feel like the ... (65 words)

He is using me as his "get out" clause.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically me ex fiancé who I have a son with told me that he would stop seeing the girl he's talking to if I had an issue with her and her being around my son. He doesn't seem partically happy about them talking they hardly ever see each other it almost seems like he's onl... (154 words)

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out that in that time my friend h... (93 words)

I am finding it hard to communicate with my perfectionist BF, especially about studying law. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - There is so much going on in my life. I am a 21 year old accounting student who wants to change to law. It is quite depressing especially if i tell my bf (23 years old) of 6 months that because he will be disappointed in me. My parents already know so they are adjustin... (152 words)

I don't want to nag, but my boyfriend won't shower. Solutions? How should I respond?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 26 and I've just got into a relationship with a guy who's just turned 25. We've been seeing each other for months and we've been official for less than 3 weeks. As you can imagine I'm still in the honeymoon phase but he's straight away made himself comfortable as if we're... (322 words)

Guy says he doesn't like me, but others say the opposite. What do you think? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Question: Every guy I know says this guy obviously likes me, but the guy himself said to me it's not that way? He's close to me since my break up 5 months ago. He's brought me out, treated me to food and movies, would come all the way to my neighbourhood (1.5 hrs) to meet me ... (249 words)

How do I even begin to respond to him, when he ignores my good news?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

- Hey guys. So I (27yrs) just started dating this older gentleman (45yrs) whom I've grown quite fond of. We've been dating for a few months now. He doesn't outwardly flirt with me, but he use to ask how I was feeling and if I was having a good day. We talk about a variety ... (258 words)

Do his comments about other women signify insecurity or a potential cheat?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, My boyfriend is very loving, sweet, complimentary etc but he does this thing that is really starting to grate on me... Basically when we watch films/ tv when a fit women comes on he's VERY vocal about it I.e. "id put it in her" "she's so stunning", "id love a go" etc. ... (222 words)

I don't like feeling so alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some advice on being lonely. I posted his question once before and would really appreciate some more help pleasseeeee I've been feeling so lonely that I cry myself to sleep every night. I feel that I have nothing to live for. All I do is go to work or school and have ... (241 words)

I'm dating one boy but think about another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I'm a sophomore girl in high school. I'm dating a junior boy, well call J, but I like a freshman, we'll call F. Any way J and I have been together for 2 months and he doesn't even hold my hand, I'm not sure I like him anymore, but he says he's afraid to lose me, and be ... (123 words)

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go even said if I didn't want ... (179 words)

Why did he tell me about his ex wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy I work with and have been getting closer to him. We've known each other for a few years now but before I was very shy. We have a bit of an age difference so that made me a bit more hesitant as I wasn't sure if he would be interested. Over time we've gotten to know ... (360 words)