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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight but I've done something abou... (276 words)

Did I over-react when I was upset about his weak excuse for canceling his visit?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My long distance bf who lives 3 hours away was suppose to come this weekend to see me. I was really looking forward to it since its a long weekend which means we will have more time together .However he has Monday to Friday job so he is only available on weekends .As for my ... (485 words)

Why is he making this so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - I have so much in common with this guy why is he making it so hard to be more...... okay so I know this guy from social media. We have loads in common when we first started talking he had a BF he asked me to go to a concert with him but I declined due to circumstances at the t... (136 words)

We enjoy each other's company but nothing seems to be starting! Any advice, aunties?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - In April last year I met a guy at a local sports club I go to and over the course of the last few months we've built up a friendship and now regularly see each other outside our sports club. We're both single and in our 30s and at the start of last year (before we met) ... (156 words)

How can I cope with my husband cheating on me two years ago, with a blood relative? He has cut contact with her, but I'm still trying to cope with his betrayal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age - My husband was adopted as an infant. He later found his birth family. Since then he has had sex with his half sister. It is tearing me up inside. I'm still with him, he does not have contact with her now, but I wonder about his heart. This happened two years ago... (63 words)

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

8 January 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had sex for over 2 years and the... (765 words)

My abusive ex is dating again. Would it be weird or wrong if I warn his new Gf about him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, Ok here's the short situation I was married have two kids with the guy. He cheated and abused me verbally and physically. We ended up getting a divorce and I'm finally free of him. He is living in another county now. He does not see the children, but I... (262 words)

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would delete them to keep the peac... (585 words)

Present employer could jeopardise new employment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age - Not a dating/relationship question, but would really appreciate any input from anyone who has any ideas/thoughts on this problem, as it could turn out to be a big problem for me. I have worked for a number of years for a small, family-owned company. In that time I have take... (557 words)

I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my in laws!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my husbands family . He has several family members who beliefs and behaviour are very challenging and they sometimes stay with us as they live interstate . Some are currently or were in the past involved with cults and one ... (194 words)

I always fear something bad is waiting for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! I have a dog of 2 years. I love her like a baby and so does my family. Sometimes I just watch her sleeping and worry about how long she will live. I want her to complete the 15 year mark and don't want to lose her young- of course if I had the option I'd not want to ... (176 words)

Why was my BF not receptive enough to my naughty Snapchat video?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) age 51-59 - I sent my BF a racy Snapchat video. I don't want to say exactly but it was definitely "naughty" and involved private parts. Well, it took him 2 hours to see it and respond. He said... "Mmmmmm. How am I supposed to sleep tonight after seeing that my beautiful?" Then he said h... (235 words)

Am I being over sensitive? or is my reaction understandable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

8 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Feeling fed up! So I'm about to turn 30 in 2 days time I've spent the last year dreading the time coming I don't know why - I know age is just s number etc however my 2 best friends have been insisting that we must do something to celebrate my birthday. So I decided mayb... (157 words)