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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get rid of our anxieties and start to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy I met online. We have spoken a lot and he's asked to meet me. I am extremely shy and it (has) taken me a while to get comfortable with meeting new people. Sometimes it stops me meeting people because I get so worried about them not accepting me for me. ... (103 words)

Need to reset my compass when it comes to men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear all All of my life I have struggled with self-acceptance issues. I tried hard to work on my self-esteem and confidence. I'm pretty confident at the current time but the thing is every time anyone approaches me in an intimate way I find myself pulling away. I tend to fall ... (123 words)

Will guys reject me because of my physical flaw? Would this bother a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I would love people to reply , it would help me so much. thanks. I am trying to work on my self esteem but 4 years ago I was in a bad place struggling with my identity. I rushed into getting a tattoo on my calf. Its quite large, its a vintage mirror with hearts and e... (337 words)

Am I wrong? Is she being unreasonable? Would be unprofessional to tell her what transpired, when I was asked not to by my management?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I was called into a meeting today at work to discuss something, which wasn't a HUGE deal but which was asked to be kept confidential until he other people involved had been informed. My friend at work asked me what the meeting was about and I said, I'm sorry but I was asked no... (115 words)

My previous LDR did not work. My current LDR treats me better. Based on how things are working out does this current LDR have a chance of working out for the best?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf came down to visit me for a little while and we talked about the future. The thing is he is younger then me and much less stable then me. I guess when I started dating him, I should have walked away, but I couldn't and we fell in love. We met online. The both of us h... (568 words)

My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlfriend was there the whole ti... (149 words)

My sisters deserve better. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, im in a very strange situation.. I hate the husbands of my sisters. I regret they didn't marry other people. My sisters are both beautiful and good people. My first sister's husband might not be a very bad guy but he embarrasses her in social gatherings. He is very ... (197 words)

We are five hours apart. Could it be worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - How do i know if it's worth the pain? Me and this guy met online, we live about 4 or 5 hours away from each other, he's just coming up to very big exams... We both really, really, like each other... infact, i think im falling for him, hard and fast... weve only been talking ... (139 words)

He has lied and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has lied to me about how serious an ex relationship was but I don't know why. He said he and the girl were just friends and they flirted a bit but that was it however while over at his house a few days ago I found an old valentines card from her and pictures of ... (163 words)

How can I stop him bringing up my ex'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend constantly keeps on about my past. I'm 4 years older than him and had a long-term relationship with someone else before we met. He's only ever really had flings and more casual relationships before me. We've been together 4 years but the past year or so he's cons... (147 words)

She flirts with me at work but flat out rejected an invitation out. What now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked a woman at work a lot and I was sure she felt the same, we are both bi-sexual. We've been flirting loads but I know she's not had a partner or sex in 14 years (she told me)and does seem to have a lot of walls up. However she has exclaimed she now wants to find ... (417 words)