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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I a coward with a cold heart, for the way I choose to end relationships? How should I do it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - i,am a 50 year old female, been in a relationship for five months,he is really nice, romantic, but he isn't my type. I like big bald football type of guys, he is the cowboys type, good looking, he does all the things a woman wants in a man,so how I end things is I ghost gu... (108 words)

My ldr partner wants to do fun time while apart but I feel extremely unconfident doing so since he watches so much porn

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner is overseas and wants me to video chat him and call him for fun time . The problem is that that he watches loads of porn and I can't help but feel self conscious that I could never be as sexy or anywhere near as good at exciting him as the women he watches . I know ... (183 words)

My boyfriend and his ex are now talking every day and I am not comfortable with it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. Well something is bothering me and I don't know if it's ok for me to be upset or not. About a week ago, my boyfriends ex girlfriends grandmother died. Her and him haven't really spoken for the last year or so. But she called him to let him know and for support. I ... (170 words)

I really want things to work with this man but am unsure how to do so

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm looking for some advice... I've been in a relationship for 3 months. When we first started dating I told him some things about my past I shouldn't have. It didn't seem to bother him then but it's a huge deal now. On top of that I have 2 kids from a previous ... (179 words)

My husband left me and I think he's now coming over to talk divorce. I don't think I can handle it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, So a few days ago my husband left and told me he wasn't coming home again via text. I tried so hard to give him space. I did send a few texts back to him and I never got a response. - Which is fair. The reason why he left is because i had maxed our our credit card and... (262 words)

Christmas gift gone wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - For Christmas this year, my BF got me a weekend at a winery with tour, tasting, and live music. We were so excited to get away for the weekend. I was almost in tears over such a thoughtful gift. It was our first Christmas together and the 1st Christmas gift I've ever gotten ... (342 words)

I met a nice man but don't connect or feel physically attracted. Do I end things or settle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age - Hello need your help. I am a 53 year old single mother. I have been single for 17 years and started dating 7 years ago. Was busy going to school, taking care of ailing parents and raising my kids. Have had two serious 6 month relationships and one 3 month, that ran its course. ... (219 words)

My friend won't say if he is gay or bi should I ask if I can give him a bj?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - I've never done it before but I would like to have sex with this guy I know, I think he is bi,but I can't be sure, I stop by his house every one in a while,I never known him to be with a woman since we have been friends five or six years,he spends a lot of times with his ... (204 words)

How should I handle this situation? I think something is going on between my mom and my husband

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I think there’s something going on between my mom and my husband !! I know this sounds impossible but it seems true !! And I want to get to the bottom of it but don't know how !! My mom's visiting us and it has been here for the past 2 months ! In that time my husband and mom ... (298 words)

Am I too selfish to love anyone? Where or how do I begin to determine what needs to be fixed within me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

21 January 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in a place now where my mentality is adversely affecting my ability to attract a mate. I'll start off by saying as of now, I see women as sex itself. For the most part, I don't care about their dreams, goals, past, family, etc. When I'm around women, I constantly feel ... (464 words)

Why does this keep happening? Am I trying too hard? Is this a confidence issue within me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Why does every close group stop being close as soon as I join? This has been happening since I was little. The whole main reason I joined gymnastics is because I wanted friends. But everyone was so mean to me. They all had their hair done up and made fun of me since my mom just... (213 words)