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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want the words to tell him I don't want to just sleep him, I want a relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

12 January 2017 (?) age 26-29 - Hey! So I've been dating this guy for around 2 months. He lives in Harrogate and I live in Manchester. We both drive and can see each other all the time. But he has just got out of a relationship literally a month before we started dating, he has been honest with me and says... (330 words)

Boyfriend of 5 months constantly mentions how good looking he is

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I (25 years old) have recently started going out with a 26 year old guy. He is a gentleman, treats me well, but I've noticed one red flag (or at least, I think it is a red flag) about him. He constantly mentions how good looking he is. At first, I didn't think any... (548 words)

I love him but he's still not over her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in love with my boyfriend who is my first love, boyfriend, and overall first (in everything). However I am not his. This normally wouldn't bother me as much as it does, but his first was so significant to him that I'm not sure what my significance is to him. They dated... (444 words)

What makes a relationship different from a friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - What makes a relationship diffrent from a friendship? I'm twenty one and my boyfriend is eighteen. At first he would call me pet names say random sweet things and say he loves me randomly and he hasn't done that for the last couple of months (we've been together for ten and he ... (142 words)

What kind of dating etiquette should I go by?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

12 January 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Sometimes when I go on a date with people, I'm not quite sure how it went. Sometimes I think it went well and I don't hear back from them. Is it worth messaging and saying "hey, would you like go on another date?" even after a a few days after date once they haven't gotten back ... (155 words)

Why guys appear to disappear?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking to this guy for 9 months. We argued after and hurt his feelings. He did not forgive me. Then i gave it a time. I did not text him for a while. All of a sudden, he texted me as if nothing happens for 2 weeks. He lives in San Diego and i live in NY. He told me ... (133 words)

How do I say NO to my boss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F) age 36-40 - Dear aunts and uncles, This is not a romantic relationship question, but I need help :) My boss wants to change some fundamentals we agreed on years ago and I need to find a delicate way to say no. I work for a minuscule company as a translator. Our work is completel... (489 words)

I don't fantasize about other men so is it wrong that I feel upset that my husband uses porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I've read a lot of information on porn use following some tension between my husband and I over his use of it . When we first married I did tell him that I was not wanting to be in a relationship with someone who used porn and he assured me he didn't . I knew this was something ... (414 words)

My father told me to stop eating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Ever since I was young, I had problems with my weight. But, my height always masked it. When I was 14 I got "sick" and I overall stopped eating and from 14-16 I was healthy/ a little underweight. From ages 17-19 I was a healthy weight. Now at 20 I am obese. not severely obese ... (267 words)

Is it ok to masturbate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1377 days ago

12 January 2017 (M)

age 22-25 - Being a sportsperson I masturbate , is it okay to do it? I have heard it decreases stamina etc..just please help .... (22 words)

Why do men disappear? And should I reach out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men suddenly disappear? And should I reach out or let it go? Here's the situation : I met a guy a year ago. I gave him my phone number. He lives in a different city but for one year, casually kept in touch (maybe one text a month). Then in Nov, he came to my city.... (263 words)

He told me "nothing happened" when he went for a massage and I don't whether to believe him or not. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner went to one only ones I been with him for 12 years have 4 daughters and the youngest one is only 3 months old I noticed with our sexual relationship I will have sex with him 3 times a week with my choosing and normally it's all the time. It's coming to the point im... (251 words)

I've got an ex husband, an ex fiance and a new guy who all want me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 39 divorced and had been dating someone for 3 years. I knew him from university.He lives in another country. We became engaged. I have gone through a lot for this long distance relationship to make it work. I applied for a fiancé visa for him last year and in the process ... (257 words)

Will sex ruin the relationship or make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

12 January 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - Male(21) Hi..I am 21 and she is she is younger than me. We are in a relationship since last 7 months.We meet frequently.And now I think we both are ready for getting physical. I am confused is sex good for our relation or will it ruin our relation? I am concerned and too seri... (98 words)

Should I be concerned ? He came home from his class, wearing cologne

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

12 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a self defense instructor at our gym. He teaches an hour class one evening each week voluntarily. I noticed this evening that he came home from his class, wearing cologne. This is the first time that I have ever noticed him wearing cologne to his self ... (92 words)