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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is lack of length a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

29 January 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Friends, Need a suggestion from you friends, I am from India aged 28 and getting married to a girl in next 6 months I am worried about my length of my penis, When erect its 5.5 inch. When flaccid its about 3 to 3.5 inch varying. When I do some exercise or Walk my penis b... (105 words)

Why would my co-worker buy me coffee and a muffin?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Today one of my coworkers that I'm friendly with surprised me with coffee and muffin from a fast food place. I normally get to work an hour early because parking spaces are scarce--first come first serve. When I arrived, he came to my window and say hey,I got some yyou goodie... (197 words)

He gets my hopes up talking about having kids and then changes his mind!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - hello all of you, I'm Lauren, I would like you all to know my name. I need some advice. I have just come out of a 16 year relationship, my now ex was a lot older than me and had his fill of life experience, married, 4 kids, divorced and then re wed with one kid. so we made ... (294 words)

What should I do? Is this normal behaviour or is there more to this than she's letting on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - So, I have loved my best friend of over 5 years basically since I met her. We just had one of those instant connections and became best friends the second we sat next to each other in class. Both of us went back and forth about liking each other but not wanting to ruin our ... (727 words)

I want a prettier girlfriend who cares about being fit and healthy. What do I need to do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

29 January 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I want a prettier girlfriend. I've been with mine for a few years now and it seems wrong to leave. I love her but the lack of effort (exercise counts) is making me less attracted to her. Bringing it up makes me the bad guy. What should I do?... (53 words)

I'm 39 weeks pregnant and my husband is causing me anxiety as he prefers drinking and socialising with his friends. I feel unsupported. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 39 weeks pregnant and married for less than a year so we are pretty new. We are currently waiting for the D day and I'm extremely anxious as this is our first child. The problem is that he just isn't there for me. He prefers hanging out with friends drinking and smoking.... (145 words)

When a person leaves their job is it OK to still maintain contact, call, and catch up with them for a drink if they are in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - When someone you work with leaves is it ok to contact him by text or phone even though they have a girl fiend just to see how they are and to maintain contact. What about going for a drink to catch up. Would it make me look like a bad person? ... (51 words)

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at the time with a health conditi... (236 words)

How do I proceed with this situation? How do I process feeling unwanted if it doesn't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2881 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - There is somebody that I like who I am kind of friends with . We get on really well, have lots in common and laugh and joke a lot, as well as chatting when we go to the pub in a group etc. I've been on two holidays with him in a group. I wouldn't necessarily say we are comf... (278 words)

After 9 years together and 3 children our sex life remains bland. I love her. How can I find ways to interest her in oral sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

29 January 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 26 years old. I have a fiancé I've been with for 9 years who is also 26 years old. We have 3 beautiful kids together. My question today is, why won't my fiancé suck me off? I have literally tried everything but I cannot convince her to do it. She never even touch... (489 words)

I want to move and live with my partner in Colombia but afraid of losing my job

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

29 January 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey There, Perhaps this is not the right platform to ask such a question, but I am going to try I am a gay person who is planning to move to Colombia in order to live with my Colombian partner. We thought that we could get married once i arrive , so I will be eligible t... (293 words)

My mother in law walked in on me naked. I put some clothing on. But should I try not to be concerened? My M-in-Law wasn't bothered at all.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1369 days ago

29 January 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are currently on vacation and staying at my mother in laws house for a week. Last night my mother in law walked into my bed room as I stepped out of the the bathroom. I was completely naked. She did not seem at all bothered by the situation and carried on p... (145 words)

How can I get the physical affection aspect re-started in our relationship? The cuddles have stopped.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2880 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I mostly have a great relationship, but for the last few months he seems to touch me only for sex. I like sex, but I'm starting to resent it and not want to have it when it seems to be the only time he really touches ... (132 words)

I am over chasing men. But without a man in my life, then how can I be happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - It seems since I have been 17 years old I have been chasing men. 13 years later an two bad relatiosnhios and a broken home(my parents are miserable together) I have had enough. A little back story ( since my early twenties I have done everything to escape my misery- chased m... (316 words)

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

29 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through therapy (intensive) I ha... (241 words)