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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm in a long-distance marriage and at a loss! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my second marriage and my husband and I live in separate states. There is, of course, a backstory...but my main issue is simple. He does not make our marriage a priority. In this day and age, I don't even hear from him every day. If I do, I might get a short text hear ... (257 words)

Help me! We aren't quite ready for a baby and I'm struggling with my feelings about hearing baby news from others! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! First of all I'd like to say that myself and my boyfriend of 5 years are not quite ready (space and financially wise) for a baby. I would absolutely love one and completely broody which is maybe the reason for my feelings I'm not sure. An ex childhood friend has just ... (214 words)

I’m angry with his mom and his sister and have reached a breaking point. I need input!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, This is a long so please bear with me. I live with my boyfriend and his sister. Some background info: his sister is the youngest. She is a bit spoiled by her parents and doesn't have friends for various reasons. She's a princess. Throws a lot of tantru... (1585 words)

Should I continue dating someone who's 15 years older than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2817 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, My question is should I continue to pursue a relationship with someone who's 15 years older than me? Okay so I am 21 next month , my boyfriend is 35. I did not know he was 35 when we first met because he told me he was 26. He said he knew that I would have looke... (487 words)

Was that a one night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

17 January 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - A couple of weeks ago I was talking to a woman and we were looking to keep it casual. Friends with benefits if you will. Then when we get to my place asked her if she would like to have sex. She said no, and thought I was very attractive and fun, but didn't want to lose my ... (245 words)

What am I doing to not want men to talk to me or want me romantically?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 21 and still never had a boyfriend or asked out. It really upsets me that guys almost never start a conversation with me. I have only had 2 cute guys reasonably around my age start a conversation with me and that was a while ago. Now, only old taxi drivers will ... (154 words)

Am I assuming too much? Should just leave now, as he resembles some qualities of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Modnote: Two very similar posts started off the same and were from the same poster. The two have been combined herein. without repeating the identical start . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . So I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 months. I th... (911 words)

Where's a good place to meet people my age? Any groups or sites you think might suit, and why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved city recently and I'm struggling to know people outside work so I joined loads of groups on meeting people sites. But loads of them (no I didnt join dating ones) are full of thirsty older guys, and it's really uncomfortable being at these sometimes What is actua... (67 words)

How can I find out if I am fertile ... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

17 January 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend other men impregnzte her how ... (61 words)

I still feel embarrassed 8 months later.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

17 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I expressed interest in guy that I was interested in 8 months ago but he turned me down. I felt disappointed but brushed it off and acted like it was no big deal. However, the long term effect was embarrassment. I thought he was interested in me but it turned out he was just ... (94 words)