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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Inside I can be calm and logical, yet I cry too much. Any suggestions on how to control my reactions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

20 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. He's my first serious relationship since college and for some reason, I cry all the time which I've never done before. We have a great relationship but when there's even a slight issue, I cry. I don't cry on purpose, it just happens natural... (280 words)

She has decorated my bedroom space with love letters and trinkets and it's suffocating. What can I say and how should I approach this subject?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

20 January 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I am in quite a new relationship with my girlfriend (just over 6 months) and things have been going well. Although recently she has started to decorate my bedroom with photographs, love letters and little trinkets. It is sweet, do not get me wrong, but it is my space and I f... (195 words)

I want to celebrate my birthday and Chinese New Year. How should I ask my parents to allow this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

20 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone So basically, my parents told me not to have any hangouts with my friends until my exam is over which is at the end of April. So my 18th birthday is in a week's time and happens to be on a school day, so my friends want to celebrate my birthday on Saturday. Coinci... (245 words)

Is he not telling the truth in an effort to not hurt me? I'd rather he tell me the truth.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

20 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - In 2013 my partner and me split up, he met someone else become engaged and ended up having a little girl with his new gf, which is completely understandable. I only found out due to my friend seeing them both out and about, with her other children and the new baby. To cut a l... (246 words)

How do I fix this? She took off her engagement ring and handed it to me. She's since taken the ring back, but we haven't spoken since.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

20 January 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. We have been dating almost 5 years and recently engaged. I have a great passion for traveling. In fact we are planning our vacation which will be our first together. Last night, I told her I will also have my own travel plans alone or with my guy friends(friends with... (126 words)

Fed up with him. Don't think I can trust him any more. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

20 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone ive been with my fiancé for 3 years now just lately I don't feel happy anymore and now ill explain why. We met through facebook and after that he told me he doesn't use facebook anymore. I had him on my friends list he just never bothered using it, up until recent... (311 words)

I'm starting to miss him. Was leaving the best option? How do I heal from being a victim in an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

20 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, After Christmas (2016) I left my partner, as I came to realise I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. It was slowly wearing me down and I started to get ill; for the first time in nearly 20 years, my eczema came back and spread all over my body. I felt d... (341 words)