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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Moving in together and disagree on houseguests. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both 26 and moving in together for the first time. We’re doing it for the right reasons and discussed everything we could think of before making the decision together. Currently we spend most of our time together at his place, and share some expenses, so ... (546 words)

Why can't I shake this crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Aunts and Uncles.. I'll make this as quick as possible.. I have been working at my company for 8 months now. I have a few bosses here, but there is one in particular who I am so incredibly attracted to. From the minute I met him in our interview, I was almost ... (609 words)

He went out of his way to get my number but never called

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok on a friday night at the gym i noticed this guy looking at me and well there was a mutual attraction. He kept looking at me the whole time i was there. I had gone into the hall to take a break and he passed by me as he was leaving and passed by me and ask how i was doing an... (350 words)

Was he wrong for hitting me or am I being dramatic?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together 8months, I was pulling a silly face he didn't like and to stop me doing it he slapped my face, not hard by enough to shock me a little. He knows how I feel about face slapping (from previous bedroom antics) He was very apologetic wh... (103 words)

We had a social scheduling conflict so my boyfriend cancelled his plans with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I used to set up social events for our large group of friends as a pastime. However we became busy and stopped, and finally set one up for this weekend which we had been planning to for awhile. 10 said yes and 10 more said maybe attending. However, four ... (434 words)

Do these fake profiles suggest he's living a double life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello,so let me start off by saying that my boyfriend(in his 30s) has never been the ''social media'' type of guy or at least that's what he told me, He does not like pictures to be taken of him or even with me!, so one day during thanksgiving 2014 I remember being excited to ... (354 words)

I love my partner but we've been having sexual issues and I'm starting to develop feelings for a colleague

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years and we have been extremely happy. We are best friends and have been since the start. Very recently I have started developing feelings for a colleague. I still absolut... (325 words)

Is it my fault I got put into the FWB category?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been a woman that holds myself with dignity and believe that I have a lot to offer a man in a relationship. I am in no way saying this to brag or boast myself but my personality has always shined and others have told me so as well. I went on a date with a guy ... (338 words)

Is this friendship a lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so the deal is I have a friend who is possibly a flip flopper. She has been diagnosed with depression which may hide everything in plain sight. She has moved to London over a year ago which she admitted it sucked for her because she had to re-adjust under high pressure. S... (178 words)

Should I support my ex? I feel angry and ashamed of succumbing to his desperation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I were together for 2 years but in the end it became unhealthy and toxic. He became verbally abusive and was flirting online with other girls which made me depressed and anxious. In the end I had to go ‘no contact’ in an attempt to get over him. It was hard but I ... (520 words)

Am I right or is my flu messing with my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all, I have the flu. Anyway, I was seeing a man, and out of the blue he broke up with me. I said ok. We had only been seeing each other for a month. Then he begged me to give him another chance, for two weeks non-stop. I give him another chance. The following week, I ... (100 words)

Retroactive jealousy on my part. Plus why would she go and look for another dom given everything that has happened?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1197 days ago

19 January 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Folks, First off, let me say hi as I am new here! Please excuse this long message but I need to try to explain my feelings and also explain some of what has been said. My problem is with retroactive jealousy over my girlfriends past. About my girlfriend. She ha... (1338 words)

I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets very angry and frustrated with mone... (332 words)

Shall I tell him? Do I let it out or just walk away without saying anything ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you tell the person you love that you have feelings for him ? Despite the fact he is not that friendly to you and never indulges you in their personal thoughts and life ? I have been thinking about telling the guy I love that I loved him but not anymore and that i don't wa... (159 words)

He stood me up numerous times but the one time I tell him I can't meet he ends things??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - In december last year a guy popped up to me. we had both known of each other for a very long time, he had even been following me on all my social media platforms since 2014, but only december he decided to make his move. he was really intense bombarding me with messages ... (715 words)

Why won't my friend admit that he is married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Aunts! Of late, I've been speaking with one of my friends who is married for 2 months now. The issue is that he has fallen for me and won't even accept or acknowledge his marriage, when I already have seen their pictures (why would he lie to a friend! It irked me to a gr... (158 words)

Should I end things? Boyfriend's friends are vulgar and rude

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I end my relationship?. My boyfriends friends make disrespectful comments , such as saying "get them off" to me ( meaning my underwear ), and asking my boyfriend if his finger has been inside me ( you know where ), and making gay rumours up about my boyfriend. It is ... (135 words)

He lacks a stable job and a career so I'm breaking up with him. Am I not openminded?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

19 January 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've put a lot of consideration into this and I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. It's not that we don't get along - we get along rather well and have a great time together. He is positive I will be his future wife and has informed his family of this. H... (432 words)